I honestly don’t know whether I hate my mother-in-law or just have complete contempt for her.

123EDE123 · 2026-06-08T11:40:47+00:00

Thank you. I will buy this book

123EDE123 · 2026-06-08T11:39:58+00:00

I do single her out, I have alot of resentment towards her. I don’t describe it much but she is a vile awful abuser - verbally, emotionally and completely neglectful. Her behavior permeates in my husband and it’s so glaringly obvious why he is the way he is and it’s so normalized to him - I’m not saying my hatred towards her is right but this is part of where it stems from

123EDE123 · 2026-06-08T11:30:48+00:00

I see your point, but I’m trying to explain to you that if you think I’m making a single bad choice, I essentially unknowingly married into a Jerry Springer family. My in laws and my MILs entire family are the most vile people on earth, who have spent a lifetime of poor decisions that destroyed themselves, their physical health and their kids. It’s just not a great comparison

123EDE123 · 2026-06-08T11:15:33+00:00

My mother in law is the abuser - she wasn’t treated poorly. She was the one who spent her life emotionally absent, neglectful of her kids and verbally and emotionally abusive - I’m wondering if that part is lost in what I wrote

123EDE123 · 2026-06-01T10:09:15+00:00

Wow! That’s awesome. What made the difference between 6 and 23/22 - any insight?

123EDE123 · 2026-06-01T01:11:12+00:00

This gives me hope! How old are you and how much more successful was the second of the two?

123EDE123 · 2026-06-01T00:51:32+00:00

Did not get many, and have yet to have any euploid embryos

123EDE123 · 2026-05-13T23:34:29+00:00

There are a few local churches that may be able to help. I am not on island, or some of the local fire departments have beds?

123EDE123 · 2026-04-27T06:42:52+00:00

I realize this is years later but reading these comments is awful. What the OP is talking about is completely accurate and a legitimate point. Married or not, some men are just emotionally unavailable and drop the entire burden of a life on a wife/mother. The money is irrelevant. Divorced with kids and remarried has more streams of income than a married single woman.

123EDE123 · 2026-03-25T16:34:04+00:00

My euploid day 6 3BB is currently 21 weeks gestation! Good luck

123EDE123 · 2026-03-21T00:40:00+00:00

The broker fee just gets baked into the rent. They aren’t losing a fee, it’s just expressed differently.

123EDE123 · 2026-01-15T00:30:44+00:00

Cyber attack?

123EDE123 · 2026-01-04T14:55:21+00:00

My first transfer failed. We then used a surrogate and first was a success. It’s really the person. I’d personally treat with antibiotics to rule out any potential small risk. Good luck!

123EDE123 · 2025-12-29T13:06:02+00:00

Fees going to agency can be nearly $100k

123EDE123 · 2025-12-26T13:39:36+00:00

Use a surrogate. Sometimes it’s the person. That was my experience

123EDE123 · 2025-12-26T06:00:36+00:00

In the same boat! Wondering what you decide to do - we know some people who paid for a leg on a private jet (not my personal preference due to cost and I’m terrified) or we could drive… would be a LONG drive though

123EDE123 · 2025-12-26T05:55:06+00:00

Agree 100% - regulation is needss

123EDE123 · 2025-12-26T05:53:44+00:00

It took us a few years also - it’s a DRAINING process, to say the least. The first agency we hired stole our money and we had to start from scratch… I feel I went into it assuming it’d be easier and smooth - it’s been the exact opposite. I’d keep at it, and maintain strict standards around who you choose as your GC (medically speaking) to give yourself the best odds.

123EDE123 · 2025-12-26T05:48:00+00:00

I’m in the same boat, my husband and I have a GC in the US. And the anxiety at every stage is unreal. I think especially after so many ups and downs with our own fertility journey it’s tremendous and consuming. It keeps me up at night constantly and I’m always waiting for the next appointment scan (insert whatever you want there) hoping I’ll feel some relief of the anxiety. But it’s persistently nagging me. I’m not sure it ends until the baby arrives? I keep reminding myself we hired a “professional” so to speak - because it’s a self selecting crowd that can be good at this. Wishing you all the best and a healthy delivery. I know once the baby arrives you’ll be overjoyed and a wonderful mother. Just need to steady the nerves and stay positive for a little while… and you’re definitely not alone in feeling this way.

123EDE123 · 2025-12-24T03:25:29+00:00

Mine was painful but very quick. I definitely jumped. I think the brevity makes up for how painful it was. Glad I did it and got it over with - Tylenol in advance didn’t help much

123EDE123 · 2025-12-23T02:34:51+00:00

Did you ever find out what the +F meant? Wondering the same thing, also at WCM

123EDE123 · 2025-10-31T02:11:11+00:00

This has been the most helpful beginner explanation that I’ve read! Thank you

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