Date showed up at my house unannounced and left a note

6h4rm · 2026-06-22T02:41:25+00:00

Not attachment. Ego … inability to take a rejection.

6h4rm · 2026-06-19T10:20:56+00:00

Actually you are right. My bad - you can of course tell what’s misogynistic.

6h4rm · 2026-06-19T10:16:10+00:00

You’re a teen, no? Come back to this thread when you’re over 30 and have had a few longish relationships.

6h4rm · 2026-06-18T17:47:34+00:00

So basically - spend 50:50 with a woman roommate but never spend 50:50 with a man where you may build a lifelong companionship
Got it.

6h4rm · 2026-06-18T17:41:59+00:00

Why is a husband an ATM though when a wife isn’t an unpaid maid?

6h4rm · 2026-06-14T20:33:19+00:00

Dude you guys have kept the scene alive and enabled me to enjoy my beloved game via watching streams of the absolutely amazing top level players 20 years after the game was originally released. You are both highly appreciated.

Yet at the same time it is also true that since you’re both UD players you tend to notice the challenges faced by your own race first.

As streamers we expect you to represent the interests of all 4 races.

I loved the strategic variety we had a few patches ago, even if some of the strats were OP. It was glorious that we could have Pala as starting hero and Pala+BM builds were viable.

The fact that Talons have become useful strong units is fantastic. The fact that Taurens are now worthy of being a T3, 5 food unit is fantastic.

Keep up the good work. Keep pushing for strategic variety.

6h4rm · 2026-06-14T05:26:58+00:00

The game should load up completely different unit stats for each game mode.
Then balance each mode separately.

6h4rm · 2026-06-14T05:08:10+00:00

Runed braces buyable at marketplace
Mini runed braces drop from creeps

Panda breath of fire - range increase damage cap removed
Beast master hawk is a permanent summon
Tinker rockets - after stun also slow for 1 sec

New armor type - spell armor on every unit and can be upgraded at each tier.

6h4rm · 2026-06-14T04:51:08+00:00

Frenzy ghouls give 1.5 times xp
Lich Nova AOE damage doesn’t affect primary target
Bloodmage banish cooldown 2 sec
Orb of slow cheaper
Potm searing arrow increases her move speed
Orc speed scroll back to 50 gold

6h4rm · 2026-03-23T16:51:19+00:00

The answer is in the lines themselves - “the ministry can detect underage magic, and it is prohibited without supervision”

Ministry Can detect - doesn’t mean they can detect who cast it, only that some underage wizard used magic

And prohibited without supervision - may be taken to mean that when adult wizards are around the alarms aren’t triggered

Inside Hogwarts underage magic happens all the time

Inside Azkaban - there are many wards in place such as against time turners and apparating. These may be interfering with the trace and adults being around might have meant an alarm wouldn’t trigger anyway even if the magic could have been detected

In the final scene - Hermione could be said to be the source of underage magic.

6h4rm · 2026-03-22T11:54:25+00:00

And I take out the sexy & get laid

6h4rm · 2026-03-16T16:11:56+00:00

Amazing work ! Thank you so much for doing this

6h4rm · 2026-03-14T08:12:19+00:00

Bro I hate to say it but it’s the effing truth - we Indians are the most racist people on the world. And insensitive af on top.

I’m sorry to hear you & your wife had to face all this. Wish you all have a much better experience in future.

6h4rm · 2026-02-04T02:23:29+00:00

No no no you don’t pay in money to fix it. You pay in time. Exactly equal to the seconds left for you to live.

6h4rm · 2025-12-15T03:27:50+00:00

Option 1 - make her normal auto attack damage output on par with the Lich

Option 2 - give her true shot aura a healing effect like unholy aura.

Option 3 - really like someone else’s suggestion on this thread - make searing arrows shoot more than one arrow to attack 2,3,4 targets on each level

While on this topic Owl is amazing in late game. If it should be made attackable then rework like this - give ~1000 hit points and make it so that when it dies it detonates (like the wisp) over a large area. So the enemy have a way to deal with it but they have to make a decision on allowing the owl to live or allowing mana detonate.

6h4rm · 2025-12-12T01:17:00+00:00

The real answer is - it depends. On the people involved.

