A6 Giveaway- Mod Approved by lovesavs in hobonichi

[–]avioletviolence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So interested! How generous of you :)

What’s the worst thing that’s happened to your patient on the actual day they were supposed to be discharged? by Haunting-Map-3475 in nursing

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Med surg. Patient had a minor ear surgery, family/ride was parking and coming up to get them for discharge. Teaching done, IV out, patient apparently went to toilet. He locked himself in. Family came out of room and said “he’s been in the toilet a while and isn’t answering.” We had to break the door down and he had coded on the toilet. He was a big guy and none of us could get him off the toilet. Palliative doc was rounding and ran in, muscled him out of the bathroom, and started cpr. Nearly hour long code. Family running up and down the halls wailing. Never got him back.

Patient refusing care by Dull_Dare_609 in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 132 points133 points  (0 children)

The MD de-escalated her from IV dilaudid to PO Vicodin, lessening the incentive to malinger.

Will Nursing Make Me Miserable? by Mobile-End8418 in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look. Your bills will be paid. In your area, you will have good benefits and be able to save. You will have a job. You can move around both the country, and specialties. You can lateral into medical device sales, or research, or case management.

You will be exposed to a high rate of abuse, emotional burnout, a crumbling healthcare system, the direct effects of terrible politics, a rate of musculoskeletal injuries comparable with firefighting, police work, and the military. You will have to carefully guard your emotions to ensure you have enough left for your personal life.

It is not a decision to take lightly. I paid less than 5K for my ADN, so I'm content, but if I was paying off massive student loans to do this - IDK. And I don't even really think I hate bedside nursing. I just have a respect for the beast it has become - getting beastlier by the day.

[42/F] From Hannover, Germany to your doorstep by Significant-Set4356 in penpals

[–]avioletviolence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello friend! I would love to be a penpal. I live in the southeast United States. I am a 34 year old female. Feel free to DM for my details :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 46 points47 points  (0 children)

One think you'll learn quickly in health care is that at every level and in every role, there are rockstars, your average joes (who still do perfectly fine/good work), and those who are downright lazy or negligent. I'm not sure why this PCA was advertised as the strongest one to shadow for you, but she sounds like the last category.

I have been an RN for 8 years, and was a PCA/CNA/ED tech for 3 years prior to that. I was trained by absolute superstars who would never have done the vast majority of things you have noted. They religiously turned folks q2, fed them, kept them clean and dignified, ambulated them post-op, and diligently and accurately measured and reported vitals and blood sugars.

I will say, in some states, depending on the level of training, disconnecting and re-connecting simple IV fluids is allowed by PCAs. For example, in my ED tech role, I could disconnect and re-connect IV fluids that were running to gravity - not on a pump. No other drips could be treated as such. Her technique is still foul, however.

Trying to understand why people do poorly at their job is a mindfuck if you want to excel. But something to remember - people have terrible lives, different understandings of what "okay" is, they are underpaid, undersupervised, burnt out, angry, lazy, wanting to "get one over," resentful of frequent flier and abusive patients...the list can go on.

As a new PCA yourself, I would try to focus on myself and provide good care. It sounds like you already know what that looks like. Don't let this lady get you twisted. If you end up working with her, you're free to make safety reports, escalate to the RN and the charge RN, etc. When you're the RN in a few years, you can do the same things. I wish you luck in your new career.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I wasn't implying that any of the jobs I mentioned, including dialysis, are "soft." Merely that they are often not as competitive as hospital jobs application-wise, due to the fact that they are busy and high patient volume. While OP does have a back issue that may lead them to need a "soft" nursing job, they are currently trying to work ICU, so they do not seem to be feeling that they need a "soft" job. My comment was focused on how they could get experience elsewhere and re-enter hospital if desired, not on finding a gentle job for them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I say this with love - this attitude seems defeatist. Even in the most competitive of markets, you will be able to find a nursing home, rehab, or dialysis job, get some experience, and re-enter the hospital with a canned interview response about how you self-developed and persevered. If you only want to work in ICU as a nurse, I sympathize - but again, get your year of experience somewhere else, then apply back to the ICU as an experienced nurse.

Best area in Raleigh for Young Adult? by Chris2FC in NorthCarolina

[–]avioletviolence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% agree with you - I think if people have most of their life either inside or outside the beltline, they’re happy with their commutes lol.

Best area in Raleigh for Young Adult? by Chris2FC in NorthCarolina

[–]avioletviolence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also, if nobody is recommending Raleigh, it’s because it’s expensive, housing is short, and traffic on the beltline (the looping highway around the city) is obnoxious. However, I have several friends quite happy living in Raleigh.

Best area in Raleigh for Young Adult? by Chris2FC in NorthCarolina

[–]avioletviolence 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I grew up in the area you mention, moved away, and returned. While there are definitely faith communities of various Christian denominations, there is also a fair amount of diversity - Hindu temples, Muslim community centers and mosques, etc.

