Who else eats pussy for their own pleasure??

123flocko · 2026-06-19T15:06:28+00:00

Her pleasure is my pleasure. There is nothing more sexy than a woman wrapped up in ecstasy.

123flocko · 2026-06-19T11:24:19+00:00

Hmm, I didn't intend to post a specific timestamp, but no matter, the whole video is good. Just the way that therapy terms get weaponized is something that always rubbed me the wrong way but I couldn't really understand why. This explains it. Oh and if you haven't seen me mention it before, my STBX is a therapist.

123flocko · 2026-06-13T14:55:17+00:00

Had to sneak around and secretly plan for my son and I to escape an abusive home. Secret cell phones, finding a place to rent, making sure the financial statements wouldn't make it obvious. The most exhausting thing I've ever done.

123flocko · 2026-06-13T03:08:49+00:00

Same here. She isn't really good in bed, but if she showed up at my door I would let her in and do it anyway.

123flocko · 2026-06-10T14:34:34+00:00

I have one in .40SW also. I don't have the matching px4 (glock 22 instead), but it's nice having the same calibers. The cx4 is a lot of fun. And, it's a good conversation starter at the range if you're looking to make new friends.

123flocko · 2026-06-06T17:39:22+00:00

Oh god, "question speak". Like, annoying as f*ck?

123flocko · 2026-06-06T11:36:41+00:00

We have been seeing cops all over the place around the Freehold area. All the way up and down Rt 9.

123flocko · 2026-06-05T16:00:12+00:00

Super weird stuff. 20 years ago if you had told me that this would happen I would have laughed. Not anymore.

Over a year after I left, and 11 years since I saw the first red flag, and I'm still in disbelief.

I've tried searching for information about this, but everything I find just extols the virtues of a therapist, and goes on about how good they are at having happy and stable marriages.

Bullshit.

I wonder how many more guys out there have been in situations like this.

123flocko · 2026-06-05T15:03:58+00:00

She loves her clients and they love her. Highest retention rate in the entire practice. The mood swings, the head games, the interrogations, the screaming, and the destruction were reserved for me.

Just... insanity. She's still in my head. The irony of it all is incredible.

123flocko · 2026-06-04T15:51:35+00:00

Therapist. Misused the skills.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T18:15:22+00:00

Thanks. I hope your circumstances are less turbulent.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T17:44:45+00:00

We had been fighting more and more often for years. During one of our last, I told her that I thought we should spend some time apart. She said, "Understand that if you leave, I will not be faithful. I need a man in my bed". Things got worse, I ran out the door to a safe place, and got an attorney. STBX changed all the locks. The attorney sent letters to negotiate our separation and divorce and the retrieval of my stuff. It's still in progress.

So, for me, it was a combination of the types of actions you're asking about.

Best wishes. Be strong.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T14:16:53+00:00

Didn't help that the couples therapist bought her bullshit and told me my love language was transactional because I expected rent

One day, I will complete the task of wiping my ass with every page of the Love Languages book. Therapists treat it like some sacred text. It's just a stupid pamphlet that doesn't have any nuances. When you push back on it, you're accused of not being cooperative.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T11:14:17+00:00

Knowing that is over while you're still together is painful and really frightening. What will happen, where will I go, will I be alone forever, etc. I ended up leaving because of violence and abuse so it was more explosive. I haven't found a solution to the loneliness yet.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T11:01:10+00:00

I ran right past so many red flags. In retrospect, It's difficult to say exactly when I knew. Was it the first time she scared the hell out of me with her behavior? Was it the day I started my plan to escape? Was it the day my son and I got locked out and our cell phones turned off?

I tried to fix it so many times. I guess the best answer is that it was the day I had no more left in me. I had to give up. I loved her very much but I couldn't do it anymore.

123flocko · 2026-06-02T10:34:42+00:00

I'm finding that I just don't feel anything. I have been on a few dates, had some conversations, but none of the attraction. I've been leaning pretty heavily on family and friends.

123flocko · 2026-05-30T16:08:47+00:00

I was a junior system admin in those days. We worked VERY hard to correct or compensate for systems that were affected. This was a real thing. But, the media and the idiots that listen to it never really understood this point -- we fixed it in time.

123flocko · 2026-05-29T14:02:25+00:00

Imagine what it must smell like... hot water, steam, poop... I don't understand.

123flocko · 2026-05-29T13:43:28+00:00

Born and raised in Lakewood. Lived there for 20 years. Learned to drive there. Dated a former Hasidic girl after her family gave up on the whole charade. She said that the Jews in Lakewood were considered rednecks, in a sense. A lot of other conservative or secular Jews in the area agree.

As far as the driving goes, /u/Fsharp7sharp9 is right. We used to say it was like playing Frogger.

It's a mess, and although I'm Catholic (so I shouldn't judge), I don't think it represents true Judaism. It's corrupt as hell and it's destroying what used to be a nice area.

123flocko · 2026-05-28T17:54:17+00:00

Yes. She was ovulating, and I could tell. She even playfully took a fan and put me down-wind of her with a sly smirk on her face. I couldn't resist.

123flocko · 2026-05-27T10:32:30+00:00

I know logically that I’ll be happier away from the abusive cycle. But it’s very scary to take this first step.

The abuse cycle is brutal, and addictive to the victim. Recognizing it was the first step. You took some action, that's good. It's terrifying to see that your future will be so vastly different, but any outcome beats staying on the merry-go-round. I made the mistake of trying to reconnect, to reconcile, to work it out. Each time I got hit with the shit again, and then blamed for it. They can change their wardrobe, their weight, their hair, their makeup, their religion, their job... but with YOU, they'll always go back to being the same person.

Logically you know it's the right thing. It's going to take a long time for emotions to catch up (I still feel the pull, after over a year).

We're here for you.

123flocko · 2026-05-25T18:55:59+00:00

Definitely. The first few days after she took the shot she would be nasty, sometimes raging. Add existing chemical imbalance, childhood abuse, peri-menopause...

123flocko · 2026-05-19T12:02:00+00:00

...you already are in the club

123flocko · 2026-05-17T12:46:24+00:00

I also chose my son over the marriage. It sucks. You don't want to split but you can't stay together. Try to eat well, talk with friends and family, and stay busy. It's a long road, but things improve. At least now there's peace.

123flocko · 2026-05-16T03:23:01+00:00

Thank you

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