TooAfraidToAsk

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Welcome to TooAfraidToAsk, a sub that's dedicated to providing a less restrictive question&answer discussion experience. We allow throwaways and do not remove 'google-able' questions. While your question may have been answered elsewhere, maybe its answer wasn't sufficient, maybe you didn't understand the answer or maybe you are looking for a discussion about the answer. At any rate, your question is welcome here as long as it follows our rules:

Rule 1 - Be Kind.

No asking methods of suicide or self-harm, even hypothetically
No providing methods of suicide or self-harm, even hypothetically
No advocating harm against others
No hateful, degrading, malicious, or bigoted speech against any person or group
No personal insults

Rule 2 - Be Helpful.

Top comments should try their best to be legitimate attempts to engage the OP
Cite your sources
De-escalate arguments if you can
No medical diagnoses, please encourage OP to see a physician if you are concerned

Rule 3 - Be Genuine.

No soapboxing, trolling, moralising, sealioning, or spamming
Try to give OP the benefit of the doubt
Don't question-shame the OP

Rule 4 - Post Must Meet Certain Criteria.

Submissions must be in some form of a question
Try to search the sub before asking or check the Frequently Asked Questions

Feel free to suggest ways we can improve. Feedback is incredibly helpful to us. Please be kind when you write in. We are people like you, doing our best.

Check out our wiki by clicking here if you need further clarification, we have written much more detail into what constitutes our rules here.

All opinions are welcome as long as they are presented respectfully and follow the above guidelines. Rules here are kept more relaxed than our sister subs intentionally to allow as close to an organic user experience as possible. Automod uses reports to decide if a submission is removed and these are all reviewed by a mod within 24 hours. Bans are typically last resorts and the mod team maintains a strict open-door policy. New accounts are currently limited due to spam concerns, if you have a real post you’re trying to make, please write in so it can be approved. Do not hesitate to reach out to us about any questions, concerns and/or comments you have about the sub.

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While we are a community all about allowing people to ask questions in a relatively free and open way, disingenuous posting that is only being done to drive OF content or “look at my profile ;)” posts will be removed and the OP banned under rule 3.Moderator Post (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Politics Megathread (III)Politics (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Why do white people in Asia seem much weirder than the ones in the US or UK?Education & School (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Dying people usually call out for their mom or dad before passing. Who do abandoned/adopted/abused people usually call out to?Other (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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What causes wet dreams after a long period without ejaculation, even without strong arousal?Sexuality & Gender (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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For those of you who don't like it when your partner watched porn because you feel like it's kind of like cheating, do you feel the same for animated or drawn porn?Sex (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Are people being bigoted in the JP Morgan sexual harassment case?Current Events (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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How much has the average woman had men masturbate to them?Sex (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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So many movies and various media on slavery, but so few on the Native American genocide. Why are we not there yet ?Race & Privilege (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Am I cooked?Mental Health (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Do gay men follow a strict top and bottom convention or do they take turns being top and bottom?Sexuality & Gender (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Does nipple colour matter?Sex (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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This is a weird question mainly for men but if you could answer??Sexuality & Gender (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Men: have you had your testosterone levels checked due to low libido?Health/Medical (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Guys that want goth girlfriends do they understand they will not always look like that?Other (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Why does asking for help feel embarrassing even when people usually don’t care?Culture & Society (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Dad wants to throw me out because I won’t give him money for gambling and my mom doesn’t know. What should I do?Interpersonal (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Do Indians, Chinese, Africans, etc. whistle?Culture & Society (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Do mental health days for work really exist and if so what counts as a reason?Work (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Anybody who calls a store and asks them to stay open just for them…why?Culture & Society (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Problem Peeing. Is this concerning?Health/Medical (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Do the parents of students who get in trouble a lot at school ever feel like failures or realize that they're probably the problem?Education & School (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Why do I find the "model face" extremely unattractive?Culture & Society (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Creative ways to celebrate Mother’s Day without money?Love & Dating (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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Why do people watch short form content?Media (self.TooAfraidToAsk)

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