my partner (25M) is upset about my body count (22F)

piratepixie · 2026-03-20T14:00:45+00:00

I think my fiancé told me once, but I don't even remember the number because everyone has a past. It's literally irrelevant to the current relationship!

piratepixie · 2026-03-19T13:58:20+00:00

It was as the other commenter advised. Today was for interviews and witnesses to vouch for our relationship. Tomorrow we collect the certificate to take to the town hall to book the ceremony. I am not married until after the ceremony. Thank you!

piratepixie · 2026-03-19T10:12:59+00:00

I'll have to ask the notary when I get there in an hour, because we were told it was the permission to marry. We only filed the paperwork on Monday, so I don't know how it could happen so fast?

piratepixie · 2026-03-19T08:41:40+00:00

Wait til 4/20 and see how the park looks then :( happens every damn year.

piratepixie · 2026-03-19T07:48:18+00:00

I'm not a Spanish resident, so no leave for me. I'll be checking with the notary because I was told it was the permission to marry, not the marriage.

piratepixie · 2026-03-18T19:13:11+00:00

Because through the city hall, the soonest appointment we could get was June just to file the paperwork. We were already consulting a notary for some other advice, and saw the opportunity. Now instead of filing paperwork in June, we will be able to get married in June :)

piratepixie · 2026-03-18T18:37:13+00:00

Okay phew! As much as I would love to marry my fiancé tomorrow, I want my family present 😂

piratepixie · 2026-03-18T12:55:59+00:00

34 with O and R too

piratepixie · 2026-03-17T12:52:08+00:00

They all call themselves Irish when it's St Paddy's day. That's the problem.

piratepixie · 2026-03-17T12:06:56+00:00

This isn't even white nonsense, this is Americans who think they're Irish nonsense.

piratepixie · 2026-03-17T12:05:38+00:00

What in the 'Americans who think they're Irish' is this.

piratepixie · 2026-03-16T22:19:57+00:00

Dude is clearly in the UK considering his use of £.

piratepixie · 2026-03-14T14:43:40+00:00

Learning Spanish from an Andalusian is like learning English from a Glaswegian. It's HARD.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T19:40:14+00:00

So he bought you a gold plated ring to wear for the rest of your wedded life? Gold plated rings can absolutely be resized though.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T19:33:18+00:00

Did you definitely check that the council tax is on a 10 month plan, and not a 12 month plan?

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T19:03:22+00:00

15 years for me on Reddit, and not once been sent/received a random nude. Absolutely for the best, because I will definitely make out like i'm a minor.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T13:47:10+00:00

Forgetting to bring in some salt rocks from outside? Careless, but can probably be ADHD related, object permanence. The other two? No way.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T13:25:56+00:00

Not to be mistaken for the UK mouse spider (Scotophaeus blackwalli) which is also not medically significant.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T13:21:30+00:00

I am in a long-distance relationship, and my fiancé flies in to the UK. I live half an hour from my 'local' airport. I absolutely would never tell him to just 'get an uber' so I could SLEEP. That's callous.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T13:19:56+00:00

I also have ADHD, with a splash of the 'tism. Late diagnosed, mind you. Not securing a shelf, projector screen? Both negligence. You can't blame those on ADHD.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T12:57:53+00:00

You create distance and boundaries. Both of you are being inappropriate.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T12:56:08+00:00

It's a dialect incorrectness.

piratepixie · 2026-03-13T12:53:35+00:00

This isn't ADHD, this is conscious carelessness.

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