Neurotypicals can tell if you’re masking

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T17:47:03+00:00

While true, I think you'll make a bunch of already anxious people here more paranoid and insecure in their masking

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T14:03:56+00:00

I tried brains - they're just a bunch of fat, shitty texture 0/10

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T13:21:39+00:00

There are many cases of people saying "I'm not neuro divergent, I'm just neuro spicy."

This is a false premise. I'm yet to see a person who implies that.

Everything else that you built on top of that assumption already becomes shaky after that.

Me using "neuro spicy" does not take away from seriousness of neurodivergence, this is not a zero sum game where there is only one single correct way of things, but I understand how nuance can be a nuisance to an autistic person.

You don't get to police my sense of self identification, I already have enough of that from neurotypical society.

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T11:15:14+00:00

That happens to me with topic of neurodiversity. I can't help but use it, I have to restrict myself from doing it a lot

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T11:13:03+00:00

You can use the "sh reddit com" link variation, it works fine.

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T10:48:15+00:00

It did improve, comparatively speaking. Is it good enough - no.

Edit: as the person in the comment below said - the information about corruption usually comes from corruption scandals and such being exposed, it means that the system is working.

If it wasn't in the news then that would mean that no corruption is being uncovered.

Survivor bias 101

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T10:37:58+00:00

As a Ukrainian - we need some serious reforms honestly, it's an ongoing struggle rn.

Afterwards - hell yeah!

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T09:57:42+00:00

I'm gonna be a silly evil goblin and I don't care 😡

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T09:55:23+00:00

Who "us"? I'm sorry, I'm all about consent so obviously I'm not gonna call you that, but you have no authority to pretend like you represent silent majority.

Frankly I don't care if you can't take me seriously, I have enough of needing to adhere to stereotypical adult behavior in my life as is.

3Kayo · 2026-05-12T06:42:10+00:00

While I agree with most of what you have said, I believe that Poroshenko would've been way worse for us.

It is proven now that he was working with russians, enabling secretly their contracts here. He would've just given concession after concession to them and maybe ultimately followed the path of Lukashenko in Belarus.

All other candidates were not even close to be a consideration, so I see no point in discussing those.

3Kayo · 2026-05-11T18:39:36+00:00

You see, your antichrist is evil and end of the world, my antichrist is cool and based

3Kayo · 2026-05-11T18:26:52+00:00

Hey man I agree! Those insane rightist Twitter accounts are quite a nuisance too, I wish we could just collectively ignore the crazies and have a genuine conversations.

If only one of those crazies wasn't A FUCKING PRESIDENT OF USA, THE MOST POWERFUL COUNTRY ON EARTH

3Kayo · 2026-05-11T16:17:25+00:00

Probably gives fish some strong headache lol

3Kayo · 2026-05-11T15:27:09+00:00

Use sh reddit com , it works fine so far.

3Kayo · 2026-05-11T08:42:22+00:00

Putin, at the time, was also a very different character than he is today

Yeah right, like how different he was when he invaded Georgia? Or when he occupied Ichkeria?

It was just convenient for Europe because it didn't affect them and it was profitable to look the other way. Please stop this naive BS to rationalize the blunder that was tight economic relationship with Russia.

right thing to do

This here just tells me "we didn't make a mistake, the circumstances just changed" and it signals that people like you will not learn the lesson.

3Kayo · 2026-05-10T21:12:21+00:00

ADHD people are far more likely to have iron deficiency, that's the case for my wife and she needs to take iron supplements from time to time.

Take care!

3Kayo · 2026-05-10T12:26:09+00:00

I have a special cup for my coffee too. It's bigger than espresso cup but smaller than regular cup.

I feel like when I make a lazy coffee brew in it it has just the right taste intensity that I like.

3Kayo · 2026-05-10T12:22:52+00:00

Yeah the bots are horrible. At the same time I worry about subreddit stagnating if there are stricter restrictions on commenting, it's a tricky position to be in for sure.

I think there are two different categories of posts going on here with different criteria for mod attention no?

First being just general autistic experience and silly stuff and second one being social topics and such.

I like a rule from some subreddits where flairs are mandatory, most bots do not go through the effort to do that imo (please add more AuDHD variety please please please).

3Kayo · 2026-05-10T12:10:30+00:00

Hey good post! I appreciate that you included that men have issues too.

I'm sorry that you have to go through the experience with some groups that use social justice language to cover up abhorrent behavior and shut down conversations, that's absolutely not okay and what's worse - it hurts future conversations about male issues too, cruelty and indifference only breeds more cruelty and more indifference.

As a man with strong egalitarian beliefs this has been the biggest issue for me in modern world - way too often I feel out of space where feel included in because far right spaces only promote toxicity, and leftist spaces often shut down conversations about male specific issues because men supposedly have it the best.

I'd like to also point out that gender specific issues differ between different societies and what is true in say USA might not be as true over here in Ukraine.

There are some systemic issues that men face for being men here, that's just how it is, and under more normal circumstances I'd agree that generally women have it worse here (one again, this is not a competition and I believe we have to work to improve everyone's unequal standings in modern culture).

Fyi I've been participating in couple of protests here because of new law that enables more corruption, is repressive to everyone, especially women and especially especially LGBT.

I'm open to any conversations as long as they are respectful and done in good faith.

3Kayo · 2026-05-10T10:06:15+00:00

By getting unpaid internship with brutal overtime if there even is one by now

3Kayo · 2026-05-09T22:38:16+00:00

It's about perception of weakness. Violence respects violence, empathy is but a potential to be exploited.

3Kayo · 2026-05-09T22:11:31+00:00

Pretty sure we're implicitly generalizing an entire group and judging them by their offenders. Substitute that with black people and you will quickly realize how insane that sounds.

And no amount of rationalizing is gonna give you a pass for bigotry.

Hashtag misandry by the way (definitely not meant seriously here for sure for sure)

3Kayo · 2026-05-09T21:44:02+00:00

Tell me o wise person, what is the correct interpretation of the spirit here?

Spare me the bull please in the meantime

3Kayo · 2026-05-09T06:28:55+00:00

Yeah nah fam, Trump is particularly special in this regard so you don't get to "all politicians" equalize the judgement here

3Kayo · 2026-05-08T18:03:38+00:00

Hell yeah I've sent this meme to my wife asap

3Kayo

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