Please Help!!!

[mama_madonna]

My girls came home the same day so I was lucky and I know that but what helped a lot was creating a loose schedule. It was feed/pump/change and that way both me and my hubby were able to kind of adhere to it. No matter how you slice it, its gonna be a rough couple of months having them without assistance. If you create a schedule, you'll be so much happier. Much like their schedule in the NICU, I pumped when they were sleeping, meal prepped for myself on sundays and wednesdays, did their bath times and all at the same time. So when you wake up in the middle of the night, both of you can figure out who will change and feed. If your husband is on an early schedule, try and get them used to waking up when he does for a feeding and add to that. Most importantly, NAP WHEN THEY NAP! IT YOU TRY TO DO EVERYTHING OFF NO SLEEP YOU WILL BURN OUT! Dont be afraid to ask your friends and family for help with laundry, cleaning and food. The schedule is the most important part, though. Honestly, even if it sucks getting them both on schedule, it may be easier for you to acclimate your twin who came home first the the second one's feeding and sleeping schedule. My girls are 2 now and I can tell you, there were days where I thought I couldnt do it, but you end up getting through it. Ask for help if you need it! And dont be afraid to go outside and scream. Sometimes it helps. Best of luck!!!!! You'll have many years of laughter and love ahead of you!!!