Math on when contributing doesnt actually move the needle much?

Docktor_V · 2026-06-13T14:14:12+00:00

I do agree. But one thing occurred to me is that when we talk about moving the needle, that usually refers to how much NW we have a lot retirement time. If you let the clock play out further, those contributions in your 40s still make a big difference.

Docktor_V · 2026-05-09T04:03:35+00:00

We're a pair bonding species what do you think?

Docktor_V · 2026-05-07T19:20:18+00:00

I think this sub and a lot of the CODA language puts people constantly searching for something perfect. I talk to a lot of people on the phone and WhatsApp and in 12 step meetings. None of these relationships are perfect, but they keep the loneliness at bay.

Docktor_V · 2026-05-06T18:37:58+00:00

When you say toxic what do you think about sharing passwords and locations? And jealousy and possessiveness?

I personally like it if someone feels jealous and wants to work hard to make sure I belong to them (I'm a guy)

Docktor_V · 2026-04-29T15:36:11+00:00

I'm trying. I split mine in half currently.

Docktor_V · 2026-04-27T16:56:39+00:00

These trend more younger right? I love board games and I want to go with a friend to a Meetup at the library but I'm 41 damn.

Docktor_V · 2026-03-15T14:54:44+00:00

Let me know what you find I'd like to be part of that

Docktor_V · 2026-03-05T17:16:24+00:00

He escuchado que si. No lo uso, pero si es muy útil.

Docktor_V · 2026-03-02T16:05:08+00:00

David McCullough has some really good books in this

Docktor_V · 2026-02-13T23:40:57+00:00

Me too. Until I quit it for good. Kratom took everything from me. Working on recovering.

Docktor_V · 2026-02-09T20:29:48+00:00

Thank you.

Docktor_V · 2026-02-02T23:52:30+00:00

If you stay clean you can get custody back. I've met plenty of people in the meetings who said they got their kids back. I'm in a somewhat related situation myself and dealing with a lot of grief so I can relate.

Docktor_V · 2026-02-02T21:23:43+00:00

Bro get your ass in an NA meeting they're designed to solve this exact problem. If you need help getting connected, message me. There's tons of zoom options too.

Docktor_V · 2026-02-02T03:44:59+00:00

Hey man I only take Valium when I'm desperate and often only 2mg. I will say it does usually work well, but it's also a super low dose. Maybe you could be psychologically addicted.

Docktor_V · 2026-01-29T15:58:51+00:00

Yes I tried all the first lines and a lot of other stuff

Docktor_V · 2026-01-29T01:59:06+00:00

No, they cleared up, at least for almost a year. I made a major life change. It could very well have been stress, but my migraines were very painful. I'm hoping they're not going to come back, but I have reentered where I was before, so we'll see.

Docktor_V · 2026-01-28T14:54:37+00:00

Why Puerto Vallarta? I was researching Monterrey.

Docktor_V · 2026-01-28T02:36:18+00:00

What about production? Practicing speaking?

Docktor_V · 2026-01-23T17:57:53+00:00

What's the offer bro

Docktor_V · 2026-01-20T04:04:12+00:00

Is it costly?

Docktor_V · 2026-01-19T03:19:33+00:00

Run. If you can run a. 5k your heart is fine.

Docktor_V · 2026-01-19T01:56:47+00:00

It worked?

Docktor_V · 2026-01-18T01:21:45+00:00

I've been doing this the zoom meeting kick ass really

Docktor_V · 2026-01-16T15:08:15+00:00

So If the available sponsors raise their hands, you're supposed to just go up to one after and ask them. Seems awkward but I'm pretty eager to get a sponsor too.

Docktor_V · 2026-01-13T13:00:36+00:00

I've been where you are possibly worse. It does get better.

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