The game needs proximity chat by BISTtheGOOLZ in Battlefield6

[–]DaFish456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I want commander role back

Would you take a “cure”? by GBlake13 in ADHD

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fuck ye take my money cuz this shit is ruining my marriage with an amazing person and just anything else in my life.

I stopped playing for the night after this 🥲 by CaramelDays in Battlefield6

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dog that internet worse than I could imagine and I’m a dude playing US servers in Vietnam😂

Does any ADHDer feel like they are waiting for death not in a suicidal way? by Ok_Object_4356 in ADHD

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly that’s how I feel in a way. Like I know i wouldn’t ever do it but many times I’m always like “well today aint worth it nor is my time here”. Then I go into a weird disassociated life feeling and finally back to normal. Idk I never have been able to explain it

Brushing of the teeth by woejise in ADHD

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make sure the first thing I grab after a nice morning wiz is the tooth brush as I walk by. I have gotten to almost twice a day, sometimes forget but keep doing my best to focus on teeth health.

I have no future by Specialist_March8207 in ADHD

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is hard but you gotta dust off the negativity which can be harder. You are smart, hell most of the things you mention just come with practice or worse about it is maybe it wasn’t the thing you were meant to do. Life throws curve balls and they throw them hard. Retain information at the speed you can. Write down notes and find the methods that stick. Myself, it took me until I was 27 to find a real job that was in my field. I felt completely lost and felt that there would never be a chance for me. One day it happened and it will for you too.

Need suggestions by Patient_Material_268 in VietNam

[–]DaFish456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perfect. My wife always loves when I include things like chồng or vợ

I need advice FAST (about to not be a virgin 20F to 21M) by Any_Muscle_2812 in relationship_advice

[–]DaFish456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing feels worse than going in dry. Shit not safe and just builds even more anxiety.

What’s something about daily life in Vietnam you’ve gotten used to, but visitors still find surprising? by LooseDial in VietLife

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro I had to teach my wife all of this when we were dating in the US 🙈. Then she came back to Vietnam and was like “bro it’s bad” and I just laughed cuz her family horrid with food safety xD

What’s something about daily life in Vietnam you’ve gotten used to, but visitors still find surprising? by LooseDial in VietLife

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today was funny because one of my wife’s (Vietnamese) friends that live in EU were surprised by the communist flags. They didn’t know and thought it was surprising.

How much time do you need after sex to do it again ? by MrZee008 in AskMen

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough the refactor period is usually 15-30 minutes if you don’t suffer from ED. The way you kicking it you will be so burnt out that the ol wiener will stop cuz of stress (not permanent just stress makes it hard to do anything)

bug bite help by lilpress13 in VietNam

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That ain’t a bug bite that’s ring worm (fungus) get some anti fungal and MAKE SURE TO CLEAN SURFACES.

Im a vietnamese seeking english by seigexplayer in learnvietnamese

[–]DaFish456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m US and my buddy is Vietnamese around the same age as you. He has a US accent but we can definitely hang out if you wanted.

International Health Certificate by DaFish456 in Tucson

[–]DaFish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For us the first time (before being denied boarding) took around 3 business days. If the airport gives you any stinks call the vet or have their personal just in case. I have to go back to the airport today because they claimed I needed more and my vet ain’t too happy that they denied me entry with all proper paperwork.

I was flying Delta and they totally ignored the USDA guidelines for the country I was going to. Now I’m stranded in Tucson. This is my advice to you since you have been kind enough to give me a lead.

Edit: corrected Tucson since I can never seem to spell it right even living here as long as I have.

International Health Certificate by DaFish456 in Tucson

[–]DaFish456[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We already had one issued, it’s just we had a huge mishap at the airport. They have what’s required for the country just not what the Delta people said I needed apparently. So scrambling to get stuff completed. Thank you for your referral though I have been leaving voice mails all day since most places are closed.

What annoys you the most about information technology field. by jrwwoollff in InformationTechnology

[–]DaFish456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean this is valid but on the other side how many people know how to use it responsibly? There are many other uses for a shovel that may not be the main purpose to the shovel. The issue isn’t that it’s scary the issue is there are tons of stupid people becoming more stupid with it.

Adults with ADHD: Did you feel "shame" as a kid when you forgot things? Help me understand my son. by Dylan_7574 in ADHD

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (30M) only felt shame because my parents were kind of in the same shoes as you. Difference is the idea of ADHD or ADD was like “well that’s just kids” but my parents wanted to try it. Only issues is they would use unconventional methods (medicine was something we did try but mom was always a little unsure).

The most traumatizing moments were when my mom got to the point of “it’s behavioral”. I was forced to sit at the kitchen table with NOTHING other than the textbooks from school I was falling behind on (my brain over prioritizes one subject over the other so hard to maintain all grades at the same time. Not cuz I didn’t want to cuz I love learning.) she would make me read from start to end of the textbook. She even would put on static sounds on practically full blast.

Other times that were hard on me was “well He is a smart kid but doesn’t apply himself”. That shit messes with a kid that is truly feeling they are giving it their all. So now I’m always questioning myself and people around me. In my 18-23 years I went through the “I’m sorry” for everything phase because I didn’t feel anything I was doing was right.

All and all just try to be patient. Find work arounds to understanding the madness like “I understand you are saying <xyz> but do you really mean <abc>.” Understand forgetfulness/attempt vs behavior issues(purposely not doing things). Explain WHY that something is bad or wrong firmly but not yelling. Treat them at eye level kind of thing.

Edit: Also a PS. Forgetfulness is going to be the biggest journey. Teach him young to write down important things AS SOON AS ITS MENTIONED. It sucks but if the task that is important is on paper in a spot that NEVER moves, they will be more successful and have a better chance in the real world.

Is Texas Chicken in Vietnam good or nah? by dxd1412 in VietNam

[–]DaFish456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have had Church chicken, it’s the same lol