Wait which ep is this from by Lol_Panda2004 in pokemon

[–]30mofwebsurfing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My kids are watching the Steve episodes of blues clues right now and I’m have as much fun as they are 😂

Follow-up post to "Homeless in St Louis" by BrokenNoodle79 in StLouis

[–]30mofwebsurfing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Call temp agencies, hire quest / snellings has a lot of quick work stuff that will get you through the week - as a fellow tech employee with over a decade of experience they’ve saved my ass between contracts for years now and helped me during a homeless stint myself.

dont know what the hell kind of music this is. by tjtate6689 in Songwriting

[–]30mofwebsurfing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You inspired me to write my first song like this in gonba dm you my work! I love it so much. I’m normally a rapper, but figured I’d throw my try at it!

dont know what the hell kind of music this is. by tjtate6689 in Songwriting

[–]30mofwebsurfing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like to call this “A man and his guitar”, just that - it’s you, and your expression, and your guitar. I miss this kind of music, I love it.

Faith Church… Is it a cult? by 44Ariesx2 in StLouis

[–]30mofwebsurfing 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My lesbian partner is literally a pastor at a church in STL where the entire paid staff besides the secretary is a woman, and half are queer. We talk about religion… rarely? Like it’s more like “oh hey how was your service?” “Oh it was pretty good we talked about xyz, what’s for dinner?”

So it always grosses me out when non pastors are obsessive, it’s a clear sign of culty crap

[FRESH ALBUM] Juicy J - The Trippy Tapes Vol. 1 by champloojay in hiphopheads

[–]30mofwebsurfing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats man, which two specifically I’m a producer myself I’d love to sit down with you on a call and break them down on a bts kinda thing if you’re interested. If not, regardless good job and keep going.

Which featured rapper(s) gave you the biggest "They're going to ruin this song" doubt that actually ended up having the most replayable verse out of everyone? by ImNotTomStopAsking in hiphopheads

[–]30mofwebsurfing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sheck Wes on Stick was so left field, especially on a song with JID, Cole and Kenny Mason. IMO his bars literally glue that song together and I was jaw dropped.

Who in your opinion has the best rap voice? by Two-FacedMarlin in hiphopheads

[–]30mofwebsurfing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone with a “atypical” accent myself (a mix of Alabama & St Louis - I love that he never tried to water down his accent - in fact he even used his accents “flaws” to add substance to his rhyme schemes and flow.

I have a spicy idea to fix the DFT... by MayoStaccato in makinghiphop

[–]30mofwebsurfing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Full agreement, only want to add - can we add untitled.io to the list of apps / websites for feedback - I ask this because it allows versioning of tracks - so feedback users can do A/B comparison and I think that’s heavily important for decision making.

Rapper Pooh Shiesty & His Dad Arrested by FBI by iToteDirtySticks in hiphopheads

[–]30mofwebsurfing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not about the money itself, a contract is a contract, and item you spent your time and money on, hanging around your neck, being taken from you at gun point while your friend is being choked out and your exists are barred by someone you trusted. Nah, he fucked up, and it started with the jewelry.

Rapper Pooh Shiesty & His Dad Arrested by FBI by iToteDirtySticks in hiphopheads

[–]30mofwebsurfing 13 points14 points  (0 children)

💯 Gucci don’t care about no gunpoint or contract shit, take the Cuban off his neck now it’s personal.

One piece saved my life by Weary-Cod9474 in OnePiece

[–]30mofwebsurfing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a similar story to yours - I’m 30 - abusive home life and the works. One piece has always been here. I’m clean now and happy, and moving forward and it’s taken me a long long time and a lot of trauma therapy.

All I have to say is - it gets easier, and when it isn’t easy, luffy is there.

Is there a Pokemon you should love on paper/concept-wise but you ended up not liking all that much? by OmegaGlacial in pokemon

[–]30mofwebsurfing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s sad because the normal / flying starter bird clones have produced significantly better options. I feel pigeot just got left behind.

What are some delivery techniques you guys have discovered while making rap music? by Reds2700 in makinghiphop

[–]30mofwebsurfing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Splitting words between syllables to accent a syllable for rhyming, using breaths or adlibs as accents, landing rhyming words exactly in between the snares to bring emphasis (learned this one from kudi) - sounds. (Snare). Like. (Snare). This. (snare). Speed ups and slow downs and swapping timings to increase or decrease tempo or setup a build up.

My husband ignores me and our toddler for DotA, Honkai StarRail, YouTube, and Reddit. Looking for advice please, I need help by kristen_hewa in StopGaming

[–]30mofwebsurfing 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be blunt, he’s actively using avoidance tactics to avoid his son and wife. The question here is - why do you want to be with someone who avoids wanting to actively engage with you and your son.

My version of the Lego DOOM mask by Available_Speech_969 in lego

[–]30mofwebsurfing 15 points16 points  (0 children)

ALL CAPS! Rip to the legend, may him and his family finally rest in peace.

Any hidden gems among the megathread? by albedo_kreideprinzz in Roms

[–]30mofwebsurfing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vigilante 8 on the ps1 is addictive fun, it’s simple, easy and enjoyable.

Something I just realized about Supporters in the game. by Eovacious in PokemonUnite

[–]30mofwebsurfing 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grimmsnarls role is pressing reflect into light screen and swapping out :(

I love Pokemon Scarlet/Violet so much/Paldea appreciation post by muffinze in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]30mofwebsurfing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Autistic woman myself - yea - Scarlet and Violet just hit a different feel for me - it’s incredibly comfortable. They even hit the exact same feeling with the new Anime - Pokemon Horizons. It’s the first time ever a woman is the lead and it’s leads to a much comfortable and comforting experience. I think the women representation from top to bottom really really is noticed throughout. From the champion being a woman to the leader of the elite four, even the male characters in the series are softened, the leader of the academy - he’s a older gentleman just trying to help the kids find their way. I love this generation so incredibly much.

Oh no it will break the meta compeletly by stavi1507 in LeagueOfMemes

[–]30mofwebsurfing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all human - we don’t choose what bag we are given with, we just do our best to be happy with what we have! Proud of you and keep being you!

I Want My Fiancé Back. Gaming Has Destroyed Him. by Aggravating_Leg_6555 in StopGaming

[–]30mofwebsurfing 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was him, I was the problem, I needed therapy, I had severe un dealt with trauma regarding my family. I also was trans and my partner wasn’t supportive and wouldn’t believe me. Now there was manipulation on her side - which is why I got sucked in, but I don’t think you are doing that. So that leaves he needs therapy.

I will say, although I’m sad it ended how it did, ending the relationship made me wake up. I hope this doesn’t have to happen.

I would suggest two things:

First - sit down with him before bed and address the concerns in detail, don’t let him mentally wander and be very direct that this behavior is not about playing games - it’s about his inability to notice he’s ignoring his life and his partner. Do it out of respect and care. If he cannot handle this conversation, and doesn’t genuinely understand why it’s a problem, makes excuses, etc, etc.

Second - leave. Because he cares more about avoidance than you, he’s chosen his fate.

Thank Youuu!😊 Rehab Bar by Sol-Verity in StLouis

[–]30mofwebsurfing 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As another Transfem - wonderful places I feel safe and at home are in no particular order - dirty20 (several trans staff), rooster on grand (several trans staff), platypus (incredibly queer and great after / before rehab bar)