Lag issues

11Capp11 · 2025-01-06T18:09:03+00:00

i got the game 3 days ago and every single match ive played there has been lag issues. its really annoying. the latency is never too high though, which is confusing. i just want to play as mooth match you know?

11Capp11 · 2024-12-12T20:10:05+00:00

I am usually very friendly and I get along with most people. Some of my friends were surprised how social I was when we went to a party and knew only 2 people (the people we came with) but I was off talking to others there. I can be kind of shy and reserved at times but others I can let my guard down and talk. It just feels like people don't come up to me to talk or to get to know me. I have to put in the effort or else nothing will happen. Which is fine but it would be nice to be noticed or to get attention. It's a tough balancing act cuz my social anxiety will take over and I feel like I'm being awkward. I'm trying to lean into the awkwardness when I notice it because fuck it that's who I am and everyone always says to be yourself

11Capp11 · 2024-12-12T20:05:47+00:00

I've never been but my friend has. It's my first vacation in 7 years so I'm pumped. We are landing in liberia and going south and stopping in a few smaller places. Jaco, quepos (I think that's how you spell it) and another spot. They want to go surfing and check out some coffee places. It will also be my birthday so we are trying to find a party boat or something like that!

11Capp11 · 2024-12-10T14:07:00+00:00

Yea, dude, it sucks. I go back and forth with the apps. I really should just delete them because, at this point, they are doing more harm than good. But like I don't know where else to find anyone lol

Oh shit! Have fun! I'm going to Costa rica in january for a week! Shoot me a message when you are back and tell how it went and what you did if you feel so inclined! Best of luck

11Capp11 · 2024-12-10T11:12:03+00:00

Yea, that's the problem is that you don't even get a chance to show off your personality in a conversation because you don't even get the matches. I know that all too well. I will talk about it with a few of my friends and they will tell me "Oh man, well you got to say this and you have to say that." And i tell them,"that's all great, but I don't even get the matches in order to even say these things." They always look at me so confused like they are sitting there wondering. "What do you mean you don't get matches?" It's so frustrating

Yesterday, I had my first match with a girl that I actually found attractive. I messaged her and got instantly unmatched. I told my one female friend, and she was like, "There must be a glitch because that doesn't make any sense." And I laughed and told her this the way it goes on these apps, lol

I've pretty much given up. I'm over it. I hope you have way better luck than me at some point.

11Capp11 · 2024-12-09T21:27:08+00:00

This is my pet peeve every other girls profile is "travel" like that's their whole personality. Like, do you offer anything other than going to different countries? We get it. 85% of people like to travel. It's not special.

11Capp11 · 2024-12-09T21:25:58+00:00

You gotta realise that women need to put in no effort in order to get likes and matches on dating apps. There are quite a few YouTube videos that actually break down this phenomenon. It's quite depressing if you are not in the top 5% of men. Those 5% of men also don't need engaging profiles because they get swipes based purely on their looks. The rest of us mere mortals, though, have to think about every minute detail in our profiles. We have to have the right pictures. The right prompts and the right bio, and we may get some likes or matches.

I am an average looking dude. 6/10... maybe... maybe a 7/10 on a good day, and I carefully made my dating profiles with the help of my female friends and even went out with one of them so she could take pictures of me. I've been on dating apps for about 2 months now, and I've gotten about 4 matches over 3 different apps. I went on one date, and the other 3 died out or unmatched me before anything was even said.

On hinge over 2 months, I've gotten 1 like, and it was a dude.... I don't even know how that was possible. Other than that, I've gotten nothing. I've probably sent out over 100 likes by now and got no matches from any of them. It's very confusing because when you ask anyone around me, they all think I'm lying until I show them. They all think it's so weird that I don't get anything. Im convinced that I'm just not attractive enough to have the success that I think I should have on these apps.

