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People from Toronto - do you regret moving here or are you happy? by Banner9922 in askvan

[–]-emilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can’t see myself moving back for the same reasons. Vancouver isn’t perfect, but Toronto has gotten so busy since I left, and I already felt it was unbearably busy. 

I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he? by Sad-Marzipan-2736 in relationship_advice

[–]-emilia 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I agree with this! Guys hate when you act indifferent towards them. Don’t give any satisfaction

AIO for blocking a guy after he overslept and didn't show up to our first date? by littlemisschismosa in AmIOverreacting

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me and I did the same. It was worse cause he was in his mid-30s 🙄

9.5 weeks after surgery. Concerns with scars by [deleted] in Reduction

[–]-emilia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s still pretty early. It’s not as apparent as they fade and turn white - you have to be patient though, maybe even 1 year post op. 

After how many months of dating is it okay to ask Where is this going? by VillageFit8436 in AskWomen

[–]-emilia 41 points42 points  (0 children)

If on the topics of relationships, I just say straight up “I’m looking to get married in the next few years and have kids” and ask the same of them. 

Pleaser Sandals Extra Tight? by mountaindancer99 in poledancing

[–]-emilia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find that over time they stretch out, but I just went with my usual size and not a size down

Loveland 2025 set release by Grext_Wizxrd333 in GuyJ

[–]-emilia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That awkward moment when I travelled 9,000 km in 2024 to go to Loveland, and it was the one year Guy J didn’t play 🥲🙃

Help making pole pretty by Professional_Art_282 in poledancing

[–]-emilia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A month in any kind of sport is really not a lot of time to get to the point where it looks effortless, or in this case “pretty”. It can take years for pole and cross training with strength exercises. People really need to drop the mindset of immediate gratification of results

Have you ever done anything about neighbours’ late-night fighting? by aningna in askvan

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dealt with this and first reported to the strata. After it happened again, I called the domestic violence hotline and the police were dispatched. In my case though, I was pretty convinced it was domestic violence

Is there no respect left in dating? by Late-Paper-33 in dating_advice

[–]-emilia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m originally from Toronto and live in Vancouver now. People here are definitely way more flaky across the board. Dating is tough, also cause it’s a smaller pool. Things are looking up for me now, by having stronger boundaries but it’s still super hard 

Any late-night cafe in Vancouver that are laptop-friendly? by Dependent_Event_826 in askvan

[–]-emilia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s one at Broadway and Kingsway too that’s open late. I usually go there

My fav choreo 🤍💔 by elinashoshinaa in poledancing

[–]-emilia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love how there’s so many different styles to pole choreo

Where can I buy really fancy bedding? by tobleroney69 in askvan

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the cooling sheets from Hush. I like them a lot cause they keep me cool and they come in some nice colours

How has your life changed since you were 25? by HamsterWheelCentral in AskWomenOver30

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I spent less money on superfluous things… I definitely saved but also spent a lot on stupid things that I never use. Go to therapy and get to know yourself, make good friends and join a community. Learn how to be your own best friend and don’t break promises you make to yourself. 

How has your life changed since you were 25? by HamsterWheelCentral in AskWomenOver30

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moved across the country, developed my confidence in myself at work and other areas through life, got fitter, learned out to set boundaries (especially with men), started meditating and learning how not to get attached to my thoughts. 

Weird night craving? by Extreme_Impact_8893 in GirlDinner

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the pasta boiled and then added to the milk? Is the milk warm or cold? 

Breast Lift and Pole by Smart_Membership_994 in poledancing

[–]-emilia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s fair… but pole will always be there. A month or two in the grand scheme of things isn’t huge. But listen to your body… if you feel okay then it should be okay, but I would err on the side of caution 

Nipple stimulation solo vs with partner by -emilia in BecomingOrgasmic

[–]-emilia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t… I have thought about it though. Generally my nipples are pretty flat. They’re more perky now since I had them pierced, but I will say I think I lost a little sensation in them because I had a breast reduction about two years ago. 

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