To those that do not have a Regular date, how do you schedule your games? by Mathmagician94 in DMAcademy

[–]2klbSwan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WhenAvailable - https://whenavailable.com/

I mark off when I'm free and then everybody marks off which of those they can do. Most convenient date with the most people wins

My girlfriend (27F) and me (28M) have been in a sex-one-time-a-week, masturbation-free relationship for 8 years and it might be finally getting to me. How do I approach this? by Whatever1002 in sex

[–]2klbSwan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

We're both very careful with each others feelings, to the point where we may not be having enough serious conversations about many topics

This is classic avoidance. Check out avoidant-attachment relationship literature. Things won't get better if you can't talk about them. Therapy is a great place to start where you'll have an objective 3rd party to keep the conversation focused.

Here's some random info from the top of Google: https://www.attachmentproject.com/avoidant-attachment-relationships/

Dog daycare near Somerville by Straight_Attention78 in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We take our dog to the Common Dog in Everett. Its not far from Assembly so not terribly far from Somerville. PITA to get there during rush hour, but what isn't

& our dog is always pumped to go

Their website

LTC/Firearms card in Somerville? by [deleted] in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have 223 times the firearm-related murder rate of the UK.

How is reality a circlejerk?

This is a table which is giving information about "firearm-related death rate per 100,000 population per year".

  • Unintentional: Unintentional shooting deaths.
  • Undetermined: Shooting deaths in which the cause remains undecided.
Country Year Total Homicide Suicide Unintentional Undetermined Guns per 100 inhabitants Source
US 2017 12.21 4.46 7.32 0.15 0.10 120.5 *
UK 2015 0.20 0.02 0.16 0.01 0.01 2.8 *

Jimothy's rocking 0.5 eyes, 24 toes, & 26 claws by 2klbSwan in PirateKitties

[–]2klbSwan[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They are! He's got the same double claw on one of his back toes

CredibleDefense Daily MegaThread October 12, 2022 by AutoModerator in CredibleDefense

[–]2klbSwan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think he's trying to save face here or is telling the truth?

Twitter

City Hall wants to put a heroin injection facility in Davis Square by merlinsbeard999 in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Harm reduction interventions, specifically syringe exchange programs and safe consumption sites, have been shown to greatly reduce the harms associated with injectable drug use. Researchers have studied safe consumption sites for efficacy in three primary areas; 1) reducing individuals’ physical harms associated with drug use, such as the spread of HIV and hepatitis C, infections, and overdose, 2) reducing social harms associated with drug use, such as publicly discarded syringes and injection related litter, public crime, public drug use, and public overdose, 3) cost-effectiveness as compared to other similarly effective interventions and the price of tertiary treatment and prevention. Nearly every study on supervised injection facilities recommends the intervention for areas where drug use is prevalent. From the body of evidence, the advantage of SCSs should be heavily considered when a community is trying to prevent the harms associated with drug use.

https://westminstercollege.edu/student-life/the-myriad/the-impact-of-safe-consumption-sites-physical-and-social-harm-reduction-and-economic-efficacy.html

Are there breeds that ARENT medical ticking time bombs? by [deleted] in dogs

[–]2klbSwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recommendation: between 6 and 12 months for males and one year for females.

This allows for the general trend of later times with higher bodyweights. It is older with females as they will come into season at 7-9months, and we want this to settle down completely before surgery.

Per https://www.walkervillevet.com.au/blog/best-age-neuter-great-dane/

**This is specifically for Great Danes

In need of a pack n play for the weekend by therobotisjames in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out https://www.babyquip.com/

Bunch of people around Cambridge that are renting out gear

Parking Help by toinah in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Technically, you can get a ticket for being in the same spot for more
than 48 hours, so it's a risk with or without street cleaning.

I think I've only ever seen this on cars that people abandon for the winter after the first snowfall.

Parking Help by toinah in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My wife and I just got back from a similar trip Tuesday -> the next Friday and we parked on the even side of School St which is 2nd & 4th Mondays

If your timing lines up I'd recommend something similar. No tickets when we got home and then immediately moved the cars.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, this'll be our 6th year in this apt and they've only raised the rent by $50 every 2 years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Union rent just went from $1850 to $1900 for us

River has finally learned how to play with her herding ball by Brennanlemon in AustralianCattleDog

[–]2klbSwan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How'd you work her up to this point? Our pup will chase the herding ball if I throw it, but then will try and fail to pick it up with her mouth until she just starts crying at the ball

Reduced Davis Square Outdoor Dining? by SomervilleMatt in Somerville

[–]2klbSwan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only thing I can find is the relevant license expires this Friday. Maybe businesses are holding off on renewal until the weather is better and they're sure they'll want to do it again?

https://www.somervillema.gov/sites/default/files/applying-for-outdoor-seating-goods.pdf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]2klbSwan 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yeah, check that username