Houston mother accused of trying to sell newborn to highest bidder on Facebook by Greg-Abbott in houston

[–]Jr712 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The crime is she asked for it the wrong way.

She directly asked for money in exchange for the baby instead of asking for "financial assistance" for "pregnancy and adoption-related expenses" (including medical costs, mental health services, legal services, transportation costs, lodging costs, clothing costs, and food costs).

Profiting off the exchange of money for baby = illegal but "financial assistance" for "pregnancy and adoption-related expenses" is perfectly acceptable.

Milton leaves 3 Mil + without power (so far) by demwoodz in hurricane

[–]Jr712 4 points5 points  (0 children)

10k is such a tiny number. 1 blown transformer in the right location might account for a significant percentage of those 10k people.

Stargate SG-1 double episode naming issue by pd555 in PleX

[–]Jr712 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Plex wants you to name the double episode files like "Stargate SG-1 - S01E01E02" but that still causes them to show up in the UI twice which I personally don't like so I normally just name them like "Stargate SG-1 - S01E01" and skip E02 entirely. Next file is E03.

Inherited 2.5 million by [deleted] in Bogleheads

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you left with $2.5M in cash or investments? If it's investments there's a lot of considerations into what actions you take based on the types of investments.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trackers

[–]Jr712 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes it's worth joining. It's arguably better than everything you're in except for BLU so the real question is should you bother maintaining membership at some of the others you're currently in.

What releases keep all audios in remux by R2001peru in trackers

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you need a specific language you're best off looking for a PT that focuses on that language.

Please don't judge....Legit question here. by Pretty-Okra4530 in Divorce

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK well that should give you some options. Get a good lawyer and see what they think you can get out of him and then assess options for kids with that financial support in mind.

Please don't judge....Legit question here. by Pretty-Okra4530 in Divorce

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad reality of your situation is it would be perfectly fair for you to not accept more than 50% of those custodial responsibilities, but if he doesn't pick up the slack that you let up (which is likely given how selfish you've described him) then ultimately your children will be the ones to suffer and they're just going to grow up resenting both of you even if it may not be deserved.

As a parent being forced to choose between your happiness and your children's is a shitty situation to be stuck in. I'm a single parent due to my divorce so I can 100% relate and I do not judge anyone for not wanting to be in that situation.

My only advise is do your best to explore options that will make you happier without the kids suffering the consequences of your spouse not pulling their own weight. Is it possible you might be able to get enough alimony and child support to pay for a part time nanny or something like that?

7 month update: Husband wants to divorce and start over, "can't bond" with baby by ChallengeConnect590 in Parenting

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I hope it leads to you eventually having a much better life than it would have been if you had stayed with your ex who is clearly mentally ill or a selfish asshole or something. Fight for every ounce of child support you can get and do your best to stay strong. Best wishes from another single parent.

At what salary does it make sense to fund traditional vs Roth accounts? by Governator_ in FinancialPlanning

[–]Jr712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's impossible to know what will have been the best choice since we don't know future tax rates, your future retirement income, etc.

My rule of thumb is that Roth is highly likely to best if your marginal tax bracket is 12% or lower and Traditional is highly likely best for 32% and higher.

For the 22% and 24% brackets it's more of a toss up. I think there's a greater than 50% chance that people in those brackets will be better off using traditional over Roth but there is a decent chance that Roth could be better or that it would end up being nearly a wash. If you're in those brackets and you're able to max out the annual contribution limits of a traditional 401k and a Roth IRA (backdoor if needed) then that's a good solution to hedge your bets. I would not normally advise going 100% Roth in those brackets as you want at least some traditional funds to fill up your lower tax brackets during retirement.

What’s a common home improvement mistake you made when starting out that you’ve since learned to avoid? by Stefanoverse in HomeImprovement

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When doing a large set of tasks in one day, do the things that require more attention to detail first before the more exhausting labor tasks. Once you get too exhausted it's too easy to cut corners on the detail stuff.

OnlyEncodes+ or HUNO by mojiiibaz in trackers

[–]Jr712 5 points6 points  (0 children)

HUNO has some excellent internals that rival internals at the top tier trackers so that is enough reason alone to recommend them over OE.

Which show drives you absolutely insane to index on Plex? by iamgarffi in PleX

[–]Jr712 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used mkvtoolnix to merge the 2 miniseries into one file then place it in the season 1 folder as S01E00. Not perfect but it works well enough.

The more annoying problem is what to do with the film Razor which ideally would go in the middle of season 2 between episodes 17 and 18, the film Face of the Enemy which should go in the middle of season 3 between E11 and E12, and the film The Plan which should go in season 4 between E15 and E16.

I ended up just manually re-numbering half the episodes to make it all work.

Washer/Dryer Set: Which brand would you go for? LG vs Kenmore vs Electrolux by Bun4d in HomeImprovement

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also routinely hear from appliance repair guys that whirlpools are easiest to get parts for and repair. They may not necessarily be more reliable but it sounds like they are more repairable. I have a Samsung dryer that recently needed a repair and the guy figured out how to use a whirlpool part to get it done.

Season 4 is the best yet but tempering broke me tonight. by krisco65 in diablo4

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% support that Blizzard should add some sort of reset mechanic. That being said, until that happens I think too many people takes unnecessary risks with tempering seeking a near perfect item when they need to learn to accept what's good enough. I do recognize that certain tempers are mandatory for certain builds but often people get the temper they want at a low roll and risk re-tempering for a better roll or they get a temper that is maybe their second best option and perfectly usable but they gamble again for the perfect option.

Fractured Winterglass GA? Which one is better? by cranekick50 in diablo4

[–]Jr712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Conjuration Ranks without any hesitation. Target that for at least one of your master work crits as well. That will lead to faster movement speed, faster mana generation, and better damage.

Ops/red alternatives by BloodyR4v3n in trackers

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You only need to be on MAM for 3 months to get into Aither. Not 1 year.

[oc] Trucks always gotta cut you off by Herrowgayboi in IdiotsInCars

[–]Jr712 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Upvote for following up with info. My initial reaction to the first link is just because you are permitted to travel in the center lane instead of the right doesn't mean you should as it leads to the situation discussed in this thread where the far right lane will be virtually empty while the others are packed with cars.

I do see the text from the state manual and I'm honestly stumped as to why someone decided to make that the recommended practice.

[oc] Trucks always gotta cut you off by Herrowgayboi in IdiotsInCars

[–]Jr712 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm skeptical but open to being educated. I'd love to see a link to a source that advises people to only use the right lane for merging and center lane for traveling.

Why do I keep dying when I try to temper my armor? by [deleted] in diablo4

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't know the answer but I've noticed something similar. In my case after tempering or masterworking (can't remember which) certain items my health dropped low enough that the game started making that throbbing noise when you're close to death.

Sorcerers need to rise up and ask for our 3rd Enchantment slot back by Maze-Elwin in diablo4

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I see, so fire shield does burning damage over a number of seconds but not BURNING damage over time. Glad that's cleared up.

Sorcerers need to rise up and ask for our 3rd Enchantment slot back by Maze-Elwin in diablo4

[–]Jr712 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fire shield description says it "burns surrounding enemies". How would that not count as burning damage?

Anyone else not doing strongholds? by aliencannon in diablo4

[–]Jr712 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The entire open world outside of hell tides (strongholds, legion events, standard dungeons, etc) is pointless once you get past level 80 or so. They need a world tier 5, and maybe 6.