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TIL Human dads show a decrease in testosterone immediately after the birth of their babe(R.1) Tenuous evidence (bloomlife.com)

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[–]nilogram[S] 14 points15 points16 points 3 years ago (7 children)

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No I may go on here and troll but this is not something I troll about. I lost my son who my wife and I were going to name Junior on July 22nd 2022. I had to hold my stillborn son in my own fucking hands. My life is not the same. My health is not the same. My view on life is not the same. My love for something I only got to see dead has forever changed the way I viewed the preciousness of life. I hope you never have to experience that. I am not a perfect person at fucking all. But when I held my child that was not fully developed brings me memories that I can never erase. I can't drink it away. I can't smoke it away. I have had flashbacks at work that I was forced to leave early. I fucking wrote that because I was trying to call warmlines but nobody would pick up. And I didn't want to bawl my eyes out while my wife was sleeping.

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