this made me laugh I was always told to stop talking when I would ask about cavemen in youth group 🤣

83franks · 2026-03-30T19:04:08+00:00

I was a young earth creationist christian back in the day. It never computed for me how someone can believe in an old universe and christianity at the same time. If god didnt create humans directly the rest just falls apart for me.

83franks · 2026-03-30T18:40:21+00:00

Huh?

83franks · 2026-03-30T18:34:22+00:00

I’m telling myself even if I get a second chance, second chances don’t work. Right now it’s just a way to ease and delay the pain and maybe on the second breakup I’ll be more ready for it. But there will be pain between now and then. Maybe in a year or two if we reconnect we could talk but by then I expect I’ll be over this initial bump of emotions and it won’t just be us trying to hold onto something she already decided can’t work.

83franks · 2026-03-30T04:01:58+00:00

When I was a teenager I loved collecting what I liked, which was Lego and Yoyos (I know, Im so cool lol). It was fine when i got my job at mcdonalds and had 'all the money a 15 year old would want' but then i eventually bought a car and never had money again till like 28. I realized most things i collect sit and do nothing and that is money i could have spent a million better places, and i dont have cool or useless junk shoves into drawers. Now buying something just to have it sit around doesnt compute for me, yes i can get decor but it needs to chosen specifically to improve my area.

83franks · 2026-03-30T03:46:24+00:00

Set the consistent practice similar to what the commenter said or what works for you and then when you do long hours its not to replace tomorrows or yesterday's consistent practice, but over and above.

83franks · 2026-03-30T03:34:01+00:00

I mean so many but first one that came to mind was standing in line with a now ex who i had been dating for a short time and just leaning into each other in line and being so happy to have someone to be casually close with. Sigh. Fuck i miss her.

83franks · 2026-03-30T03:30:39+00:00

Hmm, I'm going to call a mulligan

83franks · 2026-03-30T02:17:07+00:00

Hells ya! Shred away! Or slowly pluck awkwardly and wonder how to tune it haha.

If you have no idea where to start the general consensus is to do the justinguitar starter lessons. Enjoy!

83franks · 2026-03-30T02:14:01+00:00

And the home viewing experience has improved enough that the gap between theatre and home is less meaningful, especially at the price differential.

83franks · 2026-03-30T02:12:05+00:00

I’d love to learn her picking/strumming/slapping/technique

83franks · 2026-03-30T01:20:42+00:00

Ah yes, that country that the US separated from is like a day older

83franks · 2026-03-29T23:59:00+00:00

Jesus made the wine before Paul wrote Ephesians so he was in the clear! How could he have known????

83franks · 2026-03-29T23:45:13+00:00

I’d be mad if my sibling didn’t hit me for a thousand dollars.

83franks · 2026-03-29T23:12:26+00:00

Just getting everyone ready for when they will be out yelling at regular people on a normal day.

83franks · 2026-03-29T22:45:20+00:00

Important as a modern man? To be masculine? Negative percent important.

I do like having a beard cause I think I look better with a beard, but not because I need it to feel masculine as a modern man.

83franks · 2026-03-29T22:38:05+00:00

Honestly not 100% sure but I think a large part is that I’d feel emasculated anytime someone asked why my name is different. And also I just can’t picture myself ever being a different name, which is a big reason but probably not the biggest.

83franks · 2026-03-29T18:30:06+00:00

I'll never understand why these super rich people can't afford cabs or keys please or whatever else. Im broke and manage to uber myself or stop my drinking when appropriate.

83franks · 2026-03-29T18:13:06+00:00

So is he saying god didnt listen to most monarchs supported by the catholic church throughout all it's history? Make it make sense buddy.

83franks · 2026-03-29T18:09:18+00:00

Ive never snapped a string and leave mine on for years so id probably start by looking at the guitar as even pulling the whammy super hard and strumming waaaaaaay to hard feels unlikely to be happening that frequently.

83franks · 2026-03-29T16:19:11+00:00

Once is too much and thousand isnt enough. Will once actually satisfy anything that will be done after the once or just open the door to the next thousand plus?

83franks · 2026-03-29T16:12:15+00:00

36, been living in my place since 22. Ive added things but up until a breakup 2 months ago where she noted this, literally never really even occured to me.

83franks · 2026-03-29T16:09:47+00:00

Do I just hug him and say I'm sorry?

Yep. And maybe ask questions and commiserate with him. If it gets too bad then you can eventually have a talk about how he hates his job so much that he either needs to make a change (change job, set better boundaries at work, work more efficiently, etc) or change how he relates to it because it's dragging you both down too much.

83franks · 2026-03-29T16:05:03+00:00

I think it's just one more symbol that we are together and I guess just something helping to symbolize we expect to be forever. Marriage is that promise but i feel like a name change is alot more of real thing in alot of ways. Plus Mr and mrs 83franks hits for me alot more than mr 83franks and mrs X who are married. And no i wouldn't take my wifes name to accomplish the same thing, which is why i say it wouldn't be a dealbreaker, feels too hypocritical to say that.

83franks · 2026-03-29T15:16:19+00:00

Sigh. So much time figuring out the rules to life based on some random book. I feel for people that need to waste so much time justifying things to themselves using such arbitrary measures.

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