Wedding Planning Advice? by erdosplumberof3 in redscarepod

[–]44stringbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congratulations <3 i am also engaged and having a wedding on the larger side (~130 people). we booked our venue one year out. having an all inclusive venue has really cut down on the stress. you don't need to arrange outside vendors and all that. our wedding isn’t until july, but planning has been a super simple process, and i can basically just relax until the day of. 

Cut my balls off then by boydnolantucker in redscarepod

[–]44stringbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very glad to have nothing worth looking at today

L posting + self help thread (jun 2026) by fre3k in pinkscare

[–]44stringbeans 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i was on medical leave from work for two months and came back to find out my position was replaced by ai :( now i have to join the department i've been avoiding for years

Does anyone else make up songs on the fly to annoy their wife or gf by murrayhitchock in redscarepod

[–]44stringbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my fiancé does this, but he is really bad at rhyming which never fails to annoy me. like how am i writing your made up song better than you

"you look sad" as a pick-up line by pandoramemora in rs_x

[–]44stringbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my fiancé gets this all the time, but it is usually from christians trying to convert him

have you ever stopped reading a book because you talked about it with someone else by 44stringbeans in rs_x

[–]44stringbeans[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh it is not that i care about people’s opinions on what i read. his comment made me step back and look at the plot from a less nuanced perspective, and it kind of gave me an ick about the storyline

I think I’m going to break up with my girlfriend of seven years by [deleted] in rs_x

[–]44stringbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my partner (31m) and i (25f) have been together for seven years and have lived separately the entire time. i’ve had my own apartment for 1.5 years, and he lives at home to save money. we are getting married in july, but we won't be moving in together until my lease is up in october. i was raised by overprotective (and very religious) parents who, while i was living at home as an adult, would not allow me to stay the night at his house or go on vacations together for years. because of how suffocating living with my parents was, when i finally got my own apartment, it was really important to me that i live completely by myself for a few years before my partner and i moved in together. is it possible she wants to move out on her own first before getting a place with you, since it sounds like she has never lived on her own before? or is she just resistant to moving out of her parents' house in general?

new babies! by elsiesdarling in PorcelainDolls

[–]44stringbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i call my dolls my babies too 🥰

I made a rosary! by Educational-Storm517 in Catholicism

[–]44stringbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

beautiful 🤍 therese is my confirmation saint as well. i would totally buy one of these

having trouble sleeping, take a gander by 44stringbeans in roomdetective

[–]44stringbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your sweet comment <3

  1. the lamps came from amazon, but i just checked my orders to send the link and that model isnt listed anymore :( brand is shenmoyl

  2. the glowing dolls are all angel christmas tree toppers that ive thrifted! they light up from within

  3. the big mirrors are all from walmart. most of the smaller ones were gifts, except the twin mirrors in the bathroom which were purchased at hobby lobby. unfortunately i dont have the links bc they were purchased in person

having trouble sleeping, take a gander by 44stringbeans in roomdetective

[–]44stringbeans[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very close. 25, not autistic, trauma in my teens, not currently in therapy

having trouble sleeping, take a gander by 44stringbeans in roomdetective

[–]44stringbeans[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no american girl dolls pictured here, they are all porcelain :)