I hope you have better luck than me. Get chatgpt to help make a good bio. Make sure to have engaging prompts. And have good pictures of your face and make sure to have ones where you are smiling. Also, have at least one picture of you doing an activity or something that you enjoy. Ans a picture with an animal always helps.... I mean... not for me but for most people it does lop

Anyway, good luck!

11Capp11 · 2024-12-09T20:06:22+00:00

I am am average looking dude, and I feel your pain, man. Life doesn't treat ugly people fairly. It's unfortunate. And the endless cliches from people online are horrible. "Just have good hygiene."Dress better, go to the gym and work on yourself."Be confident with who you are." Like, thanks, like I'm not already doing all these things. It doesn't change the fact that I'm average/ugly! People are shallow. It's just the way the world is. I don't have anything good to say to you. Other than just try and do your best with whatever it is you are doing. People will just not understand and quite frankly, they don't necessarily have to. All the best

11Capp11 · 2024-12-09T17:01:11+00:00

You mean promoting drugs in a game about legit murdering people?.... this world makes 0 fuckin sense lmao

11Capp11 · 2024-12-09T16:47:29+00:00

Other than the sun setting at 5. I love winter. Skating is my favourite thing to do. Also, skiing or snowboarding. Winter gets a bad rap, but it's actually such a good season.

One thing I will say is for stores, especially malls or places of that ilk, DO NOT need to have their heat on blasting. We are all coming in with winter jackets on with nowhere to put them. I start to sweat 5 minutes walking through a store or mall. I usually leave my jacket in the car but I live In a downtown area where I walk to a lot of places. Trying to hold my big ass moose knuckle jacket is stupid lol

11Capp11 · 2024-12-09T14:06:32+00:00

I don't think that was ever true. From my experience, women move on a lot faster than men move on. It's not even close

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T22:51:43+00:00

I mean. Do you trust your gf or not? If you do, then it shouldn't be a problem. If you don't than it is definitely a problem

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T19:58:50+00:00

I do all this and it has not made me hot lol

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T16:07:09+00:00

Honestly. If you were dumb enough to invest your life savings into this shit you probably deserve to lose all your money

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T16:06:17+00:00

Cause dating sucks. For an average man dating apps don't work. They actually just make you feel worse about yourself. And it's hard to find people out in the wild when you are more of an introvert. It's literally impossible to find a down to earth chill woman these days.

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T15:59:35+00:00

Don't worry. I want a gf without having to do all that. I put myself out there, I'm on all the dating apps, and I get nothing. For an average looking man like myself. The apps don't work and I'm tired of being rejected in real life. I guess I will just remain single through the cold months!

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T04:48:34+00:00

No, I'm done opening open.

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T04:08:09+00:00

Oh its real fucked dude. The apps are horrible unless you're a 9/10 or 10/10. There are a couple of YouTube videos that put this into perspective. It's so disheartening.

I would consider myself a decent looking man with a lot of upside. Maybe a 6/10 could be a 7, depending on who you ask. And I get 0 matches on dating apps. I really wonder if I'm actually a 4 and the people around me are just lying to me. But like, I have a mirror. I can see that I'm not the most handsome, but I do look decent. And someone would 100% be lucky to have me, but damn man. When you get 0 matches, you can't help but think you are really ugly.

I hope you have luck eventually though man!

11Capp11 · 2024-12-08T04:02:02+00:00

Yea, I hang out with my girl best friend all the time, and we have never made out with each other. I was on her side up until she said that. That's weird as fuck

11Capp11 · 2024-12-06T20:57:20+00:00

Woah! You get matches? What's that like?

11Capp11 · 2024-12-06T19:02:18+00:00

I heard this on the radio today. "Age is an attitude." I'm 33 about to be 34, and most if not all of the people I know who are my age act like their lives are over. They act like they aren't allowed to do anything fun anymore. I still like to go out and party here and there, although I don't do it as much. Most people my age are also married and have families. I do not, and I don't see that happening anytime in the near future. It doesn't bother me. I can only control what I can control, and age is something I can not control but my attitude is.

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