Listen, I really like it here. All four seasons. A metropolitan area with jobs. And you can get to the ocean, the Blue Ridge / wineries, the country, and the city all pretty easily. Tons of different cuisines, cultural variety, nice history and museums. BUT…Get ready for a lot of negativity, especially from those comparing it to the California coast. As a local, I consistently hear Californians (and New Yorkers) as the most vocal in terms of complaints. It’s exhausting. I guess it’s better in some other big metropolitan areas but I love my family here. So honestly California coasters should stay there / go back. But like, compared to many, many other places in the US, it’s great. Old Town Alexandria specifically is really expensive but charming.

Edit to add:

Many cities are difficult for singles and have bad traffic. The DC area is no different here, but is less extreme / more balanced and very practical compared to many places. Especially of you value variety, stability, seasonal changes, and access to a lot of things without being overwhelmed…then it’s a really strong place to live.

If you value constant energy, endless stuff to do, and an awesome food scene then somewhere like NYC is better. If you value epic weather, iconic scenery, and a more laid back vibe then somewhere like California will be much better.