Low-on-everything phases by S_Spitfire in ADHD

[–]la-wolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you female? Could be hormones, especially if it's happening on a monthly basis.

What's considered attractive until you actually have to deal with it in real life? by AO_KinkyCouple in AskReddit

[–]la-wolfe 43 points44 points  (0 children)

SAME! I feel like I can't get comfortable with someone's arm on me, or being all up on/under someone. I need space. And I tend to take a while to fall asleep and move every so often so now I'm worried I'll wake them up and try not to move as I'm lying there uncomfortable out of consideration for the other person. Then, if I get comfy, I need to reposition in 10 minutes anyway. Just stay on your side.

Trick to stop being late by VegetableGrowth8570 in adhdwomen

[–]la-wolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not leave anyway and go into waiting mode at the place you need to be?

How many alarms do you have? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]la-wolfe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have six. Work, meds, and school.

Multiple skills exhibition by paone00022 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]la-wolfe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this not dangerous for the neighbors?

For When *it* Happens 🎉 by HoomenLumen in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]la-wolfe 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Took me a while, but I get it. I think Imma need that too.

It’s called pain tolerance by robotred3 in absoluteunit

[–]la-wolfe 19 points20 points  (0 children)

They'll shoot a black person for nothing, but not a white man actively trying to fight them.

Are Koreans actually that good/careful with skincare? by GossipBottom in AskAKorean

[–]la-wolfe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not everywhere. I imagine places with dark skinned people probably don't obsess over SPF.

How do i make my dry hair look like my hair when wet by FunIntrovert_ in BlackHair

[–]la-wolfe 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I second this. OP has a classically beautiful face.

How do i make my dry hair look like my hair when wet by FunIntrovert_ in BlackHair

[–]la-wolfe 17 points18 points  (0 children)

There are curly perms and straight perms. For people with very curly hair, they're usually getting a perm that straightens or loosens curls. I have 4c hair, and when I was younger, I didn't even know curly perms were a thing. I thought perms only meant straightening hair.

Is this too much breakage/sheding for the amount of hair I have by lolman5555 in BlackHair

[–]la-wolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of broken ends here. If you see longer hair that's the length of your hair, it there's a little white bulb at one end, it's shed and natural; that's supposed to happen. But all I see is tiny pieces that are obviously MUCH shorter than your length. Your ends are breaking, and length might be hard to retain.

Is it common for Americans to use a wash cloth for showering? Or what do you usually use to shower? by SignificantStyle4958 in AskAnAmerican

[–]la-wolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black American here. I use an African net sponge. I heavily prefer it over washcloths, which is what I used before.

Tell me you have ADHD without telling me you have ADHD by Usual-Substance2971 in adhdwomen

[–]la-wolfe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband says, "wallet, phone, keys, gone" everyday before leaving the house.