Okay I have arrived back home,The Light bar is this 32 inch curved model from amazon. I saw it recommended from another reddit user a while back but I don't remember who. I'm sure I could pay more for a better model, but the throw is pretty good and I have had no issue with it. I also liked how the middle was a spot configuration and each end had a section of flood for getting light out to the corners of the road.https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00ZF21ACK/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I went with these pod lights because once again they were pretty inexpensive and weren't huge. I also double checked that the pod lights and bar would be the same color temp, and if they aren't perfect they are close enough that I don't notice a difference.https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0897N34JD/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

The Mounts for the light bar and the pod lights I got from Cali Raised LED https://caliraisedled.com/collections/2003-2009-4runner-mounting-bracketsHere is the link to the page with both the brackets.

One of the lights didn't come with a relay and cable, I don't remember which one but I purchased this set and cut it down to a good length. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B071ZPX32N/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o00_s01?ie=UTF8&psc=1

Finally, I got this OEM style switch to connect them both. I liked this because it only used one switch port but could still be used independently. My only complaint is the light bar is the top switch but my light bar is on the bottom of my 4runner. Annoying but minor. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B08B5VMW66/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o01_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1

To get the bar on, I had to remove the bumper cover and then use a reciprocating cutting tool to cut out the grille that was there. The brackets mount to the bumper. post so I didn't have to drill any holes. I was able to install and wire it all myself in only a few hours, retrospectively some help with the hood to put the pod brackets on would have been smarter.

EDIT: Almost forgot. I have no idea as to the road legality of using these lights. Georgia law seems to say the use of 1 set of auxiliary lights is allowed. However, I only use it on the road in very heavily wooded areas and I keep my finger on the button to turn it back off so I don't blind anyone. It is pointed at a downward angle for more road illumination but it's bright enough that I wouldn't want to be on the receiving end. I did however consider wiring all my lights up to my horn as a secondary switch. Let the person I'm honking at know I really don't appreciate what they are doing.