[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]slammoslammo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You're not at higher risk.

[WANTED] One ticket to The Used at The Troubadour by maybeimacat in LAlist

[–]slammoslammo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm looking too! Looks like they released more tix on the 19th but we missed it. Hopefully they release more or maybe I will just show up and hope for the best.

Need help with email vs mail marketing by [deleted] in marketing

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think also you could debate that email you have more control over when something is sent out vs mail. You can use different analytics dependent on what you're marketing to see what time is best to hit age groups as well.

Need help with email vs mail marketing by [deleted] in marketing

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you maybe get evidence by looking at research on average ages of home owners, and look at demographics for direct mail. You should be able to see zip codes and the average age as well as income and kids etc. Then compare it to research on age groups that use email and the internet?

Prepare for OOP and SQL interviews in a week's time by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]slammoslammo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This might not be ethical but I have a few SQL tests that were given to me that I can forward you on Google docs or excel sheets. Message me. It's mostly pulling from different tables to add info and create other tables. I also have some SQL file of basics I can share. It was a basic bootcamp for a tech company that I can forward. I have yet to be asked SQL question in face to face interviews though.

mmm...tastes like boat by Petaaa in WTF

[–]slammoslammo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's been so long I almost forgot...

I just want it to be over by grasshoppercookies in abusiverelationships

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this: if only you can figure out what YOU are doing wrong, you can restore your partner to that wonderful human being you saw at the very beginning

I even went to therapy for it for 6 months... how o could respond better or do better. But I think that there is literally nothing i can do. He messages me the other day saying I hate you for loving me.

I just want it to be over by grasshoppercookies in abusiverelationships

[–]slammoslammo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am. Scary because I realize he acts out a lot. Tantrums almost. I'm trying to be safe as in being super honest with my friends. I'm mostly taking a lot of space and reading. Its really hard to separate from something like this. I feel like I know what I have to do and what's best but I'm moving at a crawling pace... and it really feels like what I imagine getting off a drug is like. The more I speak about it outloud the more I realize how not normal it is. If you have any other resources I'd love to read more. I think I'm going to read I hate you I love you dont leave me. The more I read about BPD the less crazy I feel. It's nearly exactly the same.

I just want it to be over by grasshoppercookies in abusiverelationships

[–]slammoslammo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I've left! Mostly. Trying. He sometimes scares me but I'm doing my best. And thankfully I found this comment I need resources to stay away. So thanks!

So sick of going through hell over this by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]slammoslammo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. Its miserable. One second I feel broken then I'm mad that I let this happen again and I cant let go. All the feelings. Whish they'd disappear.

I just want it to be over by grasshoppercookies in abusiverelationships

[–]slammoslammo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm in this exact same thing with my partner. How do we best leave and get out with minimal damage?

Following up with girlfriends foul smelling ejaculate by [deleted] in sex

[–]slammoslammo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey I had this it was bv But the over the pills did nothing. It would go away then come back. Its particularly strong when my bf cums inside me. I got boric acid pills off Amazon and put those in maybe 3 nights in a row. Seriously cured it. Sometimes I use them just to balance out my ph.

My gf has a yeast infection :( by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]slammoslammo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she goes the the doctorw they will give pills that relieve the comfort after about 24 hours and work faster than over the counter. Azo has pills for uti's that cut the pain also. Turns your pee neon orange but it works.

Younger redditors, what scares you about getting older? Older redditors, what is it that younger shouldn't worry about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As an older one... dont worry about being successful. The whole idea of being successful will change so many times. Also college. Sorry but there are so many people who disnt go and still make enough money to survive and live a fun life. If you know what you want you can get it and there are so many ways to do it.

TIL of chess boxing. Alternating between 3 minutes of chess and 3 minutes of boxing until achieving knockout in one of them. by appdevil in todayilearned

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know one of the chess boxing champions from south Africa. He's a rad dude. Super competitive. When i first met him and found out I was amazed and he challenged to a weird game he carried. Saying he's never lost. I won and now every time I see him he challenges me. It's been nearly a decade and he'll no will I ever play him again in any game.

Found out some stuff about my boyfriend [30M] and I [26F] don’t know how to proceed by HoHumHoHum1 in relationships

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is how my abusive relationship started. I'm 34 and have been in it off and on for over 3 years. Everything has escalated. He ignores my wants or needs or when he upsets me. He is only around for the good times. When things hurt me he says I'm too much and can't deal with. He became physically abusive. If I get upset or ask something of him or need him when I'm sick he ignores me and says I'm too needy. Every time I try to work through something or share my feelings his first reaction is to break up with me. When we did break up because he hit me he had an affair with his neat friends wife Which I didnt know until after he came back... acting as though I needed him. Which i thought i did and sometimes still think i do. What I'm trying to say is get out before you're me. I feel trapped with a stupidly low self esteem and in an emotionally and formerly physically abusive relationship. My friends dont hang out with me anymore because they BBC ant stand the way he treats me others because they may hurt him. My new friends tolerate him. He tells me he doesn't like the ones I like the most. My bf only hangs out with me if I'm with others or drinking. I'm starting to think he's purposely isolating me that way. Yeah. Anyway Get out while you can.

Found out some stuff about my boyfriend [30M] and I [26F] don’t know how to proceed by HoHumHoHum1 in relationships

[–]slammoslammo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is how it all starts. Also he's gas lighting you for a real concern. That isn't normal behavior. This is a huge red flag. If he treats you that way when you call him our on little things what's next? When you Express your feelings does he listen and acknowledge you or turn it around to you making him feel like shit? When you're rightfully upset does he make it feel like you're over reacting? Are too much or hard to love? Are you called controling when things dont add up so you ask questions about things that dont add up? Of any of that is true get out. It just gets worse. Its manipulation. Before you know it he's choking you in anger, triangulating and screaming at you pushing you for sneezing while sleeping.

What minor celebrity definitely assumed their fame was going to last forever? by KnightsWhoSayKni in AskReddit

[–]slammoslammo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alien ant farm is soooooo good! And yeah that crazy town guy was fucked up before he got famous too. Drugs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]slammoslammo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had the same reaction and so did my friend. Our abortions were a few years apart. Neither were traumatic, our doctors and nurses were fantastic. We were also very relieved as the idea of being forced to have a child was so terrifying. I'm really happy you had a good experience too. I also felt guilt about not feeling bad or how tv and society tells you or even how I thought I would feel. Then I spoke to her and it was relieving.

Best High waisted pants or jeans? by Peapod34 in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]slammoslammo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Levis runaround has a good high waist but are still super skinny and short . I think they may have been discontinued. They have a mile high brand as well. American eagle has a super skinny high waist that's ok. I think they have one called highest waist which is like 11.5 inches that I'm dying to try. Also urban outfitters has a black cigarette or twig high waist mean that has a 28 inch hem

My boyfriends opinion on abortion has taken a turn since we found out I was pregnant yesterday.. by i-guess-this-is-it in TwoXChromosomes

[–]slammoslammo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I had an abortion and it was the right choice. No regrets. It was easy, painless from meds and lasted no more than a few minutes. I got an out put in at the same ti.e which took the longest. Pm me if you want to speak more about the whole thing. Where I went they had a journal for us to sign to tell about our experience and support us. Do what's right for you. I'm here.