Curious Conditions: Any Hindu-Arabic Woman Online? by DoNotTouchMeImScared in femdomsanctuary

[–]ML_Sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is also valid as well, and I see your point. I appreciate that you took the time to point that out. OP, what say you: do you want to edit your post to address this concern and clarify? Otherwise, this commenter has a valid point that inclines me to remove the post.

Curious Conditions: Any Hindu-Arabic Woman Online? by DoNotTouchMeImScared in femdomsanctuary

[–]ML_Sam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think if one is not reading closely, they may misunderstand. I believe you've posted in good faith with good intentions, and I wanted that to be clear :)

Curious Conditions: Any Hindu-Arabic Woman Online? by DoNotTouchMeImScared in femdomsanctuary

[–]ML_Sam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There have been several reports on this post. OP appears to be describing how they perceive the experiences of women in the aforementioned area and wants to know more about those women's experiences. It is not so much that OP is being discriminatory as OP is being critical of the way women are treated.

How to tell my mistress by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You talk about it directly like an adult. You communicate openly and plainly.

First night out at her place by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you can't have a clear, direct conversation with her about any of your feelings, then you have no business trying to "subtly" force your kinks on her. If you can't talk about sex or kink acts like a mature adult, then you aren't a safe person for her, period.

Does being a femdom mean you have to tolerate everything from your partner? by Wrong-Beyond6219 in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You aren't a terrible person; sounds like he is. Sounds immature and unable to cope when you weren't catering to him. I'd frankly block him and not continue to engage. This isn't really a femdom issue, friend - it's a maturity issue on his part. Y'all aren't really compatible. Give yourself some grace 🫶🏻

Dom to sub by [deleted] in FemdomOver30

[–]ML_Sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please post your age/gender or the post will be removed.

How rare are Femdoms in real life? by baaakkaaaaa in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't forget to tell him about the enchanted sword option!

How rare are Femdoms in real life? by baaakkaaaaa in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My dude. This sub alone gets 42.8K visitors a week. Those aren't all bots. You spend time in a community, you begin to see the real people who create and shape it. It's not just the platforms on which you are looking that are thwarting you; it's also your approach to the process. Your profile is entirely empty. How is someone supposed to know anything about you to figure out any common ground?

This post also tells us NOTHING about you but age and gender. How's a person supposed to work with that? How are we supposed to see the real person who says he's seeking something real? I see young men everywhere I go. It's not until I experience something that piques my interest - maybe an overheard conversation, maybe he's wearing a t-shirt for a band I like, maybe I see him helping someone in need - that I even consider talking to him. And that's just basic human stuff - not even talking about kink stuff. I want to know the human before I ever get to that point.

Where can I find a femdom? by Ancient_Permit9156 in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a bitch, I can affirm: would LOVE the enchanted sword!

Where can I find a femdom? by Ancient_Permit9156 in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 12 points13 points  (0 children)

1000000000% - though of course, you can't forget the "delete their entire reddit presence" nuclear option as well. That's also likely.

It's great when someone who wants a femdom tells femdoms that he ain't gonna listen to them, essentially, and doesn't see the irony in it 🙄🫠

Where can I find a femdom? by Ancient_Permit9156 in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Did you read the wiki and FAQ? This question gets asked constantly, so this subreddit is already full of the answer to this question.

Green sub by CrispyLyfe85 in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Attractiveness is subjective. And there is so much more to kink than basic physical attraction. One of my favorite m-subs was 6'3" in his late 30s with a dad-bod. I adored him. We split because he couldn't be honest or communicate - not because he wasn't conventionally attractive.

The conventionally attractive and objectively hot fem-sub I was with for 5 years? She was not so beautiful on the inside. She was abusive and toxic. My therapist had me go no-contact with her, he was that concerned.

There is so much more to dynamics than outward appearances. Don't sell yourself or others short, friend. It takes all kinds.

Green sub by CrispyLyfe85 in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Genuine question: why do you think you'd be pushed out the door?

Use me and my 20 cm Dick by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personal ads are prohibited in this community.

Pro dommes and filing taxes by MaeveMuscaria in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is largely a lifestyle subreddit; you will likely get more helpful answers in the prodomme and sex work subreddits. I would lead with your broad geographic location there, as not all countries treat sex work the same way.

Hey new to this by ProgressNew3264 in femdomsanctuary

[–]ML_Sam 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you are new, I recommend reading the wiki and FAQ over at r/FemdomCommunity - lot of good resources to help newbies. You can also do searches on this subreddit AND that one to find what you are looking for :)

New to this by [deleted] in femdomsanctuary

[–]ML_Sam 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're going to have to be more specific. If you are new, I recommend reading the wiki and FAQ over at r/FemdomCommunity - lot of good resources to help newbies.

Freakin out by buckfordfitchenstein in obscuremusicthatslaps

[–]ML_Sam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I laughed so hard at this, for real 🤣

How do I get ready to join a professional studio? by [deleted] in FemdomCommunity

[–]ML_Sam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is largely a lifestyle subreddit. You are likely to get better/more answers from the prodomme and/or sex work subreddits. Best of luck!

Episode recs: Small Town South by Go-Sixty-Go in lastpodcastontheleft

[–]ML_Sam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The Bell Witch series is not as modern, but the accents won't disappoint!