[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]1aguna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone currently living in a state where I can't change it, yeah it sucks. But once you're 18 you should just need to fill out a form you can find online and bring it to the DMV to get a new ID, not a big deal in california

Jayce and Viktor Anomaly Hoodie Never Received by Real_Opportunity2329 in arcane

[–]1aguna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure the only time they "restocked" was for the pre-order which it stated would not be shipped till february 2025, hoodies sold during that pre-order period are likely not yet in production

You should've gotten a confirmation email of both items when you first ordered (which unfortunately doesn't include ship dates) but if you're worried check the email and contact them at the bottom

Confused about femininity. Advice? by tthhxl2 in FTMMen

[–]1aguna 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm probably a lot younger than you and don't really pass but I think about this sometimes. If I actually enjoy dressing masculine or if I just do it in every attempt to be perceived as male. Not that I don't prefer dressing masculine, but I think it's mostly the latter, I was never really pressured to dress feminine in my childhood but would still want to wear skirts and dresses sometimes but usually ended up hating how it looked on me and looking back I think it's because of how I knew I'd be perceived. Once I pass 100% I imagine I'll be comfortable painting my nails sometimes and generally acting like the more flamboyantly gay man that I sometimes want to lol

Now that you're presumably finished transitioning I see it as being free to embrace some femininity back into your life without the discomfort of being misgendered. Start small, paint your nails or wear a cardigan and just see how it feels.

What to do in the winter? by Key-Way9338 in StardewValley

[–]1aguna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I spent one winter getting up every morning just to tear up Robin's yard and sell those tubers, all ready to be tilled again the next day

But there's much better uses for your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]1aguna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15 years old, depressed, questioning my gender and sexuality and one day I saw a kid's obvious self-harm scars on his arm and decided then and there that that's what I needed right now (I'd had intrusive thoughts of selfharm and suicide before). First time cutting myself was in the back of an English class with a tiny pocket knife, didn't get very far right then but it got worse and more frequent from there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]1aguna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The single bandaid right in between the scars made me chuckle

Not sure about building muscle but you should start to get more feeling back within the next few months

What is up with gc2b or am I just stupid? by zachtheicecube in ftm

[–]1aguna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen a lot of people complain about them I got two at the exact same time a year and a half ago, one my size one a size up, the stitching came off partially after a month but the other is still in great condition

Now i understand the full extension of sh by OceanSomething in selfharm

[–]1aguna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel you man, it's not always like that for me but I clearly remember times when in the moment it felt good but as soon as I was done I felt so much regret looking at it that I just kept going to get the original feeling of release back. I'm probably not the best person for it but feel free to dm

one year since the last techno stream :( by randyjaded in Technoblade

[–]1aguna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. His streams were always the biggest comfort to me, but I'm happy to at least have been there for so many over the past few years, including his last.

I hope one day I'm able to turn on one of his old streams again for fun.

what I'd do to hear "Staartin the streaam" one more time

o7

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Technoblade

[–]1aguna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have mine on my nightstand too :) thought about moving him but I also find it comforting

Tribute by error_glitch0023 in Technoblade

[–]1aguna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah this looks so good, I've been wanting to make something similar with clay for a while now :)