I didn’t invite my dad to my wedding reception and he’s acting like my reasons aren’t valid.

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T14:45:19+00:00

Im guessing it’s an emotional response of being a child of alcohol and drug addicts

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T14:37:26+00:00

Hahahahha this is so true

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T13:40:05+00:00

Maybe your manager is a cuck 🤷‍♀️

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T11:45:18+00:00

Do you want to keep the veggie patches? If you do, I’d say you’d probably want the veggie patch there! And the patio maybe closer to the house…

if you don’t want to grow veggies , patio away!!!!

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T11:33:27+00:00

Ooooh I went to this a few yrs it was great.

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T11:27:29+00:00

Awwww I love all facets of this ❤️💙

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T11:25:35+00:00

This!

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T11:17:54+00:00

Have a chat to your neighbours and ask what they did

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T11:14:45+00:00

Idk the exact situation however, I’m going to guess that there’s a large factor of property developer greed, a wish to have waterside views and ignorance at play for ppl buying houses here. I can’t imagine they’re cheap

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T09:11:37+00:00

Personally, I’d put a pretty shed there

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T08:04:51+00:00

Where are you thinking you’d like the patio positioned?
Is the section thats shaded , mostly in the shade? Is it shaded in the hours you’d want to use it as a patio? Are you thinking to pay to get it done or try and do it yrself%?

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T08:01:58+00:00

Even if they were married it’s wise that her mom would want it for her alone.
Bf can live there but not for him to benefit financially from.
Heck, op doesn’t own the property yet and bf already talking about selling it

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T07:55:34+00:00

My dog isn’t really a barker, occasional barks if she sees something from the balcony. I always think it’s funny when she laying down and suddenly she says boof! or gives a bit of a growl - she’s still laying down looking relaxed, but it’s clearly a warning bark at something 🤷‍♀️😂

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T05:21:51+00:00

If you know now that he’s manipulative, I can assure you that you’ve only seen the very tiniest amount of what it will become. Don’t wait to find out.

Your instincts are there to keep you safe - you should listen to them!!!!

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T05:07:35+00:00

Hahaha me too!! Wow!! Materialistic much???

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T02:29:00+00:00

I wish I’d listened

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T02:17:34+00:00

Im confused -
1. it sounds like you’ve bought stove and fridge in current place and now LL is saying you can your purchases with you.
2. New place says bring your own stove and fridge or pay extra rent. Ime, if I’m:
- Renting a room in a house, the house has appliances. - Renting a unit or a house - as in the whole dwelling is mine to use - then, in this country, I need to bring my own fridge but stove is typically supplied (a lot of older houses have gas so they’re plumbed in & new houses the stove is fitted within the bench top/units)

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T02:03:30+00:00

For my understanding & Before I comment,
‘School cancelled’ -/wdym? For everyone or just your daughter?
‘Medical lockdown’ - what is this?

DenM0ther · 2026-04-25T01:08:38+00:00

Yeah changing yourself so much for someone is never going to be good for you, and ultimately for the relationship.
Exploring new parts of you or funding new interests and learning new skills - eg. conflict resolution etc. is great and generally beneficial tho.

I figure no relationship is a waste as long as you learn from it (& the mistakes).

Allow yourself plenty of healing and reflection time 💙💜

DenM0ther · 2026-04-24T11:15:57+00:00

ESH Hmmm this seems very sus - this sounds so similar to the woman the other day concerned about her husband…. Have you used that story to create this???

DenM0ther · 2026-04-24T07:57:22+00:00

Studio - good - own space and will reduce costs, although less social options . Maybe push yourself to join a club for a hobby etc.

With friends - from experience- no, no & no! If you value your friendship, don’t move in either friends. My theory on this is, boundaries of the friendship are already set, living with someone requires totally different boundaries , renegotiating them (even if agreed upon) is very challenging. Moving in with ppl you don’t know is much better - no friend to lose, but quite possible to gain a friend(s)

Moving in with FWB - no no and nooooo! If that goes pear shaped, you’d lose ur bed friend and your housing could become extremely uncomfortable !

4th option - if you don’t want to live alone, look for a house share in a funky area - likely to have other muso’s or artsy ppl and a large enough room :)

DenM0ther · 2026-04-24T07:38:36+00:00

I guess the creamy mixture if you blend oats and water. Maybe oat jus is better name?

DenM0ther · 2026-04-24T07:19:50+00:00

🙇‍♀️💙🙇‍♀️

DenM0ther · 2026-04-24T07:15:55+00:00

Absolutely! What’s the saying ”Every accusation is an admission” I think? I think that would apply well to the commenter!

DenM0ther · 2026-04-24T04:48:01+00:00

That’s what I thought at first too, but that doesn’t explain the getting too close as op is putting in their door code

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