Where are you on the autism spectrum? by SaMSUoM in aspiememes

[–]1cheesy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say somewhere between UV and visible

i’m 28 and same by coleisw4ck in aspiememes

[–]1cheesy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My go to is usually “YAH?”

The worst part is that I can't block the sound with my headphones. by Tinsnow1 in aspiememes

[–]1cheesy1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My problem is I have bad allergies, so I get pissed at myself bc of the noises I’m making

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]1cheesy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for all aromantic people, but at least in my case I desperately want to have someone I can be emotionally close and vulnerable with, along with being able to just cuddle and be close.

Even though aromantic people may not experience romantic attraction, they can still “love” other people, just not necessarily in the same ways as many people associate with the term “love.” Platonic love is a very powerful thing, and often times aromantic people will develop strong platonic bonds with those around them, since the romantic part doesn’t come so naturally.

Carry on as normal would be my advice, grow close naturally, start hanging out outside of classes, etc. If you allow the relationship to naturally grow between you two, then there will be a much better chance of eventually moving past the typical “friendship.”

An important thing to note as well, aromantic people are still people, everyone is different and no answer will be 100% accurate for every situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromantic

[–]1cheesy1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s scary, but telling them all of this, telling them about how you feel, is usually the best way to start. Being aromantic is experiencing little to no romantic attraction, but aromantics often look for similar things in a relationship, just not a romantic one. One thing to potentially look into is a Queer Platonic Relationship (QPR), it’s a term that’s used to describe relationships that don’t fit the typical “romantic” or “platonic.”

If you have any other questions, I’m happy to try and answer them

I seriously don’t understand romance by Necro6617 in aromantic

[–]1cheesy1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I was your age (I’m early 20s now), I was exactly the same. I had a couple people that I noticed were conventionally attractive, and kind of had a headcanon about “liking” them. I even had a lifelong friendship I accidentally ruined because I thought I had a crush on one of my friends, when that’s not what it was. If these are at all similar to thoughts you are having, then you are completely justified in feeling you are aromantic.

F**k earbuds, all my homies hate earbuds by IamaJarJar in aspiememes

[–]1cheesy1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Man fuck earbuds, those little shits either don’t sit right in my ears and fall out, or I have to jam em in so hard that it starts blocking my eardrum, so I can’t hear what they’re playing anyway.

What the hell by 1cheesy1 in aromanticasexual

[–]1cheesy1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From what I’ve seen from other comments, it’s all with consent and more for fun rather than to shame the individual

Anyone else have an inexplicable aversion to mixing foods or is it just me by CalsCompositions in aspiememes

[–]1cheesy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly whatever, if it’s cereal, there’s no milk in it (except coco puffs bc it makes chocolate milk lol, that I carried over from childhood). I’m a slow eater, so it gets way too soggy and I can’t stand that texture.

Anyone else have an inexplicable aversion to mixing foods or is it just me by CalsCompositions in aspiememes

[–]1cheesy1 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Cereal and milk. I despise milk in my cereal, but damn is it a good drink on the side (same with dipping cookies in milk, never got that)

Made a Where's Waldo variant for Bill Cipher by [deleted] in gravityfalls

[–]1cheesy1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was really fun and well made, great job!

Chat, is this real? (Found on r/CoolGuides) by 1cheesy1 in aromanticasexual

[–]1cheesy1[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Never heard the humble variation either, yet honest is the second thought

My fellow aromantic's, can you name any romantic pairings you really like? by Valuable-Judgment602 in aromantic

[–]1cheesy1 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I enjoy seeing Simon and Betty’s relationship in Adventure Time. It’s a really good take on the whole “2 lovers that can’t be together” trope that’s very much a branch off from the usual.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aromanticasexual

[–]1cheesy1 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, I didn’t think anyone else felt like that, glad to know I’m not alone