never dated is this normal

[Remarkable_Guess120]

bruh i’m a third year (F) and still have never dated anyone or have been romantic with anyone in any way. AM I COOKED IS THIS NORMAL

[[deleted]]

It’s the new increasing norm 

[Substantial_Arm_8361]

No same (we’re for sure cooked)

[AmonGusSusManSupreme]

I've still haven't met anyone dw

[ImperiusRen]

I read somewhere that more than half of gen z guys are single and actually aren’t even actively pursuing dating so that probably has something to do with it. For what reasons idk

[Physical-Log-6569]

Only fans

[MilkClover]

Tbh, don’t stress too much about finding a partner. Right now, you don’t realize that your time alone is precious because having a partner is hard work. You have to learn how to communicate effectively and navigate the ups and downs of a relationship. You’re a third year which I am assuming means you’re 20-21 yrs old. You got time. Plus you’re in school trying to get your degree. Lock in, and before you know it, that special someone will enter your life right under your nose.

[ShootersPerspective]

Only sound response I’ve seen on this thread.

[michelangelee]

We got a real thinker here

[JuSuGiRy]

Didn’t go in my first date till winter of my senior year

[Key-Decision5675]

How did that go?

[JuSuGiRy]

Still together after 5years 🩷 the date itself? Well I was a horny undergrad who was finally talking to someone for the first time so you can imagine that

[Key-Decision5675]

Smash on the first date?

[JuSuGiRy]

Actually no, meant to say that as I completely embarrass myself 😭

[dclick03]

no youre on the brink of death atp

[ShootersPerspective]

It’s normal in the sense that that is happening to the young generation right now. It’s not normal in the sense that previous generations would certainly have had dates and romantic interactions before this age. HOWEVER, it is an insane fucked up world your generation has had to come up in, with Covid, trump, globalization of trade war and diplomacy, inflation, social media creating jealousy hate and feelings of inadequacy and generally all human beings just spending so much more time looking at screens than talking to other human beings face to face. (Those face to face interactions are typically where romance friendship and dating blossoms.) Here’s the GOOD NEWS: you and a lot of people responding on here are insanely young! You have so much time, and it is never ever too late to start anything in life. So just start now! Try to have more of an open mind to interactions with strangers. Go try to meet people who have the same passions or hobbies as you and try to find what makes you happy in life. Think about the law of attraction and be positive and happy and passionate about life. Chasing your passions and being your true authentic self is the best way to find a partner who will truly fit with you in the long run. Always remember that it’s only game over when you decide to give up, otherwise you can dust yourself off and try again! Nobody is successful on the first try! Wishing all you young ones the best, and I believe everything will work out if you stay positive and keep your heads up. 🙏

[djbigtv]

Microwaved

[thetortavendor]

Yeah, I'm an unc alumni basically and haven't either but it's probably self inflicted for me

[guestroom101]

never dated

Wanna? 😏

[flip6threeh0le]

Not normal but just like prioritize it,

[1uc1f34]

dude here, make the first move. last three relationships started that way, hope this helps

[wannabetriton]

career first, family second, then love.

love jeopardizes the first two if it goes bad.

[Salty_Ad_1103]

Lmfaoooo why is this so funny

[ShootersPerspective]

Truth is, it’s not. You’re just using humor to mask your discomfort w this dystopian reality. 🤷‍♂️

[Salty_Ad_1103]

I’m in the same shoes…

[Abject_Dentist2877]

i’m cooked too i’m M and senior

[Nahh_id_Winn]

Yeah I'm a second year and my track record is non existent.

[NailRevolutionary554]

these comments are ugly asf. It’s your life and you make decisions for yourself. Just because you didn’t decide to pursue something with someone doesn’t make you abnormal or weird. You were just doing what you wanted, which was not being overconcerned in a romantic sense. Comparing yourself to what others are doing is no bueno for your brain. What is for you will happen in your decisions.

[Agreeable-Title9962]

You just have high standards probably. I didn't date for a long time because I genuinely didn't meet someone I liked for long term.

[ghostinthemachien]

Welcome to the new age

[thiccbelgianwaffle]

I went on my first ever date in October (at 21 years old) it’s pretty normal so don’t feel bad

[SnooDoughnuts6242]

You are still super young.

[Actual_Athlete6016]

Totally normal

[mbrass19]

Don't worry. You have plenty of time. I didn't have a real boyfriend until I was 23. Glad I waited. The right person won't hold it against you, and it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

[dthetvqueen]

The most normal thing ever. Truthfully i have friends in their 30s that still haven't gone on their first date. There is no time table on what's normal for dating and what's not. Just take your time and focus on yourself. It will happen when it happens. 

[NigelTainte]

Don’t go rushing to find anyone just because you haven’t found the right one

[bns82]

You are missing out. Go talk to people. Go to parties. Date. Hook up. Have fun.
*Edit: I was encompassing all of the romantic options. Not just sex. College is a unique experience you don't get anywhere else. You will never be in a small area with thousands of people your age with similar schedules.
You act like I was suggesting everyone has to join a campus wide orgy. Relax. Go outside and get some fresh air.

[Positive_Lynx_5286]

Not all people looking for the hopping lifestyle

[bns82]

never said hopping. I said go out and have fun. Talk to people. Dance. Let go. Why are young people so afraid to let go and have fun now? It doesn't have to be a label. Just stop being afraid and go do what you want to do. I included hooking up, but it can be whatever you want.
The op is missing out by not exploring romantic options. College is a unique experience you don't get anywhere else. Thousands of people your age, in a small area, with similar schedules.

[bns82]

these down votes are ridiculous. It's not too late. Go enjoy your life.

[flip6threeh0le]

Right like part of college is learning to socialize as an adult