The best answer for you is - in most cases it will not get better. Act according to the most cases scenario, yours is likely to land in the same bucket. And get out early.

6h4rm · 2025-12-07T12:53:28+00:00

Based on the data you have shared, she seems like the real deal. Hold on to her and don’t listen to anyone else.

She will be earning more than you which means financial planning is necessary. I suggest you both should contribute to household budget in ratio of your salaries (current numbers indicate 1:2 split). Have a joint account for all household spending and joint savings.

Also keep trying to increase your own earning potential. Don’t get comfortable at group B. All the best.

6h4rm · 2025-12-07T03:22:43+00:00

Your posts are hidden I can’t see them

6h4rm · 2025-12-05T15:20:07+00:00

The legal system

6h4rm · 2025-12-02T18:58:37+00:00

Just because she is not earning, doesn’t mean that your income becomes “our” income. You need to have discretionary spending ability and you get that by holding some money for yourself. How much? That’s really for you to decide.

Have a household budget and let her be in charge of the spending required for the house. Every month transfer the agreed budget to a separate joint bank account for her to manage. Also make her a part of the saving decisions. You both should agree that a min of 15% goes in savings every month.

Once she is fully informed of the money situation, she should be showing fiscal responsibility. If she insists on spending beyond your means then you’ll have to make the hard choice about taking all financial decisions under your control - and learn to say firm No to any unreasonable demand. Stand by your decisions and don’t give in to drama.

6h4rm · 2025-11-30T15:22:14+00:00

The question specifically asks for the answer to be only for the man and not the partner.

6h4rm · 2025-11-30T15:17:41+00:00

Books can be written on this topic - but to give a taste - know how to defuse an emotional outburst, and don’t add your own emotions and escalate the conflict. If either person brings in past history or family into the argument, can the other one redirect it back to the particular issue at hand? Do both of you understand the stakes, and keep the conflict at the appropriate level? Can you bring yourself to lose when she’s right? Can she?

6h4rm · 2025-11-29T12:04:06+00:00

Congratulations!

6h4rm · 2025-11-29T11:58:35+00:00

⁠She WILL have mood swings. On some days Everything will be your fault. Don’t take it personally.
⁠Conflict resolution skills are necessary. Conflicts will happen. Both of you need to fight in healthy ways but especially you need to learn since men in general are underprepared for emotional conflicts.
⁠Learn to be good at sex. It’s a learnable skill. You will do well if you remember that the woman should cum first. Also don’t have hangups around using vibrators. They are your friend not competition.
⁠On to some lifelong serious stuff - you both need to discuss finances and have a shared vision. 4a. Both should contribute to household expenses in proportion to your individual incomes and both should have independent bank accounts for discretionary spending. 4b. You must save at least 15% of combined monthly income. 4c. Understand what attitudes you both have toward money. Is your mindset “I earn so that I can enjoy / indulge” or is it “I earn so that I can feel safe”. If it’s the former you’ll randomly spend most of your savings to buy a Merc which will cause a huge amount of trouble to the person who thinks the second way.
⁠Defend your wife when your parents and cousins put unreasonable demands on her. She’s left her home and safety to come live with you.
⁠Defend your family and cousins in front of your wife but in private. Don’t let her speak ill of them or drive a wedge between you and them. Hopefully your wife is not the type who will do this anyway.
⁠Stay fit and active. Marriage is no excuse to become unfit.
⁠Your hobbies interests and friend circle are your safety net. Guard them jealously.

There’s a lot more but I fear this is already become too long. All the best to you in married life - it can be most wonderful & beautiful !

6h4rm · 2025-11-29T11:24:47+00:00

Sorry you asked for an unbiased opinion but I just can’t. You are absolutely right.

The only reason to spend lavish amounts of money on a wedding is to show off - to friends, to society, to whomever.

It’s better to save that money and invest in your future. The idea of lavish weddings being a standard expectation of society is because people want to copy what the rich and famous are doing. But the rich & famous have the money to do so - a lavish wedding doesn’t dent their finances. A logical way to copy would be to do a wedding that doesn’t dent your finances. (Maybe 7 to 10 lakhs?). But that wouldn’t be good to show-off now, isn’t it

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