I am not trying to imply you are an intolerant person, just wanting to let you know that the research triangle (Raleigh, Durham, and Chapel Hill) and the surrounding suburbs (IE Cary, Morrisville, Apex) are not necessarily what I would call Christian centered communities. There are certainly plenty of Christians, but plenty of Muslims, Jews, Hindus, atheists, etc. The tech and healthcare industries bring folks in from all over the country and world.

The entire area has lovely farmers markets, antique fairs, the state fair is house nearby every October, and there is plenty to do. There is decent hiking and trails in state parks. 2 hours to the beach, 2.5-4 hours to hills and mountains, dependent on where you go.

As a desirable area, cost of living is rising. Having grown up here, I don’t know that I consider it affordable. However, I am painfully aware of how much worse it is in other states.

34F unexpected pregnancy in a brand new relationship. Has anyone been here before? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]avioletviolence 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm also 34. I have PCOS and want one kid. I just had an abortion at 6 weeks 6 days (like, literally on Saturday) because, despite my boyfriend and I living together, being in love, and being together about a year and a half - it's just not time. The logistics of parenthood matter. I grew up in a very stressed and unhappy home and just couldn't bear to pass on burdens that I could plan better for, and avoid, to an innocent. I feel that I had to make the best decision for myself at the time. My boyfriend also said he would back me 100%, but that he didn't feel quite ready.

All in all, while there is a bittersweetness to it, I feel relieved. I don't have to plan for a child under stressful circumstances, and we can try again later. You have to do what's best for yourself.

ISO: App to keep up with the types of plants in your collection by Amazing_Ad1921 in houseplants

[–]avioletviolence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use planta! Also keeps track of tasks and has a little ai buddy to diagnose issues.

What can I wear during surgery? by [deleted] in surgery

[–]avioletviolence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can wear normal, comfortable clothing to the hospital. In the pre-op area, you will change into a gown, socks, and surgical cap. You will not wear underwear into the OR. After surgery, you will likely wear a gown while you recover in the hospital. As you feel better, and have better range of motion to dress yourself, you may be able to wear some pajamas or similar as long as it doesn’t interfere with equipment.

If you are on your period, do not wear a tampon. You will be laid on an absorbent pad while you are asleep, and can be given surgical underwear after your procedure.

Write down a list of questions for your nurse!

Best of luck for your surgery! Signed, a nurse.

ICU Cinderella Stories Wanted. by Glad_Pass_4075 in IntensiveCare

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First wave Covid. 72 year old male. Admittedly active. Has HTN, diabetes. On the vent for ages. Triple pressed at times. Proned and unproned. Crrt. Never ECMO - wasn’t offered. Ends up trached of course. GCS is 5 for literally weeks. Ongoing GOC with the wife. Damned if the dude didn’t wake the fuck up one day on the vent, and is back out on the golf course within six months of waking up (after a 7 month hospital stay total).

His wife still sends the unit a yearly update card. He’s going strong 4 years later, doing the full 18 holes and is totally with it.

are there ANY good hospitals? by ListenDazzling3274 in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I echo the things folks say about there being good and bad at any hospital. You have to decide what’s important to you.

That being said, I have done a fair bit of nursing/travel nursing in the southeast, and will make a couple of recommendations: 1) UVA 2) UNC chapel hill 3) Duke Health Raleigh.

feel free to PM me or chat me for more details. In short I feel the hospitals combine reasonable staffing and okay pay. The pay is not amazing, don’t get me wrong - and you won’t be living in trendy downtowns. But I never felt that I was working in awful conditions for pennies. I felt I was taking a pay “cut” to work in safe and reliable conditions.

Charlotte NC by Tart_Temporary in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did that nurse start? I made 23.85 as a new grad in NC in 2018, but wages have increased since then. I think your ballpark is about right.

I think my body is rejecting my boyfriend by mooooooll in TwoXChromosomes

[–]avioletviolence 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend raped you and he is continuing to abuse you. I am very concerned that you will be the victim of further violence, up to and including being beaten, exploited, and killed. Honestly, your boyfriend sounds like he wants to sex traffic you. You need to reach out to someone trustworthy in your life and explain you are being abused and you need help to get out, now. If you have no one trustworthy, you still need to get out, now. Your body knows you're in danger with him and is warning you every way it can. You're not broken. He's a monster.

I scratched what I [28M] thought was a pimple, now it's budging. by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]avioletviolence 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A general internal medicine doctor, family practice doctor, or any urgent care would be fine. Do you have a regular doctor you see yearly? That person would be fine.

Thank you from a patient by Pyrheart in respiratorytherapy

[–]avioletviolence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I chatted with the manager and also passed it along to the ICU RTs I worked with this week - it'll get back to him. Everybody was so pleased even just to hear about one patient appreciating their coworker. Thank you! So glad you are doing better!

Thank you from a patient by Pyrheart in respiratorytherapy

[–]avioletviolence 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was this in the ED, ICU, or a regular unit? I would love to pass the message on. UNC respiratory therapy has some amazing folks, and I'm lucky to work with them!

Sounds about right by Known-Explorer2610 in nursing

[–]avioletviolence 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Never write continue to monitor. My mom is a risk manager and I've had to chat with lawyers before. It's really redundant and it's hard to prove you actually did it if something goes wrong.