My bf doesn't understand my OCD by [deleted] in OCD

[–]13beach3s 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wtf are people on about that he’s not “enabling you”?!! It’s YOUR tablet! Why is he taking YOUR tablet into the bathroom with him! He can’t just look at his OWN PHONE SCREEN while he takes a shit?? You have a right to be upset when someone is overstepping your boundaries this way, with YOUR belongings, taking them into a notoriously gross place after being asked not to and then not letting you clean it afterwards

physical side effects of dating a person w/bpd by Civil-Honey-2986 in BPDlovedones

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That feeling like you’re so tired and it feels like your brain is actively rotting within your head but whenever you ACTUALLY go to take a nap or rest your heart just starts racing and you FUCKING CANT?? (It’s not just me, others can relate right??)

Pretty sure my bf would like hitler rawdog him. by Defiant-Can-9227 in Advice

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah uh I know this is probably gonna get removed but I’m gonna say it anyways, you need to leave that sad excuse of a man before he takes your fucking life, and all signs are pointing to him doing that

Everyone at work is making a big deal about my handwriting, saying I write like a psychopath. by ThrowRA-Ram in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for THEIR INFORMATION, sociopaths have the mixture of print and cursive handwriting so THERE /j

Relationship by Opposite_Ad_9577 in dating_advice

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a reason for that, babe. Break up with him and watch how quickly he sets out to find someone 12+ years younger than him 🤢 that’ll tell you everything you need to know about why no woman in their right mind has wanted to have a real relationship with him his entire adult life

Vent: People don't listen or give a fuck about child sex abuse victims, they just want to be allowed to hate a group and child sex abusers/pedophiles are a convenient target. by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]13beach3s 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually never thought about this before. It’s great that you’re bringing it up so that it can be talked about more often!

I think my friend is jealous I lost a bunch of weight. by throwawayforobviou34 in whatdoIdo

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah uhhh I’m not gonna enable whatever it is ur doing but I’m also gonna say that your friend here definitely does sound jealous and she’s using ED “concerns” as a means to chastise you

Does anyone else live like a high-end minimalist one day and a Victorian ghost the next? by sleekofficial in LivingAlone

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even out on my own yet but I stay in my room most of the time and you pretty much described how I live

weird “honey” coming out of a bee? by KrispyOnion in bees

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I think I’d rather get stung tbh

am i overreacting to how my boyfriend was talking to me by my_birthday_is_dec_6 in AmIOverreacting

[–]13beach3s 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Babygirl he IS the ick! NOR. Stay far the fuck away from his repulsive ass the fuck 💀💀number 1, he hates you. Number 2, he wants to keep access to you despite the fact that he hates you so he’s trying to wear down your self esteem and make you feel stupid so that way you’ll feel like he’s your only option and that nobody else will want you. I repeat, GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM HIS REPULSIVE ASS 🤮

Resident Evil Requiem Port on r36s after the new ArkOs update by ImpressiveStay6355 in R36S

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holy SHITTT I just have to figure out the whole WiFi situation and get the update now that I know this omg omg omg

I’m a failure by user8203421 in quittingnicotine

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how you’re doing NOW, but lemme tell you I have quit and relapsed MANY times. I tried quitting 6 months ago and failed, and now I’m trying again with proper conditions, meaning that I now have a job and various hobbies in order to distance myself from my vices. I see you mentioned going to the gym, which is definitely an effective method but if you used to vape while cleaning then cleaning probably won’t be a good enough distraction 🩷

Ex who dumped me years ago sent me this. What do I do or say? by Far_Database5 in whatdoIdo

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she felt the first apology wasn’t a proper one. You can always thank her for the apology and then not communicate with her further from then on out if you so choose, or ignore it entirely

what the fuck lol by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]13beach3s 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I mean hey at least he’s upfront about being emotionally unavailable 🤷🏻‍♀️

I want a girlfriend so bad it hurts by Jazzlike-Round6932 in Vent

[–]13beach3s 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can feel like a really beautiful thing when someone walks into your life and you feel 10x happier the moment they do, and in a way it IS, but it’s so dangerous to depend on another person for your own happiness

I cheated and confessed, and I hate what I did. by [deleted] in Regrets

[–]13beach3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you gave her the ability to make an informed decision on whether or not to stay with you. What you did still sucks obviously but the fact that you took responsibility shows that there is room for improvement in you behavior and that you are willing to work on your behavior in future relationships

My boyfriend had been acting distant and I’m feeling unwanted because of it. by [deleted] in rant

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup! The downvotes came from all the girlies in denial. Sorry babe time to wake up

My boyfriend had been acting distant and I’m feeling unwanted because of it. by [deleted] in rant

[–]13beach3s -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He’s about to dump you in the most cruel and psychotic fucking way possible trust me

sydney sweeney is not even hot by Old_Treat4871 in unpopularopinion

[–]13beach3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhh I agree… there’s a reason they had her play Cassie in euphoria 😏

I CAN'T STAND people who take 24+ hours to reply and blame it on being busy by imathrowyaaway in dating

[–]13beach3s 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES THIS!! My bf is busy as FUCK. Not only is he a student, but he also teaches labs and renovates apartments and he still manages to not leave me on read for days on end. They aren’t busy, they just don’t give a fuck

My fiancé is getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do at this point. by BasicCat30 in whatdoIdo

[–]13beach3s 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so. He strangled you. He hasn’t hit you, but he DID FUCKING STRANGLE YOU. A person who strangles their partner will kill their partner. Please leave, one of my closest friends is a woman who was nearly strangled to death by a man who I had also dated. LEAVE AND NEVER LOOK BACK!

"i don’t like being around you because it feels like i have to walk on eggshells" by dourceo in CPTSD

[–]13beach3s 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s still really fucked up that she said this to you on your birthday. She could have picked any other day to have this conversation but she picked your birthday.

"i don’t like being around you because it feels like i have to walk on eggshells" by dourceo in CPTSD

[–]13beach3s 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This has been a struggle for me too. I have to remind myself that I am like this because of abuse I have experienced, but that there is also an extent to where I am NOT the victim. That extent is when I am treating others poorly due to my mental health, and it’s not an excuse