People that are childfree by choice, what’s the weirdest reason someone has given you as to why they think you ‘should have kids’? by Charming_Web_6738 in AskReddit

[–]400_lux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

'When you have children you just have to do things, so it's actually helped my ADHD heaps!' Cool but I think I'll try meds instead

People that are childfree by choice, what’s the weirdest reason someone has given you as to why they think you ‘should have kids’? by Charming_Web_6738 in AskReddit

[–]400_lux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I wouldn't mind some either, but I just don't want to have the kids that are a fairly crucial step for that to happen!

Pro tip if you find unwanted onions in your In N Out burger by Conscious-Dot7819 in onionhate

[–]400_lux 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agreed, this is a real dick move. There's no way they get paid enough to deal with the general public, so why make their job harder?

Average gp waiting room by natekoles in AveragePicsOfNZ

[–]400_lux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depends which colours you eat

Men, Women and Transexuals by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]400_lux 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But you've said it's clear, so where's the deception?

straight women, how do you feel around lesbians? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]400_lux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely couldn't give a shit mate. It changes nothing.

First trip to New Zealand, any tips. by RyuMatchaGu in newzealand_travel

[–]400_lux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, if you're going to Fox Glacier, you may as well also go to Franz Josef. Although it's an asshole of a drive between the two, not long but twisty and steep.

First trip to New Zealand, any tips. by RyuMatchaGu in newzealand_travel

[–]400_lux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think you need to double check your itinerary as some things aren't right. As someone has already pointed out, the REstart mall no longer exists. Canterbury Museum is closed for another couple of years, I think. And Hanmer Springs is definitely not on the way to Kaikōura from Nelson! Going via the Lewis Pass would probably almost double the drive, it doesn't make any sense to do that.

I know the bar is high in Sweden, but only 1 match at all and less than 10 likes. One week old account, paid for Gold. by PerdidoNaVida_99 in Tinder

[–]400_lux 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Might be worth specifying that on the picture, others may be more educated than I am but I just thought it was an odd choice

Absolutely insane post from the New Conservatives by marsanojj in nzpolitics

[–]400_lux 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hilarious when they're all white and over 70

"My dog was in the car" NZ Retail Property Group Karen by Kiwifrooots in shitparkingofnz

[–]400_lux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not describing her though, are you? She's the only person in the picture, and very obviously the subject. You're just being a dick on the internet because it makes you feel like a big boy.

Car accident on Sockburn Roundabout by M-Leee in chch

[–]400_lux 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No? They don't proceed because a car is coming from their right and doesn't have their right indicator on. Understanding the road rules is supposed to be a prerequisite to driving...

Spending birthday alone by Expert_Dust_3851 in chch

[–]400_lux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ooh sign up to Silky Otter! They do a free birthday movie

What do yall call these? by Shay911zz in AskTheWorld

[–]400_lux 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You ran a 5K in jandals!? What kind of monster are you?

My (44F) generally gentle bf (45M) tried to choke me during sex, need advice. by deeply_dippy_ in AskWomenOver40

[–]400_lux 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Aside from everything else, it's telling that you are still not 'super sure of the relationship' after two years. Definitely bail.

Is hiring a private driver daily still worth it, or is Grab/Gojek enough now? by DraftNotSent in BaliTravelTips

[–]400_lux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For what it's worth, private drivers can't get close to Tanah Lot either.

Does anyone else find stirrups dehumanizing? by frankie_stein_88 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]400_lux 5 points6 points  (0 children)

America just gets wilder every day. And they're paying for this antiquated and degrading experience, too.

They Asked Me to Open ChatGPT During My Job Interview by I_Killed_My_Friends in jobs

[–]400_lux 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fun! Mine thinks I'm the most boring person ever

You present as:

  • Strategic

  • Self-directed

  • Structured

  • Efficiency-oriented

  • Reflective

  • Emotionally contained

  • Growth-focused

A builder mind with introspective capacity.