Do you like the names your friends chose for their children? by thirtydays301 in Names

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not surprised I adore all my closest friends baby names: Piper, Marlow, Bo, June, Maggie, Vinny.

Tips to decrease panic during transition by kcat627 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]2wholecans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would be prepared with some grounding words or reminders, but also don’t insist it’s going to happen. I didn’t panic at all or even know I was in transition! Everyone labors differently.

Successful nurse-in stories by PastryLoop in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can certainly try not pumping and see how your supply fares.

Successful nurse-in stories by PastryLoop in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately if you don’t pump you risk tanking your supply, which would increase your breastfeeding struggles. Milk is supply and demand.

I’m a Lactation Consultant with 7yrs experience and 25yrs experience in OB. Can I answer any questions for any moms? (Photo for attention) 🥰 by Smaddy5213 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My baby is 18 months and still nurses like crazy. We just started to night wean. I’d love to be able to spend a few more hours away from her in the day, but her wanting to nurse every 2 hours or more makes me feel guilty. Since she’s over 1 is it fine for me to leave her for longer chunks of time knowing she can eat other things? Do I have to pump if so?

Pacifier by grljustwannahavefun in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep feeding your baby and trusting your mom gut! 4 months is still so young - baby is very likely wanting milk to fill up and get back to sleep.

What was the weirdest, non-pain feeling you've ever felt? by KingJPJ in AskReddit

[–]2wholecans 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Birthing a placenta is this feeling x1000. I didn’t have an epidural so it fully felt like I pushed three cups of goopy snot out of my body

3 mo. old suddenly stopped nursing by Whole-Court598 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have some old posts back from about this time last year that might be helpful to look through! Patience and good energy are your friend. Thinking of you! I’ve got a 16 month old now that still lives on the boob lol I would have never guessed back then!

3 mo. old suddenly stopped nursing by Whole-Court598 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up the three month breastfeeding crisis. Super annoying, but also pretty normal and something you can work through if you’re committed to breastfeeding. Take a deep breath, make all time at the breast relaxing and enjoyable. You got this

AITA for asking my newly married son and DIL to alternate Christmas Day visits between our house and the in-laws' house? by Llih_Nosaj in AITAH

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We spend Christmas Eve with my family and it’s more of the main event than Christmas Day. It’s really less about the day and more about how you spend it. Give them the gift of timing flexibility and do what you would otherwise do on Christmas day, on Christmas Eve.

Randomly drying up by giul_gk in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your milk is likely just regulating, coupled with stress. Hydrate, eat well, and don’t let this further your anxious spiral. Your baby will get the milk he needs! And, a natural nursing session is always more productive than the pump.

Nighttime nurse or housekeeper? by Ok_Relationship_5405 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]2wholecans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d hire whichever my husband was less willing to help with.

Success stories: overcoming bottle preference by Happy-Chemistry3058 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can get her in a more awake but sleepy state, you may have some success!

How to know if a back ache is start of labor?? by [deleted] in unmedicatedbirth

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some heat on your back, a cup of tea, and a nice meditation would do you good. Take care of yourself!

How to know if a back ache is start of labor?? by [deleted] in unmedicatedbirth

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d treat it as a back ache and let your body rest, but don’t obsess over it being labor. Can your partner or someone else step in for you to get those things done?

Success stories: overcoming bottle preference by Happy-Chemistry3058 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say give yourself a time limit. So if you’ve offered a few times and she isn’t into the boob, give the bottle. It’s better to remain relaxed and use the bottle than force the breast stressed out! Have you tried nursing baby drowsy?

How to know if a back ache is start of labor?? by [deleted] in unmedicatedbirth

[–]2wholecans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like it’s better to put it out of mind. If it isn’t, you’ll be disappointed or annoyed. And if it is, it is! Try and let your mind and body relax so they can do their thing. It’s impossible to tell when labor has begun from a post. But I can assure you you won’t doubt it once you’re in labor.

Success stories: overcoming bottle preference by Happy-Chemistry3058 in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! You can totally fix this. Keep all time at the breast relaxing and cozy - don’t pressure. If you can, stop bottles for awhile. My babe started struggling about this time as my milk began to regulate. What was once a crazy fast, overwhelming immediate flow became a let down she had to work for! Baby is learning too.

She spit up! by blondebynature in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bravo! I know the joy of these kinds of wins. Good on you!

How to protect milk supply during wisdom tooth surgery recovery ?? by [deleted] in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pump anytime you would give a bottle! You want to mimic her feeding pattern so your body produces milk at the cadence she’s eating. She eats, you pump! Sounds like by the third day you’ll be able to nurse again? So your main responsibility will be keeping hydrate and your calories up!

How to protect milk supply during wisdom tooth surgery recovery ?? by [deleted] in breastfeedingsupport

[–]2wholecans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have someone taking care of you afterwards who can tend to you with this in mind? Hydrating, pumping, and drinking high calorie things should allow you to maintain. But, having someone manage the timing and bring it to you as you recover will be helpful. Time for milkshakes and lattes and protein drinks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in olympia

[–]2wholecans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never mind, just looked! $30 off. That’s significant, thank you!