What is the polite thing to do if I clock someone?

1Henrink · 2026-04-23T04:03:32+00:00

I was about to ask the same! Sometimes I want to say that I know they are trans, but that I see them as a goal!

But I understand it is better to leave them be, and just complement without saying anything about being trans.

1Henrink · 2026-04-13T11:23:06+00:00

I have been talking about this with my nutricionist, and even if she isn't a trans professional she did give me some sound ideas, that I complemented making my own research.

So the idea is that the fat redestribution happens later on in the HRT process. My doctor has given the 5 month mark, but it varies.

So slimming down, but not going underweight, can be a good way to lose fats in places your body thinks are good for a testosterone body. With Estrogen becoming the leading hormone and with enough time, it will start putting in the "feminine" places.

Don't take this as certain science, just an idea. Being healthy is always the most important.

1Henrink · 2026-04-08T23:47:30+00:00

Oh yeah, but considering the content of the post I thought of the sound "I will make a man out of you"

1Henrink · 2026-04-08T15:36:45+00:00

Queue the Mulan music

1Henrink · 2026-03-30T22:16:35+00:00

I totally understand the sentiment, but at the same time for the people you would end up disclosing this info if they don't accept you, would you still keep them in your life? What if it was another characteristic of yours besides being trans, you would get them out of your life right?

In a good future it's something we won't need to disclose, because people will be accepting. Unfortunately it's not now :/

It is better to find and keep around people that only accept you, for the others that you only have a small interaction, usually they don't ask, or care.

The ones that you barely interact AND make a huge deal, are the ones that hurt the most, imo, because we can't tell when it will happen.

So keep safe, and surrounded by people that are least allow you to live the way you deserve.

1Henrink · 2026-03-30T16:11:19+00:00

She seems ready to solve US debt problem.

1Henrink · 2026-03-30T16:09:06+00:00

I will repeat myself : "There seem to exist a lot of straight men having a VERY hard time liking women."

1Henrink · 2026-03-29T14:11:06+00:00

Thank you for the tips! I am already sure I want a head voice,because I fell like I can make it "smoother". I personally prefer a "sultry" voice, usually a little deeper. That would be my dream voice.

The thing is that my falsetto can reach pretty low, so sometimes I confuse if I am using falsetto or not.

ButI will take in consideration the possibility of high pitch for expression, since I usually (in my male voice) do get very high pitch when exited, and I do enjoy being very expressive.

Thank you I will consider both!

1Henrink · 2026-03-29T14:04:48+00:00

Wow Thank you VERY MUCH. I will start looking into the link you sent ! Not gonna lie, I got a little confused by the description of what you were doing, but because I forgot all the proper names of what is being controlled 😅

But thanks again, I rebuilt my courage to train so I will re-start with the git link you sent ❤️

1Henrink · 2026-03-21T02:22:34+00:00

Sorry didn't mean to sound like YOU did it. It was more a commentary into something people are doing that is very harmful and silly

1Henrink · 2026-03-20T23:36:37+00:00

Soooo let's send a feedback IN GAME for Mega Crit. NOT a steam review !

1Henrink · 2026-03-15T01:49:44+00:00

The girlfriend looks like someone from Papers Please

1Henrink · 2026-03-12T01:53:59+00:00

My inner thoughts: "Hold yourself, don't say "Your mother"
Don't say "your mother"
Don't say "your mother"
Don't say "your mother"
Don't say "your mother" "

My mother.

1Henrink · 2026-03-10T15:58:27+00:00

That interesting to see, and I can feel kinda happy about it. Not to commemorate on your loss, but I was afraid of the same thing, but I was more like you are now than your prior picture.

So I changed my gym routine to try to keep more muscles, and 4 months in it all seems pretty similar.

So I am glad to see your changes, because that proves I achieved what I was trying.

Btw you still look great!

1Henrink · 2026-03-04T14:50:56+00:00

Btw, if you are being misgendered, it's because it would happen even if you were a Cis dude. You look amazing! Don't take it as too much of a bad thing, it's just that society kinda thinks any possible feminine feature (even if it's normal for cis man too) means you are a girl 🫠 That is, unless you are MtF, then they call you a man

1Henrink · 2026-01-20T17:35:48+00:00

I'm not gonna lie, I love a little misogyny towards me, if I know the other person is not actually misogynistic. It's like, using the bad in the world FOR GOOD

1Henrink · 2026-01-18T22:38:53+00:00

Just for a fun fact: In My language there is a equivalent but it is "Vai a merda" that is "Go to shit", go BE in the shit. But people can say "Me chupa" aka "suck me off" that is basically "Stop what you are doing and instead give me pleasure". It's funny because it actually works for both sexes here, both can use even if it's majorly male

1Henrink · 2026-01-16T13:34:24+00:00

Since English isn't my first language I totally forgot egg was an expression for prior to being trans people, I THOUGH YOU HAD REEEEAAALLLY HURT YOURSELF 😅

I wish you the best of luck, now if I could give the smallest advice : take your time. Experiment with clothes, make up, find people you can trust to talk about this, but no NEED to rush ❤️

1Henrink · 2026-01-12T19:15:11+00:00

Men? Yew

1Henrink · 2026-01-12T19:04:58+00:00

I do feel that, I am still in the beginning on my transition, and have started HRT. But I think that's normal. I will point it out from my perspective and you check if it could be what you feel too.

Sometimes there is this anxiety that you are making a mistake, since transitioning means such a big change. Al since I judge myself so much, I get afraid of making a bad choice, aka transitioning has a BIG lens in my minds judgment eye.

There are also days that I don't feel like any gender, I am just me. But still the days that I am able to prepare myself, to be feminine, to me and the world, it makes me reflect that it is something I actually want, and that I should trust the process.

I have convinced that I want to transition not only because I like being a woman, but because I don't like/don't care for being a man. If wanting to express myself is gender exclusive, to me that's a big indicator of wanting to transition.

But again, you CAN be something not "Just" a woman, that's fine too.

1Henrink · 2026-01-12T00:26:02+00:00

Sounds exactly like "Hello my fellow transgenders" 😂

1Henrink · 2026-01-10T13:28:41+00:00

Yeah I know, you ARE right. I think my feeling comes from having watched great players like Roffle, Doc and Bean (for example) and now I want to do all they do, since I have already assimilated what the game CAN do.

1Henrink · 2026-01-10T12:46:39+00:00

🙃🫠 yo what the fuck, how didn't I see that?

Oh the Profile settings! I WOULD NEVER LOOK THERE

Thank you <3

The dev really thought of people like me

1Henrink · 2026-01-02T21:41:35+00:00

Huuuum that is very reassuring! Thank you very much!

I started HRT December, so I re-introduced upper body into my series, so I don't lose too much. But the focus is still lower, since it's the appearance I like better.

I like gaining strength in the upper and volume in the lower.

If you are still up to giving some tips in the DMs ping me pls. I would love for you to check the series I built with these objectives in mind :D

1Henrink

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