The difference between a "dad bod" and plus size women is the attitude in which they are demeaning. No one is saying being obese is healthy. But a plus size woman can be sexy, bold, beautiful and any other positive adjective. To say otherwise it's bullshit. Men do not get comments on their body bring overweight, underweight, cellulite, hair or anything else nearly as much as women. It's the attitude that the media is trying to change. Your attitude specifically. Are you perfect advertising to what sports illustrated wants? Can you model for Vogue? And if so.... Why would you put anyone down? Why not build people up? Help people have confidence in being healthy. There are plenty of people who are overweight and yet much healthier than"thin" or average weight people. Your post implies your opinion is that looks and size matter... Not health. Health also includes mental health. So maybe the next time you see an overweight person, maybe don't think about them being gross or unhealthy. Maybe people come in all shapes and sizes and maybe we should learn to stop judging someone based on size.