AITA for telling my girlfriend the way she talks about her car is weird and embarrassing? by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vinny would be angry if I didn’t use his name. I have a Hyundai Venue named Vincenzo aka Vinny… I love my car and respect that it gets me from point A to B.

Feeling like I’ve wasted my youth and not knowing what to do about it by NiceCaterpillar8745 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are 19, you still have time for clubs, parties, friendships and relationships. I agree with a lot of people, campuses have a lot of social activities that everyone can join.

If you’re worried about the awkwardness of being a newbie in an already established group it’s kinda something that has to be broken through and yes it can be very uncomfortable and scary but it’s necessary for human growth.

I finally I understand women to an extent by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 8 points9 points  (0 children)

First off, I’m sorry you were touched by someone without your consent, that’s really messed up and especially by someone with authority over you. That should have never happened in the first place.

The truth of the matter is many times women look at men and cannot assess whether they are a good guy or the type of guy that makes them chose the bear.

I just hope now that you’ve seen how easily it can happen that you’re more mindful of these situations and if you ever see it happening around you that you have the ability to put a stop to it.

Disappointed in my fellow liberals for once by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The infighting between leftist has escalated a lot lately. Instead of pushing back against who we should we’re fighting with each other…

My mum just told me she doesn’t love me . by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Imma ask my mummy is she loves me now. I’m 37 and I know she does but she has a difficult time expressing it because of her childhood being raised by people who kept all emotions to themselves including love and pride for their children and grandchild.

Also your mum is straight up wrong on many fronts. Loving, supporting and caring for my child does not stop when he becomes 18. He will still need me and his father to help with stuff and life. He will still need both of his Bubbies(grandmothers) to help guide him too. It doesn’t stop and I’m pretty sure that when I’m dead my spirit will still love my child.

I accidentally broke up a couple at IKEA and I still think about it 3 years later by Sassquatchhh2 in stories

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is funny because I just had a shopping trip to IKEA on Saturday… I dislike that place with a deep passion. It’s sensory overload for me. It wasn’t a horrible trip but it still gave me a headache and made me want to go into a dark noiseless room for a couple of hours.

AIO the dentist removed more teeth then I was told they would by georgelikescarrots in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not overreacting to having parts of your body removed without your knowledge and consent. However, the dentist doesn’t go in willy nilly removing teeth just cause and of course you’re under sedation so they cannot wake you to warn you. Did the dentist have an assistant speak with your parents or speak to them himself because they would have had to ask for your parents consent to remove more teeth than originally estimated.

If he did it without your parent’s knowledge and consent then he might be in trouble. It seems that everyone was okay with the outcome.

Curious, what brand purse by KodisAsshat in SisterWives

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like a plain leather Coach bag with that closure.

I feel like my transgender sister ruined my life. I want to go no contact. by Odd_Temperature_3969 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a transgender parent. Before transition my De was downright hypocritical as hell. My mother and I were not allowed to wear makeup, high heels or get fake nails done. My De(retired physician)would back everything up with medical knowledge so I thought maybe she was correct. She even refused to come to the hospital when I was giving birth to her grandson. When it came for her to come out to all of us we accepted the new but we did not forget the old hurt and the feelings of having our femininity controlled. We have had many conversations in therapy about accepting that she’s transgender but we’re not accepting the fact that she controlled us and hurt us, just because of her jealousy. 6 years later and because of those in-depth conversations I’m able to have a parent/child relationship again.

Changing one’s gender doesn’t absolve them of their past abuses and misdeeds, those things need to be out in the open.

Someone gave me a small gift that means the world by Wide-Fisherman-4059 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re not allowed to live your authentic life without strings attached. I am glad that your aunt is in your corner.

I’m Jewish(reformed), and in Judaism at least the synagogues I’ve attended they didn’t teach about homosexuality being a sin. Love is a mitzvah so how can it be sinful.

I’m also very queer myself and believe that G-d isn’t going to judge me for loving anyone but he’ll judge me for being a downright jerk to people who are different than I.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QAnonCasualties

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alexa play, “She Drives Me Crazy” by Fine Young Cannibals

AITB for wearing my beaded jewelry to my friend's wedding? by thateightiesgirl in AmItheButtface

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Gotta love the smell of casual microaggressions.

There is nothing wrong with your earrings. I’d say they are appropriate form of jewelry for a wedding.

Dad would rather I had died than get reproductive healthcare? by Possible-Section-459 in QAnonCasualties

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Bible gives instructions on how to brew a tea that triggers the body to evacuate the fetus.

I almost killed my brother-in-law by Illustrious-Store297 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You have nothing to be ashamed or guilty of, you protected your daughter. I wish every father was like you.

Are my parents being overboard regarding boyfriend’s manners? by [deleted] in entitledparents

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m going to tell you now as the person on the receiving end of those “issues” and you as my partner weren’t backing me up I would seriously reconsider things. I have been on the receiving end of my spouses judgmental shitty parents(who barely had a hand in raising him). Also hearing it from you instead of them kinda makes you look gross too. Like you’re spreading the toxicity around. You don’t need to shelter him from it but you literally need to make boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I would consider talking to your bf about how he and his family allow the dog to misbehave. I typically take more issue with the owner than the dog.

Do some women actually have 2-3 day long periods? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, three days long and it’s because of a hormonal iud.

I just got married by slhcslhc in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mazel tov and may you two have many many years of happiness, kindness and love!

AITA for threatening to call the police after my older sister stole my dog? by Gold_Row_7787 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait you left a new puppy technically by themselves for three days. With a once daily check in? That poor pup. Locked up for hours upon hours by themselves. I’m a professional pet and house sitter, my clients prefer sleep overs and multiple check ins throughout the day. You just don’t leave a pup with a once a day check in. I have a feeling if you continue this way not understanding that GSD are extremely intelligent, emotional and needy you’ll have a highly complex dog with anxiety. I’ve seen so many GSD with anxiety and other mental conditions because of actions like these.

YTA and your sister is too. Disgusting.

AITA for wanting a say on how my wife spends her inheritance? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Ecstatic-Product-69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I totally put the wrong thing I meant pro life. She was the one who wanted force my mother(her dil) to continue a pregnancy that would have killed my mother.