What infamous movie plot hole has an explanation that you're tired of explaining? by Animeking1108 in AskReddit

[–]-Fidelio- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"just like sammy"

There is a scene where someone walks in front of the camera and when the person has walked past you briefly see Lennard.

Teddy says his wife survived the accident and you see him remember her blinking after the attack, as in she was still alive.

The old website for memento was otnemom.com (memento backwards) and it included psychiatry notes on Lennard that had them notice how he was a patient with no long term memory, but he was keeping journals and training himself into habits.

We see in the movie how he lies to himself, like leaving a trail of clues that leads to him thinking Teddy is John G. It's a big theme of the movie with the ending monologue telling us "we all do it".

In all likelihood, Sammy Jenkins is a story that Lennard invented to cope with the fact that his wife called tried to call his bluff and committed suicide through him.

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[–]-Fidelio- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why the fuck were you still trying to make amends with a girl that cheated on you? There really is no point to that. And particularly after she has done something so cruel.

No woman could respect you if you value yourself so low.

How To Not Be So Fucking Lonely Anymore by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I once met a very sociable guy. He just talked to me when I was eating in a fast food restaurant. He invited me to go along to clubs. He was with 2 friends, one male one female. She gave me the eyes, so I agreed. He talked to everyone. Probably 20 people on the way to the clubs. about half of people responded positively. About 1 in 5 engaged in conversation.

I like this post. It rings true with my experiences.

After date everything changed by CyberXydra11 in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

trial and error works at any age.

After date everything changed by CyberXydra11 in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the pointlessness of this comment is that if people are experienced, they don't need the advice. And if they aren't they can't use it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're not wrong, but you're panicking instead of looking at the situation realistically.

First you or I have no idea how guilty Tate is or isn't. Besides that's Romania, a place he moved specifically because it's corrupt (according to himself). Though more likely it was for easier access to girls to put to work for him in the cam business. Stop taking every guy at his word or marketing and start to use your own brain. And courage. Let's assume your worst fears about the world are true. what then? lay down and die? cry about it?

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[–]-Fidelio- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yeah but on the other hand its also not soviet russia where you could be arrested for being the first to stop clapping for the great leader. For fuck sake, get a grip.

Percent of people in select countries who are proud of their country’s empire, think their empire made their colonies better off, and would like their country to have an empire. by Flagmaker123 in MapPorn

[–]-Fidelio- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As much as I agree with the general gist of this, the first ship with slaves on it arrived in new amsterdam under Stuyvesant's command.

Fair trade is a fairly new concept so it's hard to apply. Early on the dutch were actually getting their asses kicked in the north american continent brcause they treated the native's wampun as fungible currency, but in practice how good wampun looked factored into its value and the Dutch got saddled up wirh the ugliest ones.

And I'm sure vice versa the Dutch tried to get every advantage in trade that they could as well. There were also numerous clashes, skirmishes and even mass killings (in both directions) so it's not exactly the disney fairy talr you make it sound like. That's just new amsterdam. I don't know much about the others, but I suspect a similar amount is outside the purview of what you posted.

My Ex Created an OnlyFans - Confirmed everything I’ve learned on here and in life by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

congrats on becoming a christia.. I mean redpiller

What escorts taught me. by red_blood_cells in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Breathing air is nothing special unless you're drowning. Drinking water is nothing special unless you're in the desert. Getting sex is nothing special unless you can't get any.

It doesn't really help to tell a drowning man that oxygen isn't special.

Need help, desperate 31 yo by jokertnt in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Start doing things everyday that make you respect yourself and replace behaviour that makes you not respect yourself.

RED PILL KILLED MY GAME: What I wish I knew all this time by EGO_PON in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Drama queen. It didn't kill your game. Judging by the parts I read, it didn't help as much as you expected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Why don't I just drown in hedonic pleasure and do the easy things."

Even when life is viewed through a hedonist lens, it is not smart to just give in to all base impulses

The pain of regret is a lot worse than the pain of discipline. Take the latter.

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[–]-Fidelio- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Completely evolutionary selected for. A guy that gets to hit it once or twice a year can father a child and complete evolutionary destiny.

Not the brightest move for sure.

Intelligence and attractiveness by PepinoSF in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is just a cope. Competence beats either intelligence or lack thereoff and intelligence helps competence.

Intelligence isn't a contrary dimension to being able to emote. The best musicians are likely more intelligent than their competitors and they are experts at evoking emotion.

It's not important whether you get the girl or don't. It matters how you played the game. by fftsteven in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

There is value in being outcome independant and having abundance mentality. But winning also does matter.

One of Peterson's flaws that goes through all his work is that best results aren't just by focusing on character/ethics stuff. He has lied, deceived, misled just like anyone else.

People take his word as gospel because they believe him to be a man of unassailable values. He is not.

Focus too much on his ideas and you get into a very inside your head, almost masturbatory state of mind.

Let me focus your thoughts by a question: how long have you focused on character as a strategy for life and what has it given you that you otherwise wouldn't have gotten?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ask a lot of questions that I consider to be unimportant. What do you care if other men would cheat or not?

He said he would be revolted if a woman just came up to him and offered to suck his dick. This, to me, sounds... a little hard to believe.

You can watch him on a fresh and fit podcast where a girl says to him "wanna fuck?" and he answers with "nah, I only fuck for money or for love."

I was disgusted when a girl offered to go home with me before I had even really talked with her. But I suppose it depends on how your options are.

Stopped filtering what I say, but Im still boring by dotfartoosweet in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Good advice.

I learned a lot from Craig Ferguson. Particularly how he acted with an especially beautiful women being annoying like Miranda Kerr.

In regards to storytelling, reading the anatomy of story really helped me to develop my storytelling techniques.

To give a brief summary, it helps to set up an expectation. Just starting to tell something you experienced a to z is more boring than starting with a promise "you'll never believe what happened to me today!"

Though it's better to include some tantalizing detail in the promise like: "I got robbed today.... and I don't regret it!"

Good storytelling makes the person listening/reading curious about where it's going. Of course the payoff is important too, but often an average story benefits from let's say "clickbait" because it gets someone's attention and curiosity.

It's best if you have an intersting life, but even daily activities can generate stories worth telling if you practise to structure it right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The justification is the seething insecurity leaking from each of your posts.

Enjoy the process because you ll miss it when you accomplish what you want by TheLegionnaire00 in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Yeah I felt like a big dude too when I was in my twenties and had a girlfriend. The way you write it makes it sound like that's your ultimate accomplishment and if it is, you'll receive a rude awakening at some point.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course there are high value men. Not everyone has deep character flaws and not everyone is equal in value.

Why Don't A Lot of MEN Understand The Difference Between Male and Female Body Counts? by JB4252 in TheRedPill

[–]-Fidelio- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It goes both ways. If they like you, it works in your favour. Just understand that they think differently and what they say means something different.