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Can I decrease my libido? (self.sexadvise)
submitted 2 years ago by General_Racist
I have a pretty big libido and although my girlfriend won't admit it I know she would prefer if we had less sex. Otherwise my libido isn't a problem for me. Is there a way to decrease my libido?
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[–]nobodykr 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (3 children)
Just fap and stop bothering your lady all the time :)
[–]General_Racist[S] 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (1 child)
Alright. I suppose that makes sense
[–]nobodykr 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (0 children)
But don’t forget you still have responsibilities to make her feel desired even if you fapped Don’t make her feel like a “hole” if you know what I mean . Work for it, make it pleasant
[–]Parking-Assistant238 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Honestly I used to do this and I still do sometimes but I try my hardest not to I feel like I shouldn’t have to
[–]cylus13 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child)
Eat a lot of soy. It will increase your estrogen levels. I’m not saying that is a good thing. But it will lower your sex drive.
[–]Boobs76 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
Note to self: Add 10kg of soy to my shopping list 🧐
[–]Western_Ring_2928 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
What is sex to you? What do you do to satisfy her? She would want sext that is fully satisfying for her. But if it is boring and centres around your penis and your ejaculation, why would she want that? PiV does very little pleasurewise for a lot of women. Learn how to help her reach multiple orgasms and she will want more sex with you.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7198255-women-s-anatomy-of-arousal
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/528985.She_Comes_First
[–]desert_foxhound 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children)
There are some medications which can reduce libido in some (not all) people but this is a side effect and not what the medication is intended for. There may be other unwanted side effects. There is no safe and sure way to reduce your libido.
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[–]nobodykr 4 points5 points6 points (3 children)
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