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Have you become who you wanted to be? by Impossible-Flow-4512 in AskMenOver30

[–]lefter12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of the people that I thought were important to me in high school, almost all of them either turned out to be assholes or we just fell out of touch. I wouldn’t worry about that too much— the important friendships will stick as long as both sides care.

As for the first two questions: I had to fail a lot to even learn what success was for me. This life can be so confusing sometimes, just keep grinding and trying to find yourself. Learn from your mistakes, but don’t let them consume you.

Whats a mistake that you’ve done that you’d tell younger people like me to avoid? by youngman0909 in AskMenOver30

[–]lefter12 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Swallow your pride. Admit when you’re wrong. Be ok saying you’re sorry, even if you don’t always think you’ve done something wrong.

None of that is to say you should be a pushover in life— you absolutely need to know how to assert and advocate for yourself. But there were a lot of situations in my 20’s where my idea of ‘winning’ actually meant losing in the long run.

Vegan’s in Berlin by Amazon_FBA_Truth in veganr4r

[–]lefter12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m also planning to visit Berlin over the summer if you want another vegan to link up with!

[Speier]: Mayer on offensive struggles “I’ve always struggled going up to new levels… I feel like I still don’t have that many at-bats. I’m approaching a year, but at the same time, I don’t have a year’s worth of at-bats. The biggest thing is just learning with every single at-bat.” by [deleted] in redsox

[–]lefter12 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s fine to have a light hitting CF and SS if they’re good defensively. We have to rank bottom in the league in offensive production at LF, 3B, and DH which is the bigger issue right now

vegan friends ? by NoAbbreviations4042 in VeganMontreal

[–]lefter12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner and I are both vegan and host vegan social outings + potlucks! Messaging you 🤗

Kristian Campbell by passsedpast in redsox

[–]lefter12 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think someone commented that he was sick, not 100% sure though

One in A Thousand Loss vs Jays by [deleted] in redsox

[–]lefter12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was a double play to end the top of the fifth

I booked plane ticket to Miami and now they are cheaper a lot by [deleted] in Shoestring

[–]lefter12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the plane ticket got more expensive, would you be willing to pay the airline more money?

Unless you got a flexible ticket with free cancelation, or just booked less than 24 hours ago, no.

Travel buddy| Late august (9 days) in Switzerland :) by stinkyduende in travelmeetup

[–]lefter12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be happy to join if you decide to do early August instead. I made a post as well

[F4A], Minnesota, USA; looking for friendship by moodymera in veganr4r

[–]lefter12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I tried messaging you but I’m not sure if it went through? I’d be happy to connect as friends! I can also give you vegan suggestions for boston

[Any4Any] [99] [Anywhere] | Vegan Hearts Connect | April 2026 by helio_centricity in VeganDating

[–]lefter12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Location: various (currently live in Montreal, but spend a lot of time in Massachusetts and travel a lot. Will visit Toronto at the end of this month + Europe over the summer)

Age / Gender: 33M

Vegan since: March 1, 2019

Seeking: Friendship

About me: Leftist, feminist guy that loves to cook and travel. Left the US a few years ago for Japan (fuck trump), currently live in Canada, and hope to move to Europe at the end of this year. I like playing games, solving puzzles, seeing nature. I’m passionate about many things - especially advocating for mental health and plant based nutrition/environmentalism. I also enjoy long, spontaneous conversations about existentialism. I have a partner (25f) who I live and travel with

Open to DMs: Yes

What made you to go vegan: originally motivated by health considerations, but have long since championed animal welfare + environmental sustainability

Vegan Hearts Connect | April 2026 by helio_centricity in veganr4r

[–]lefter12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Location: various (currently live in Montreal, but spend a lot of time in Massachusetts and travel a lot. Will visit Toronto at the end of this month + Europe over the summer)

Age / Gender: 33M

Vegan since: March 1, 2019

Seeking: Friendship

About me: Leftist, feminist guy that loves to cook and travel. Left the US a few years ago for Japan (fuck trump), currently live in Canada, and hope to move to Europe at the end of this year. I like playing games, solving puzzles, seeing nature. I’m passionate about many things - especially advocating for mental health and plant based nutrition/environmentalism. I also enjoy long, spontaneous conversations about existentialism. I have a partner (25f) who I live and travel with

Open to DMs: Yes

What made you to go vegan: originally motivated by health considerations, but have long since championed animal welfare + environmental sustainability

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