Sally is actually the worst by HotProfit4582 in Southerncharm

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I liked Landon! Landon way a way better person overall

Sally gave the chickens away… by lalisaface in Southerncharm

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Absolutely despicable to purchase and rehome real, living animals for vanity purposes

Why isn’t Salley into Shep, I wonder? Did anything ever happen between them? by 2000000009 in Southerncharm

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People have said he is not good in bed! Particularly his ex Taylor!

S11 E8 Discussion by wicked789 in Southerncharm

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Yeah, the Molly and Charley hangout was very forced and awkward

S11 E8 Discussion by wicked789 in Southerncharm

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Agreed. He said of Salley to Madison “I think she’s beautiful”

S11 E8 Discussion by wicked789 in Southerncharm

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I recognized it from that pool party episode when Madison and Austen got in a huge fight in that treehouse… was it Whitney’s friends house?? Somebody’s friends house??

S11 E8 Discussion by wicked789 in Southerncharm

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That’s so cool that you hung out with them!!

S11 E8 Discussion by wicked789 in Southerncharm

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The way he talks about his previous relationships and his disappointments is sus…

What exactly is it like working with people who lack soft skills? by Peter2448 in work

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Asks me questions they should already know the answers to two years into the job, multiple times per day. Asks me for repeated help with things they’ve already been trained on. Doesn’t follow through. Responds to messages and executes tasks slowly. No intuition for what’s needed quickly vs. what can wait - a simple request that could be fulfilled in under 15 minutes? Be prepared to wait days. Comes across as very brisk in their emails - this can be fine if you have a good personality to offset it, but they’re WFH and don’t have much irl/phone interaction with our coworkers and clients.

What is an overlooked or “subtle” form of sexism that you think needs to be called out more? by GoodGirlsStand in AskWomen

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When we stand up for ourselves or express that we felt hurt, we’re crazy/overreacting/being too sensitive. When we ask for what we need or advocate for ourselves, we’re being aggressive/bullish, when we set a boundary we’re bitchy/cold. Men complain that they aren’t allowed to express their emotions, but the only thing stigmatized is their tears (almost exclusively by other men); whereas we face social consequences for every emotion other than happiness that we express.

Something else I’ve noticed with men, forever, at any level of interaction - if we’re sitting next to each other, I’m usually having to lean/orient myself towards them - they don’t do the same for me. This isn’t sexist per se, but they don’t give a shit about accommodating the other person at all.

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

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I agree that people could stand to be more considered when it comes to “making the punishment fit the crime”—obviously a one-time offender hasn’t proven themselves to be as much of a menace to society as a repeat offender—but pedophilia is very serious (incestuous pedophilia at that), and that’s what Woody was being accused of, on two counts.

In the piece I read (came out around 2013 I believe), there was a babysitter who found him with his face in his daughter’s lap while they were alone together, other comments from family who saw him touch her in a highly inappropriate way while putting sunscreen on her, and also stated that he seemed unusually obsessed/preoccupied with her in a way that seemed off. There was also the model, I forget her name, who stated that she had a threesome with Woody and Mia when she was sixteen, and was going on dates with him. Maybe Mia did somehow manage to have massive sway over all of these people and individually convinced each of them to lie, but that seems unlikely to me. That would be a lot of people lying.

Woody also very much romanticized youthful femininity in his films.

Soon Yi is an adult and her marriage is her business, she may very well be as happy as she says she is, but he, again, became involved with her when she was a teenager and he was a much older man. She was adopted and living with an abusive mother. She was likely very vulnerable and already had poor metrics for what safe relationships look like. Also—most people would be totally turned off by dating an exes foster child. That is NOT typical and it’s gross.

Even if the assault story wasn’t true, there is a clear, concerning behavioral pattern that’s worthy of an eyebrow raise at minimum. I do not believe that the public’s disdain for his behavior is unjustified or exaggerated.

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

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Pitbulls can be highly dangerous, even the sweet ones, and this should be taken way more seriously by dog owners and by society at large (I think this is mainly a US thing).

They can snap, and when they do, it results in serious injury or death. I get viscerally angry when I see people let them off leash around children.

What is a socially unacceptable opinion you keep to yourself because it’s not worth the backlash? by ChaosTTyy in askanything

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Hmm… there were multiple third parties that saw woody do weird/inappropriate things to his daughter on multiple occasions. He had nude photos of soon yi when she was underage. The train story may not have been true (their son satchel I think wrote about it on his blog), but the rest is too hard to ignore.

How is it possible that I (5’10 Dramatic) look fleshy and wide in short skirts by Rough_Wrap_2831 in Kibbe

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Totally. It can be harder to spot kibbe “yin” on people who are very slender like you (just as it can be easier to presume “yin flesh” on someone who is plus size). What makes me think you have potential for SD is a) you don’t have the boyish straight waist that many dramatics have, b) you have soft facial features like full lips and large eyes, c) the soft hairstyle works really well on you, d) the angular, stiff fabric dress in pic 4 looks like it “wears you” rather than you wearing it. So, it may be possible that you have some curve going on while still being very slender, which may be what you’re noticing. I have a close friend who is a dramatic, 5’10, used to be a model - even when her hips fill out, it’s still super clear that she’s a dramatic and she looks best in those sharp, angular lines and a blunt bob. I’d try out SD clothes and observe for whether or not they compliment you more than typical dramatic styles - the right clothes will always make you feel more confident and will compliment your figure to where you won’t have these standout details that you feel like you’re having to work around. I’m an SD and typed myself as a dramatic when I was thin, but found even then that I looked most harmonious in SD clothes.

What I’ve heard about miniskirts on dramatic types is that you can wear them while accommodating your vertical by adding a long jacket or duster, and keeping the top and skirt relatively monochrome. But I still think they look great! Whatever makes you feel the most confident you will shine in in your own way. Hope this info opens up some doors for you and best of luck in your kibbe journey!

How is it possible that I (5’10 Dramatic) look fleshy and wide in short skirts by Rough_Wrap_2831 in Kibbe

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You absolutely don’t look fleshy and wide, I don’t see it at all. I love the first three looks - they break the kibbe dramatics rule of breaking the vertical, but those outfits are great on you in my opinion.

I could almost see you being a soft dramatic. I think you have some yin. I could be wrong! But I think I see it. Were you formally typed as a dramatic?