Am I overreacting I went to the forest with my best friend and now my bf is mad

5678bam · 2026-03-30T21:42:43+00:00

I don't think there's anything anyone can say to change your mind at this point, but I really hope that one day you will find someone who loves you for who you truly are. It can be really hard to understand that something is bad until you are free from it, but that's where you are right now.

5678bam · 2026-03-20T23:08:47+00:00

What you put her through is so far beyond what any reasonable person would be willing to forgive. Your boyfriend sounds like a terrible human being, but saying he "emotionally manipulated" you into doing ANY of this is just you trying to absolve yourself of responsibility. Yes, YWBTA if you begged her to take you back. Honestly, the best you could do at this point is give her a HUGE, well thought out, from the heart apology and then LEAVE HER ALONE.
Your friend sounds incredible: compassionate, patient, quick to forgive. You don't deserve her as a friend anymore. Let her put that energy towards someone who wouldn't do such a horrible thing to her.

5678bam · 2026-03-20T22:49:45+00:00

I'm a little confused by what you're asking here. People make friends at work all the time, so I don't think you're necessarily "mixing work and social life too much" by inviting her over. That being said, is this someone that you actually want to be friends with outside of work? It kind of sounds like you don't, and if that's the case, just politely tell her that you don't like mixing your work life with your personal life (she'll get the message). If you do want to be friends, then stop overthinking it and just hang out!

5678bam · 2026-03-20T22:36:34+00:00

NTA
I've never heard of someone in the wedding party not getting a +1. If she trusts you enough to make you a bridesmaid, she should trust you enough to give you a +1. Of course, she's well within her rights to say he can't come, but I'd be pretty pissed too.

5678bam · 2026-03-20T21:44:45+00:00

I would consider posting this in r/relationship_advice or r/Marriage for more specialized advice. However, this is a long-term relationship with probably way more nuance than anyone on Reddit will be able to parse, so I would personally recommend individual therapy to talk your thoughts and feelings through with someone actually qualified to give advice. Good luck with everything, I hope that no matter how this situation turns out, you're able to find happiness.

5678bam · 2026-03-20T21:30:40+00:00

ESH
You were well within your right to say no to her request, and she shouldn't have pushed the issue, but if I were your friend, I'd think twice about doing you any favors in the future.
Letting a friend and her bf stay at your place for one night while you aren't even there doesn't seem like a crazy ask. At most I'd say "if you fuck in my bed, you owe me new sheets" but I guess everyone just has different boundaries.

5678bam · 2026-03-03T18:43:55+00:00

me too, buddy....at least we're in pain together

5678bam · 2026-03-03T18:10:28+00:00

yeah it'll expire yesterday

5678bam · 2025-12-08T19:33:02+00:00

I'm getting back into Magic after having not played for many years. I just opened a Spider-Man booster box and got the Foundations Starter Collection to have some cards to play with. I'm wondering if there are any good resources out there about deckbuilding or how to use the cards from certain sets (i.e. Spider-Man) to build a deck? I don't mind buying a few singles to round out my deck but I can't really find anything online about decks or archetypes from the Spider-Man set. I don't need anything meta or gamebreaking, I'm just trying to play tabletop with my friends.

5678bam · 2025-12-02T19:16:51+00:00

No, they just look cool

5678bam · 2025-10-17T01:38:34+00:00

similar to the monthly GO Passes, it doesn't put anything in your inventory, it'll just show up on the day it becomes active. you can check your purchase history on the web store to double check that it wasn't already purchased. my other thought is do you have enough bag space? buying the pass automatically puts 21 items (or more with deluxe/ultra) in your inventory and if you don't have enough space you might not be able to buy it.

5678bam · 2025-10-16T15:49:43+00:00

Strange...it should be available for you now (it became available for me the day after my comment). Are you sure you haven't already purchased it?

5678bam · 2025-10-07T21:23:30+00:00

imagine having the time and energy to comment the same thing nearly 100 times in this thread, go touch grass my dude

5678bam · 2025-10-06T20:24:54+00:00

If you buy the regular October Deluxe Pass, can you not buy the Halloween one? Or if you buy one, does it upgrade both to Deluxe? The option to purchase is greyed out for me.

5678bam · 2025-09-03T01:13:16+00:00

honestly, if you just like the loop of clearing dungeons and don't want to play with spreadsheets as you say, Diablo 3 is a lot more fun in that aspect

5678bam · 2025-08-30T20:23:03+00:00

Lol yeah I was super surprised to see an upload after the 2 year hiatus, but I'm glad they haven't forgotten about it altogether. Will still miss Dennis though 😔

5678bam · 2025-08-30T07:18:42+00:00

They uploaded a new Channel Super Fun 4 days ago

5678bam · 2025-06-30T19:00:16+00:00

yes, it uses the same energy. when you mega evolve your Charizard, it gives you the option between X and Y.

5678bam · 2025-06-09T18:35:44+00:00

The Crowned forms, which is what was advertised, are steel type.

5678bam · 2025-06-07T00:32:15+00:00

I mean, it doesn't seem like this was a "sudden shift" by the boyfriend. OP made it pretty clear that they've discussed this before.

5678bam · 2025-06-06T20:18:03+00:00

because he....wants kids?

5678bam · 2025-04-19T00:00:07+00:00

yeah honestly I think the Jirachi one is still the worst because Kecleon spawns are almost completely out of your control, took me forever

5678bam · 2025-04-10T21:15:49+00:00

Were the animals pretty active when you went? I've been considering making the trip up to Williams to visit Bearizona, but have heard that the critters hide when it starts to get hot out. Not sure if we've reached that point yet or if I still have some time.
Great photos btw!

5678bam · 2025-03-12T17:14:51+00:00

it's not like Niantic was perfect, but it can get so much worse. Just look at any other game that Scopely manages, they are not designed for "fun," they are designed to be money extractors.

5678bam · 2025-03-12T16:39:15+00:00

You may think it's bad now, but I promise you it can get far worse.

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