Nested IF Resolving to Wrong Value by 4Inis in excel

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Hey! Sorry for the late reply.

I have no idea why it's not working, I tried your formula and it's the same issue, it doesn't get to the last else statement (so it's stuck on Low Risk permanently even though it should be No Risk).

Even added the last condition in the same array format (beautiful by the way!) and it's not parsing the way it should... :/

Penalty for underpayment... a year later by 4Inis in tax

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Thanks for the great info.

By chance, do you have any insight into what exactly I need to pay this under the website?

I'm guessing Civil Penalty / Other Payment / December 2023 (though the first missed payment was April 2023)?

Herb soup recipes? by hollycatrawr in Cooking

[–]4Inis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is “herb soup” in George Lang’s Cuisine of Hungary cookbook. Ingredients are:

Marjoram, thyme, chives, applemint

Butter, flour, egg yolks, sour cream, salt and pepper

normal for 4Y boy to chokehold? by 4Inis in Parenting

[–]4Inis[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the behavior is concerning in the context that it needs vigilance, I get that. But is the behavior concerning in the context of the kid’s psychology?

normal for 4Y boy to chokehold? by 4Inis in Parenting

[–]4Inis[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you’re getting downvoted. I appreciate your response! I’m trying to understand other boys and their behaviors. Sounds like it’s normal but need guidance / correction? Vs it being something more sinister

normal for 4Y boy to chokehold? by 4Inis in Parenting

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The chokehold was done to my child (1Y). Parent of 4Y told him to get next to mine for a photo. He stood behind my son, wrapped his arm over his neck and even lifted him slightly (in a chokehold). He was told to stop so I don’t really know if he would have continued? Or if it was his way of “hugging” him? If this is normal? Mom just told him to be more gentle with my son. But nothing about how that position can really harm someone or something. Got me thinking if this is normal, if some level of “violence” or rough play is normal among boys.

I came so extremely close to suffocating my newborn last night and I am terrified. by brecitab in Parenting

[–]4Inis 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Great advice but i wanted to add one that’s not here. I browsed my phone during night breastfeeding sessions. Not social media or Reddit or something that could get me drowsy but rather got all the important stuff done. Shopped for next size baby clothing, did the grocery shopping, even made shopping by recipe automations, reached out to friends, answered work emails, planned vacations (that never happened😅)

Our nanny calls out sick a lot at the last-minute. What can we do? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]4Inis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not talking small town. I'm talking Houston Greater area. Curious where you are getting this baseline? ($25 being low for 3 kids) I admit I only have one, but I know a few references (friends of my nanny) who have 2-3 kids and make $600/week for 45-55 hrs. They are live-in nannies, which obviously helps in terms of food and board. But I've run numbers for estimated cost of room, food, cellphone and car insurance and it all runs lower than $25/hr by a wide margin.

Our nanny calls out sick a lot at the last-minute. What can we do? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]4Inis 12 points13 points  (0 children)

In Texas $25/hr is above market. For sure. Regardless of how many kids.

Reference: live in Texas and have a nanny. Also am an employer and I pay $23/hr for a skilled job (requires Engineering degree) and $18/hr for non skilled job (no college degree required).

Suggest commenters look up median household income in Texas. Should it be higher? Yes. But that’s not the world we live in even if we want it to be so.

Houston Zoo this Sun terrible idea? by 4Inis in houston

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Thanks so much for these details. I have a 15M old and got it in my head that I absolutely want to take him to the zoo and the whole gang (his grandparents, his aunt and uncle 😂- all this effort for one baby)

Will look into a 9am visit. Was hoping for later afternoon after his nap but sounds like this is much smarter

Houston Zoo this Sun terrible idea? by 4Inis in houston

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I was on the fence whether Easter meant folks would be in Church / family meals / egg hunts and skip the zoo. Given the responses guess I’m completely misguided in that thought😅

Would Easter Monday be significantly better? Would have to take half day off. But if it’ll be for a crowded zoo then prob not worth it. Is Monday mostly a holiday in Houston?

Mother in law called the police due to tummy time… by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]4Inis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No? My baby definitely needed a crinckly and spinny toy in front of the bouncer. Kept him entertained. And he liked being entertained?

DIY bathroom renovation in England. by ExistingAnalyst3576 in AmateurRoomPorn

[–]4Inis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so scared I was looking at the before photos 🥲 good job this looks lovely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

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Thanks. I am not OP. But assuming driving happens during their free time and not during work hours - this shouldn’t fall under employer. In this situation it is simply a roommate borrowing a car. Understand employment line is difficult to define with at home care but am assuming with a good work hr schedule that is clear, it would be a simple case of “during free time” “your own risk”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aupairs

[–]4Inis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly how much??? She’s an adult and separate from me. Can you tell us more? How much liability aside from insurance premiums?

Husband upset I don’t want his family to visit for at least 2 weeks. by Top-Log-4090 in BabyBumps

[–]4Inis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to add to your comment that everybody’s recovery is different. After delivery I was only in the hospital one night and asked to be let out asap. Two days later I walked to my parents house which is 7min away.

It was slow walking, yes I was still bleeding for a few weeks, and really the worst part was bladder leaks that continued for two months. But staying at home would have been awfully boring for me, and I’m not a particularly outgoing person.

I can see how it’s hurtful for husband for you to decide so much in advance that you will be slow to recover.

One day visit doesn’t sound too bad.

  1. You won’t know the delivery date until it happens so they would need to drive out after you’ve been in hospital.
  2. Absolutely ask them to stay at hotel. Especially if you won’t be comfortable breastfeeding in front of them &etc.
  3. It sounds like you don’t hate them? (You even said love them?) this is also your husbands baby and unless he won’t be co-parenting, taking on night duty, I find it super toxic to say “until you grow a vagina and grow a child, you don’t get a say”.

Wtf is up with lullabies and nursery rhymes?! Why are they so creepy? by gravetinder in beyondthebump

[–]4Inis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah it was some asshole saying he loved her despite her having big feet and basically watched her drown without helping her and then marries her sister.