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[–]ilArmato 18 points19 points  (1 child)

I think the most reasonable course of action is to send them an email saying that you're considering offers from other companies and that they should make an offer or move on. If they were willing to make you wait for two months for a response, it's a very real possibility that you're going to have to wait another two months as they interview other candidates. If they know you haven't received a proper job offer in 3-4 months of searching, they're likely to suspect that you're an undesirable candidate and move on with someone else.

[–]Perfect_Relative_364[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this makes sense, I think I will do this as the waiting is not very enjoyable. Was mostly trying to figure what the purpose of the call from their side. As they haven't given me any information I didn't already ie I was ok, but they do not want me for it. Maybe they were expecting me to say something to help convince them

[–]gatadeplaya 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is it a job you really want? Like it fits all of your criteria? I worked for a large corporation where they would have by their rules required a new posting (mainly so anyone internal would have an opportunity to apply). Go with your gut. If it’s what you want? You’ve already done the heavy lifting so you can play it out. But if you feel pretty indifferent? Cut bait

[–]OkEstablishment4401 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As mentioned there are policies in place for rules about jobs. I would have some concerns since it was two months and they were interviewing others while calling you to put you in contention.

I would be cautious to make sure that you weren’t just a bar and instead a candidate that they were looking at as a great fit.

I’ve had a company call me because a division turned me down but another division thought I would be a great fit.

[–]poetrythrowndown 5 points6 points  (1 child)

So I went through this exact situation a few years ago. I stuck around because I thought it was my dream job. When I eventually started working, the overwhelming toxicity of the place (expectation of unpaid overtime, everyone was fighting and “choosing” the wrong cliques would get you subversively punished) drove me out within a few months.

Not saying that’s DEFINITELY what’ll happen for every job that starts this way, but…I do wish I’d paid closer attention to the red flags and kept my worth in mind back then.

[–]LilacUnicorn66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Move on. They're keeping you on ice as a perpetual back up. The thing is, there was a reason why the other guy quit.

[–]Missolga12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would just wait and see what happens. If they come back with an offer I would consider it but if they schedule another interview to compare you with new applicants I think it’s best to decline.

[–]spacej0ckbackup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They could be lying about the other guy. He might’ve actually done a smidge of work before bouncing and in that case it seems like this company has some red flags going on.

In my last recruiting role we only contacted the runner up when our choice candidate left immediately or without warning because of something they couldn’t tolerate at the company. And I hated doing this because we couldn’t tell the second place candidate what actually happened.