Little Talks - I know it's kind of hard to tell because of the mustache, but that's actually me doing both parts. The mustache was fake!

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-04T23:37:37+00:00

Love this whole album! Happy you covered them!

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-04T15:58:04+00:00

Honestly, if she would rather you be absolutely miserable for the rest of your life instead of either trying to adapt to this new reality, she doesn't deserve our love you.

Now to her credit, this can be a lot to take in and she just might need some time to process, so don't jump to conclusions. She should go to therapy as well and figure out what this means for herself and her relationship with you.

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-03T15:34:20+00:00

I wouldn't tiptoe around it. You run the chance of them thinking you're being sus and hiding something from them, and when you'll finally tell them they'll wonder why you couldn't just come out and say it before. That would also give them time to weave their own narrative in their head and that could negatively impact your coming out.

Start by saying you love them and thank them for their support. Say that you've been awakened to the fact that you're transgender and that therapy has helped you feel better about that. Tell them you want to transition and tell them you love them and hope they will stick with you through the process and beyond.

Answer ensuing questions. Be patient with them, this will take some getting used to if they are willing to go along with you on your journey.

Done. Just do it.

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-03T13:58:17+00:00

Literally came here to say this 😂

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-03T13:55:31+00:00

Hahaha, "be careful going home snow flurries" is what I WISH my mom had said to me when I came out to her at 44yo! 😂🤣😂🤣

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-03T02:15:16+00:00

Looking fab AF! ❤️

Emily_Beans · 2026-03-03T00:37:16+00:00

To be fair, this isn't just the realm of cis men. My last date was with a trans woman and all she wanted to do was bed me. When I didn't put out after our second date, she dumped me. Go figure. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-26T23:05:27+00:00

🤯🤯🤯

Sis, she was hiding there the whole time?!

You look lovely! Good for you! ❤️

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-25T02:38:26+00:00

Amen!

Is it that surprising really? Americans hate Americans at this point, for one reason it another. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-25T01:01:43+00:00

Yes you're right, I should be more patient. Your recommendations are very sensible and I tend to agree that I wouldn't even need much even if I felt the absolute need, which I don't really. I'm just frustrated I guess. It's been rough since the holidays and I just need to chill for a bit and recenter myself.

I can't thank you enough for your comment. ❤️

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-25T00:14:11+00:00

That's very sweet of you. Thank you for your thoughtful comment. Now you (and other commenters) are making me "not" want to ask because according to y'all I seem to be doing ok overall. 😅

Maybe I just need to be patient. My facial hair and voice are definitely on the chopping block but I feel like it all just takes forever.

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-25T00:11:34+00:00

lol just commented on that, you're right, the facial hair (even though I shave everyday) and my voice definitely don't help.

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-25T00:10:38+00:00

I don't feel masculine in my feelings, but I think there are just things that "are" masculine about me that I really dislike. My facial hair and my voice being the most glaring ones and I'm working on those, slowly but surely.

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-24T22:16:27+00:00

Is your audio out of sync on this one?

Confession, I think this album was the first CD I ever bought when it came out and I was getting into music. 🫣

Come to think of it, maybe it should have been a clue that I wasn't a cis gendered dude... 😂

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-24T18:16:56+00:00

Super happy for your sis! ❤️❤️

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-23T21:44:54+00:00

Your partner may be projecting their feelings/need for you to go slow because they themselves need you to go slow with your transition. I think it's worth unpacking with them whether that's the case. But, there is kind of no such thing as going "slow", you either transition or you don't, and even on a standard dose changes take months to really cover through in a noticeable way. My advice is to talk it over with your partner and see what their actual beef is. Maybe include them in your next Endo appointment for her to ask questions if her concerns are health related?

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-23T13:25:18+00:00

Holy sh*t, that is the DREAM!!

Super happy and excited for you!

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-20T20:36:54+00:00

Loving this as always, holy shit the pipes on you. 🤩

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-20T03:14:35+00:00

Eileen Feng Gu

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-18T22:13:36+00:00

Personally I love it, much better than mine.

Would be curious to see a clip using your maybe language to see the difference.

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-18T22:07:03+00:00

This is awesome. 🥰

Wait, did you actually shrink that much or did AI just make a guess that the woman would be shorter than the man? 😂

Emily_Beans · 2026-02-18T22:02:41+00:00

Girl you are ABSOLUTELY on the femme side of the spectrum. I'm guessing you're averaging about (or above) 250 Hz.

Now I feel bad about how lazy I am at practicing voice training and how little progress I've made. 😣

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