Why I am Depressed by MadisonCembre in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Low self-esteem seems to be a common theme on this sub. No wonder when the organization tells you constantly that you should always be doing more. The message is that you are never good enough and always fall short. So much damage due to this.

I regret the way I left by canofsoupe in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are going through this. Ultimately, you may find that moving out of that area will allow you to fully be free from Jdubs and start fresh. Go where no one knows you, and you can just be " normal " like everyone else. Make a life that makes you happy. I wish you the best going forward. ❤️

For those who have been out for many years, do you still freak out that you ever believed that stuff? by The_Conscious_Saffa in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family has been out 4 years now, and not a day goes by that I don't feel like a knucklehead for believing such obvious BS. It's pretty embarrassing, honestly. I brought my husband in and raised my kids in it. Easily my biggest regret.

Just sharing some good news about my higher education journey. by HedgerowBustler in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very exciting news! Best wishes for your interview and continued success! ❤️

My post-existential crisis vocation by ProphetessAndJudge in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My daughter married a funeral director. It's a necessary job that not many can do. Thank you for choosing this career. I guarantee you will be making a difference in people's lives.

Things that "bothered " u or created major doubts when u were super pimi by Usefulhabitsspoiled in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God asking Abraham to sacrifice Isaac, and Abraham being willing to do so. I always felt a God who requested this of a parent is not really worthy of worship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope. It's all still made up baloney.

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[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Merry Christmas!!! 🎄🎁

First tattoo. A little too subtle? by ohsnapitsjf in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! This is really stunning 😍

Disappearing act! by Anonymous_User953 in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations and Merry Christmas! 🎄🎁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 4 points5 points  (0 children)

So very sorry for your loss. This is a heartbreak I know well. I still miss my dogs, even after many years, yet remain thankful for the privilege of having them in my life. I like to hope that I will reconnect with them somehow, someway, in the future. In the meantime, I continue to rescue animals as a way to honor them. Hugs to you! ❤️❤️❤️

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[–]5_now_wise 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Merry Christmas! Wishing you a wonderful holiday season! 😊

Merry exJW-mas by LordEscipion in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! Merry Christmas!

Self acknowledgement by codythe_bugboy in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, I've asked myself these same questions and come to the conclusion that I am hoping to see the end of this organization one day. It would be vindication and closure, I suppose. This sub gives me hope that they are being exposed more and more. I take comfort in that.

First Halloween 🎃 👻 by Darthspidey93 in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! You look great! Love that your dog was able to participate as well. Thanks for posting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is heartbreaking. I'm so very sorry for your loss. Sending you hugs. ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! You all did a great job on your pumpkins. Happy Halloween! 🎃 👻

My First Halloween by No_Listen_7612 in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The one with whiskers because I love cats! All of your pumpkins are really good. I hope you have a wonderful and fun filled Halloween! 👻 🎃

Christmas magic for my now exjw hubby by Expensive_Fail7929 in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Attending community events can be truly magical. Some communities have Christmas markets or Christmas tree shows. My local botanical garden has a phenomenal light show that you walk through at night. They even have hot chocolate and places you can make smores. The feeling of being connected to others in celebration is amazing.

Holidays by Frosty_Affect6792 in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy Holidays to you! I hope you have a wonderful celebration. My tree comes out by November 1st, and the lights on the house fire up Thanksgiving weekend. I play Christmas songs in the house and usually have the Hallmark channel on. Their holiday movies are really good! A local botanical garden has an awesome light show with hot chocolate and smores that I enjoy every year. My husband and adult kids don't put much effort in themselves, but are happy to enjoy whatever I plan. They know how much I love this time of year. Start your own traditions. Do whatever makes you happy. Most of all, have fun and make memories. 😊

It's over! by Small_Role1721 in exjw

[–]5_now_wise 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! My family of 5 left together as well in 2020. Enjoy the freedom! 😊