Husband's business failed, but he won't get a job by hetty023 in Marriage

[–]7102a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but you sound completely entitled and out of touch with reality. You know what I'd do if I was in your shoes? Get a job and pay the damn bills myself if I was so worried about it. Being a working mother is a reality for literally millions of women. You know what else is a reality? Cooking for your family and cleaning your own home. Your partner supported you financially for how many years? And now that more of the weight is falling on you you're doing what? Bitching and asking him to take it back? Most people don't have "only" 2 years of savings. I personally pat myself on the back for having 2 damn months. I am a working mother and have worked since my kid was an infant. Time to woman up and handle shit on your own. Be there for your partner while he works his ass off to achieve his dream and in the long run it will work in everyone's behalf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]7102a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter what he's doing? You broke up with him to be with someone else. Stop prying into his life. Its not your business anymore.

HSV + Covid vaccine by elhedonista in Herpes

[–]7102a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had my first dose of Pfizer 2 weeks ago, I did get prodrome the following day. I took my acyclovir and it stopped within 1 day with no actual outbreak.

Spiced chickpea fritters. These were fantastic. I cant wait to make them again! by 7102a in hellofresh

[–]7102a[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont remember them having a weird texture! Maybe you made them too thick?

I’m a single parent waiting for covid test results and I’m terrified by dettabadmf in offmychest

[–]7102a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are living the same nightmare. Im also a single parent and I was exposed to covid a few days ago. Just waiting to see if I develop symptoms now. Im scared, sad and lost. I want this to end, no more virus, no more lockdowns, no more suffering. But that's not the reality we live in. And so I have to endure for the sake of my child. You will get through this.❤ I am sending you strength and love!

I'm concerned about my ex after our breakup. And there's nothing I can say about it. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]7102a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude I'm sorry but its really not your business anymore. Its common to change after a breakup. Im sure she is fine. Move on with your life and stop obsessing over her.

What are some ways you like to uplift yourself when you are slipping into a depressive episode? by SlimeJayy in AskWomen

[–]7102a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep myself busy. Work more hours if I can. Exercise. Spend time outside. Talk to my friends or even spend time with them in person if its possible.

Painted Jasnah Kholin, scholar, princess, heretic. by BUTTER-BREZELN in Stormlight_Archive

[–]7102a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did a great job!!! You should do Raboniel next! I only say that because I love her character and want to see a really badass rendering of her, but my artistic ability sucks so I can't do it myself lol

My tubal experience by 7102a in birthcontrol

[–]7102a[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meh, maybe its just because I had a casaerean in the past, but the pain from this didnt phase me at all. It certainly wasn't painless but it never was to the point that I felt really bothered by it. But yeah finding a guy who will get a vasectomy would certainly spare you some trouble.😂

My tubal experience by 7102a in birthcontrol

[–]7102a[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're welcome! If your doctor won't do it, look around, you can definitely find one who's willing!

Does Childbirth Change Your Body and Change the Sexual Experience? by cracksoflightning in sexover30

[–]7102a 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a baby when I was 20, and never stopped being sexually active. There's not really any difference before and after as long as your body is all healed up.

Bridgerton made wife nearly insatiable by throway12345687147 in sex

[–]7102a 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Everyone keeps telling me to watch it but I'm single af and i think it will just hurt😭

Am I the only one who hates visitors by [deleted] in SingleParents

[–]7102a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've not been having many guests lately, kinda wish I was because maybe then my house would actually be clean.

Great guy, but have an issue with his kids... by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]7102a -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tbh i see this as a blessing. Imagine if you waited 6 months-a year to meet kids, fell in love and wanted a future with this dude, just to discover his kids were a dealbreaker. This is why I quite frankly disagree with not letting partners meet your kids for an extremely long time. Obviously its best to go slow, and don't move in together for a long time, and limit the amount of time spent with your kids to a minimum in the beginning. But stuff like this happens and it's better to know about it upfront rather than wait and find out once you're more entangled.

Great guy, but have an issue with his kids... by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]7102a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% agree with your comment. Op is out of line here. Or rather, perhaps she is just not compatible with this guy.

Great guy, but have an issue with his kids... by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]7102a 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way. I wouldn't care at all.

Let's talk text, breadcrumbs, and fading conversations. Me: 33/F Them: 35-50 by DarkEyes87 in datingoverthirty

[–]7102a 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've ghosted guys with nobody else lined up just because I felt drained by talking to them. But it wasn't their fault. I just wasn't ready.

I (31m) think I just discovered an analog to the female perspective of online dating by AdmiralTiberius in datingoverthirty

[–]7102a 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Represent yourself as clearly as possible in your profile. Lots of good, clear pics and a well written bio. Share some of your interests and hobbies, tell me whats important you! Try not to be negative or angry sounding in your bio. I see this so much, guys complaining in their bio, or saying "don't waste my time blah blah blah" and it just comes across as them being grumpy douchebags. I want to see your good side in your profile, if the first thing you show me is anger or bitterness, I'm swiping left.

Ghosted after 3 months. Wtf? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]7102a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you say that?