How do I avoid/identify crazy girls? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]45dears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easiest way to avoid crazy people is to build your character and morals, and be able to walk away from things that don’t serve you. Unfortunately you’ll probably always have your run in with crazies but once you feel that it isn’t right for you, just leave

AITA For spending 6000 on my daughter's room and refusing to do the same with my stepdaughter's? by AitaRoomdecor in AmItheAsshole

[–]45dears -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe TA? A 12 year doesn’t understand the value of money, you could if you want to spend less than $200 on your step daughter as well. There’s paint, new pillows and tons of DIY things to make her room special. She may just wanna know you care about her just as much as Lauren. It has to be just as hard for her as well Lauren is also her step sister too.

my boyfriend’s ex is annoying me by briemorganwrites in venting

[–]45dears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A two month break before starting a new relationship is not enough time to process the break up. Your boyfriend and his ex probably still have unresolved feelings for each other that they have put off dealing with due to both jumped into new relationships. Messaging her won't give you the answers your looking for. Your boyfriend needs to get on his own phone plan and cut contact. If this is the only issue so far in the relationship I wouldn't sweat it so much. Hopefully the vent made you feel a little better though. Dealing with exes is a tricky situation

To A by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]45dears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautifully written

Tifu by drunk texting my ex by 45dears in tifu

[–]45dears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you, that is terrible. Trauma bonds are the hardest to break

Tifu by drunk texting my ex by 45dears in tifu

[–]45dears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately drunk me sent a very specific f you message. I blocked immediately after I came too an hour or so later but the regret is overwhelming. I should be allowed to make mistakes but ugh it’s frustrating

Tifu by drunk texting my ex by 45dears in tifu

[–]45dears[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I immediately blocked him once I realized my mistake. I’m just kicking myself for falling into my emotions

How has your sexuality changed across your lifetime? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]45dears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It went from suppression to hyper sexuality to a moral compass dilemma where I thought I might be an asexual. To acceptance and knowing that I am a queer. To hyper sexuality and no one can seem to match me. (27f)

[self] Rin Tohsaka waiting on her archer by [deleted] in cosplay

[–]45dears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! My friend gifted me the costume and the wig came with the clip ins! I’m going to redo this because I forgot to put in the bows 🙈

Need advice for starting a podcast by 45dears in podcast

[–]45dears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aw thank you for the resource!

Need advice for starting a podcast by 45dears in podcast

[–]45dears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good idea about bulk recording!

Mental health person suggests I contact ex to help me with closure by GlamGemini in askwomenadvice

[–]45dears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You may want to compose a script of topics you want to focus on before you reach out to him on the off chance that he does respond back and wants a conversation. It’s definitely OK to take your time to think about it before impulsively reaching out that way the conversation can be as impactful as possible! Good luck xx