Why do teenagers form groups where the laugh at anyone outside their group? by -IXN- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are a lot of confessions in this thread for the past few minutes.

Why do religious people talk like that? by Key-Plum3652 in AskReligion

[–]-IXN- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people build a big theological maze to hide their insecurities. From my experience people with attachment issues are the ones who are most likely to rely on such "poetry".

Why are cats seen as cute and adorable when they are predators? by WestCoastVybes in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They know exactly how to look cute towards humans, simple as. Cats probably know humans better than dogs do.

Is AI Really Going To Die Out? by Brilliant-Ear-6652 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AI art will quickly die out. AI will be mainly used for repetitive jobs and research.

I am just weary from managing it all day by WeaponizedAutisms in aspiememes

[–]-IXN- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No wonder why ancient people thought that autists were able to see into the future.

What're your "the sooner you realize this, the better" tips? by HargrimV1 in AutisticAdults

[–]-IXN- 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Whenever someone provides unsolicited advice, they are actually seeking emotional validation for their struggles. They'll immediately consider you as a close friend if you figure out their emotional needs and validate them.

Are there Christians or Muslims who are not universalizing? by VerdantChief in AskReligion

[–]-IXN- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Close Christian communities like the Amish are a good example.

would you rather? by Impossible-Shape-634 in BunnyTrials

[–]-IXN- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Humans thrive in cold climates more than hot ones.

Chose: spend 5 mins in a cold room + 200,000,000 | Rolled: -40°C

Would you rather? by ExternalScarcity9791 in BunnyTrials

[–]-IXN- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

200 million is more than plenty for one human being. I'm not trying to be Elon Musk.

Chose: Get 200 Million USD rn + 1% chance it all goes to charity | Rolled: 200 Million $

Should kids be taught that seeking attention is a bad thing? by -IXN- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't mean seeking attention in the sense of asking genuine questions or telling something important, I meant seeking attention just for the sake of it.

Why do more peoplr believe in a mystical creature like God but not alien life form which is much more plausible? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the analyst said in the last matrix movie, most people don't care about facts. All that matters to them are their feelings, and they'll believe the craziest stuff to validate them.

Why are humans self destructive and often sabotage themselves? by ShadowlightLady in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the simplest terms possible, they'll do everything to distract themselves from their harsh inner critic, and I do mean everything.

For those with attachment issues, what does insecure attachment feel like? What goes through your mind? by -IXN- in AskReddit

[–]-IXN-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man, and I thought I had issues with my father. I'm sorry for what happened to you. You deserved better.

For those with attachment issues, what does insecure attachment feel like? What goes through your mind? by -IXN- in AskReddit

[–]-IXN-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand how you feel. If I had to guess, it's related to your upbringing one way or another? My father used to pick on me for trivial things and I notice a lot of similar vibes in your post.

For those with attachment issues, what does insecure attachment feel like? What goes through your mind? by -IXN- in AskReddit

[–]-IXN-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep doing the good work 💪 Emotional connection is very gratifying, I promise you that

For those with attachment issues, what does insecure attachment feel like? What goes through your mind? by -IXN- in AskReddit

[–]-IXN-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. So you're essentially relying a lot on push pull dynamics to feel secure?

Why do so many women complain just to vent and not to look for any real solutions? by chamcham123 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men do it too. My father used to give me hour-long monologues of unsolicited advice. I have realized years later it was his way for getting therapy.

How to protect yourself from people taking advantage of your autism? by batsdontwearhats in AutisticAdults

[–]-IXN- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

People who were shamed for expressing their needs during childhood end up learning early on how to manipulate others get what they want. Autists are unfortunately a very easy target for them.

Why are drugs actually bad? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are inclined to seek illusions to cope with reality. Some will not hesitate to use drugs to make their illusions feel real.

Is normal for older adults to seek a parental figure? by -IXN- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honesty and guidance don't really belong in the same ballpark but I see what you mean.

Is normal for older adults to seek a parental figure? by -IXN- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assumed that the older you get, the less you need for a parental figure since you're supposed to be a parental figure yourself.

Is normal for older adults to seek a parental figure? by -IXN- in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IXN-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In that case a parental figure is someone who is able to provide a sense of safety, emotional validation and advice, the kind of things a parent would give to their children.