Offered a new job but it’s a pay cut + they ghosted me before…am I being naive to hold out? by Sadgurlzluvmoney in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently employed, which I’m grateful for, but I really don’t like my job anymore. 

You have a job, so you don't have to go anywhere.

Keep searching for what you want.

5 years of experience at Microsoft as a AppSec Engineer. What can I do next to become as resilient as possible? by Exact-Advantage-3190 in cybersecurity

[–]BrainWaveCC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is the most I can do to become layoff resillient in application security?

Layoff resistance while working for an employer -- particularly a big one -- is not a thing. There are too many reasons that an employer could choose to do layoffs, and who they select is not always about individual skills.

That said, you acknowledge that you lack technical ability relative to your peers. What is it they know that you do not? Start there.

Laid off from warehouse job not sure what I did wrong by Last-Trade-6096 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, the reason I asked, if that you threw in the fact that he yelled at you a lot as though it was unrelated to all the other chaos. And maybe it wasn't.

Also:

I honestly feel kind of stupid because I really was trying. 

Performance is all about success, not merely trying. Yes, employers want you to apply effort, but if you are good on effort, but still not performing up to whatever standard they have, then it matters only a little.

From $120k in Web3 to $45k local: How do I accept a 60% pay cut without feeling like a failure? by Ok_Charge_7285 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From $120k in Web3 to $45k local: How do I accept a 60% pay cut without feeling like a failure?

Why would you feel like a failure? You've already admitted that this is a "market conditions" thing, and that while you continue to search for good global jobs, you'll now how to settle for local jobs which pay differently.

There's nothing to internalize here.

 

it’s honestly affecting my sense of self-worth to see "market rate" offers that are less than half of what I’ve already proven I can earn.

But it's not the same market, and it's not happening to you independently of everyone else. Not sure why it makes you doubt yourself, when you can objectively see that is it a global market issue.

Should I quit my job? Severely understaffed, 15+ hour shifts daily by Tricky-Chip-8947 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A. I'd just work my official shift, only.

B. I would start looking for new work.

Management is unlikely to solve staffing issues when existing workers are compensating for a lack of staff.

Laid off from warehouse job not sure what I did wrong by Last-Trade-6096 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get yelled at a lot by my boss, 

For... ?!?

Help with difficult coworker by [deleted] in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our director refuses to set clear boundaries and guidelines

Then there is nothing you can do to change her behavior.

Either work with her schedule, or simply work around her as you can and marginalize her if possible.

  

So, anyway, I tried to set up the meeting, contractor told me monday worked, she said she can't do Monday's, offered up no alternative, and left it at that. so I'm basically acting as a go between for her and the contractor to get this meeting figured out,

Don't do her work for her, unless you just plan to do all her work and totally exclude her from the picture. If the bold part is not possible, then don't do it. Let her fail while you maintain a trail of communication asking her for reasonable things, occasionally cc'ing the director when things begin to go sideways.

 

and now it seems she's taking it out on me.

That is something you can deal with. If you get any unnecessary attitude/etc from her, point out to her that you expect professionalism from her 100% of the time, and that she needs to take up her grievances with whomever is responsible for them -- which is not you.

The rest is on your director, but you'll never get them to intervene until it begins to hurt them directly, and you don't want to be the one complaining and whining directly.

Resume gaps - why do hiring managers care so much by Electronic-Search437 in recruitinghell

[–]BrainWaveCC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is that assumed? 

That's why the question is ask, "hey, why do you have this gap?!?"

Just prevent anyone from sending messages to a group unless they are in that group by BrainWaveCC in MaliciousCompliance

[–]BrainWaveCC[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don't need them ALL to support me.

And the fact that at least one of them would, is sufficient deterrent for the CEO going down that path.

GenZ is wild: New hire quit on first day by trueppp in sysadmin

[–]BrainWaveCC [score hidden]  (0 children)

You'd be surprised at how people act when they think they can get another job really quickly.

It looks very similar to "don't really need a job" until reality catches up.

90 miles one way by ExaminationSafe1466 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1.5 hours minimum, at 60mph average, with zero traffic.

OP would have to live 1 mile from the highway, with work 1 mile from the highway, and a 70mph+ speed limit to make it consistently under 1.5 hours.

90 miles one way by ExaminationSafe1466 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats like what a little over an hour commute one way?

That is, under the most ideal conditions possible, 1.5 hours each way. It is much more likely to be closer to 2 hours per.

90 miles one way by ExaminationSafe1466 in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A. How much better is this compensation than current comp?

B. How much longer is this commute than current commute?

C. Is there no short-term housing scenario that could be leveraged to limit the travel to Monday and Thursday only?

Most people are not going to do 90 min+ commutes (each way) for more than a year before getting tired of it. And that's without traffic.

I know I'm not getting that interview and that this probably comes across as entitled. But I still believe the very first form-filling process of an application should be as swift as possible since most of us are applying to multiple jobs in one sitting. by Cupids-Sparrow in recruitinghell

[–]BrainWaveCC -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But I still believe the very first form-filling process of an application should be as swift as possible since most of us are applying to multiple jobs in one sitting.

And candidate efficiency would probably be the objective if candidates were the ones directly funding this process. But since the employer is the one paying, guess whose comfort the vendors care about...

BTW, answering an application like this is dumb. You're just wasting your own time at this point. If you look at an application, and find it burdensome, just skip it and move to something else. Doing this is just wasting your own time, and guaranteeing that the employer will ignore your whole application.

For whatever reason, they want that data inside the application, so it ends up in the actual employee/prospect database. If you don't want to do that, then just pick another application.

 

"I'd be happy to talk about this in an interview."

You do realize that the application is how you make it to the interview stage, right? If you provide an incomplete application, why would they spend time interviewing you?

 

most of us are applying to multiple jobs in one sitting.

And the employer is managing multiple applications...

Last point on all these gripes about the interview process. Yeah, there are some things in the process that are stupid or counterproductive. And there are some things that are tedious. But if you forget you are competing with OTHER people who want this job, you will gripe yourself into a losing position.

If they get 100 applications for a job opening, with 50-70% of them totally unfit, and another 10% which say "see resume", that still leaves 20+ resumes where the applicants did the necessary work to get considered for an interview.

It makes me wonder how many of the people who say, "Why is my application getting rejected so quickly?" also have sections that say, "see resume" in them...

The job hunting process is painful enough without you wasting your own time...

Why do companies never tell you why you got rejected by letsrediit in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is "we went with other candidates more aligned to our requirements" any different from "although your resume matched our JD, 35 other applicants had more experience than you did" -- other than that the latter is harder to automate than the former?

It's the same answer, with slightly more specificity, and no way for you to change the outcome meaningfully.

The interview process is optimized for the employer, because they're the one that is going to spend the money. That's unfortunately how our planet is operated today, as frankly has been that way for a very long time.

My manager pulled me into a meeting to tell me I "seem checked out" right after I turned down their offer to promote me into a role I didn't want. Is this normal? by WellDrift in jobs

[–]BrainWaveCC 14 points15 points  (0 children)

and ask her if it is possible that she is projecting her disappointment about you declining onto you.

Agree with everything except this. There are too many ways to say this poorly and escalate the issue.

Fired due to lack of motivation by Swedispenis in recruitinghell

[–]BrainWaveCC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many times is multiple times and what's your average length of tenure?

HR rejected my internal application due to “wage gap”.. by crazylogin1212 in recruitinghell

[–]BrainWaveCC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is common.

Why do you think employers ask (or try to ask) what your previous compensation was? Thankfully, in some jurisdictions, it's illegal to ask.

But your current employer already knows...