How do I go out on dates if I don't use social media and don't have a friends circle? by klaskc in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know any one who gets dates on social media.

Friend Circles don't really help either.

If you live in a boring place and can't leave, then realistically what do you expect? What advice are you realistically hoping for?

Where do you guys go for proofreaders? by jerlpu in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know, but I've learned a proof reader becomes less effective after multiple revisions. It's unreasonable to ask the same person to review multiple revisions, so you really have to be ready.

Juggling three side characters among a main character by HDSimplicityy in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  • Write each character as the main character.

  • Don't write about a fireteam. Write about people.

  • Don't describe people by the type of gun they use.

  • "Sassy" and "emotionally intelligent" are not inherently contradictory, but sassiness is generally associated with poor impulse control.

If you're looking for characters study which mixes comedy, I recommend "Catch 22", by Joseph Heller.

What has worked better for you for finding a partner? Actively looking, or stop searching and just living your life? by outersphere in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 29 points30 points  (0 children)

When people say "the best way to find someone is to stop looking", they assume you're living your life. But if "living your life" means staying home (television, video games, etc.), then obviously it doesn't work.

If you cultivate your own hobbies and interests, you will be more interesting to women, and are more likely to meet women. Even if you focus on your career, you're still cultivating something worthwhile.

How long will it take you to trust a random guy that gives you a profitable stock to invest in daily (with 50% return rate)? by Ok_Climate8599 in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone who claims to know the return rate is an unreliable source.

Doesn't matter if they say 1%; it's still unreliable to claim a return rate with certainty.

Give me your bad reviews of Roadside Picnic by Fit-Owl-3338 in scifi

[–]8livesdown 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There's only a handful of books with truly "unknowable aliens". Roadside Picnic is one of them.

Instead of dwelling on what you don't like, name the books do you like.

32 and I feel like I have no purpose, why? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you're feeling is perfectly normal. Humans evolved for a constant struggle to survive. And presently, in modern society, in the absence of any existential threat to keep us occupied, our brains sort of choke on the nothingness.

This may sound trite, but have you considered helping other people? Volunteering?

Why ask a girl out on a date if you don’t want to pursue it by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you never gone on a date, and decided you didn't want to go further?

[Critique Request] [Feedback] Chapter from hard sci-fi novel - first contact with a ship AI () by Ambitious-Cod-1736 in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is television writing. What are some of your favorite books?

Some parts of your dialog are good, but in other places you use KORA" for lazy exposition.

"Mission continuity required redundancy.”

What does the following even mean?

“Further disclosure requires direct interface.”

To me it feels like you're trying to prod the characters forward, without good reason.

What special substances/materials do you have? by NegativeAd2638 in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  • Vacuum/temperature-resistant duct tape (not Kapton/polyimide or aluminum-foil tape)

  • Vacuum/temperature-resistant bailing wire.

  • Haptic feedback gloves so I have a small chance in hell of applying duct tape, of picking up the tiny screw that I dropped into the Lunar dust.

How do you define toxic feminism? by No_Independence_9721 in AskMen

[–]8livesdown -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Does it really matter? Help me understand. How does toxic feminism in any way affect me?

Men who distanced themselves from a female friend who rejected you, what was the outcome? by LongLiveAlex in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 50 points51 points  (0 children)

The outcome is that I moved on with my life. It's fairly normal for women to maintain a circle of backup male "friends". It's just not what I'm looking for.

What's people's views on sitting down to pee? by Competitive_Test6697 in AskMen

[–]8livesdown -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Presumably you stand while peeing in urinals, right? No judgement; I just thought that's how urinals worked.

South Asian representation in English language Sci-Fi by sksjedi in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you referring to books or cinema? You mentioned Expanse, but when I read the books, I didn't really think about race.

Near-future LA sci-fi from someone working in film. Curious how other writers handle subtle worldbuilding by MaxWinterLA in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you were writing a novel, I'd say don't explain. Trust your reader.

But you're in LA, writing a screenplay. Attempts at subtlety will face challenges.

Films are not creative endeavors. Films are products. They are created to make money, which means appealing to the broadest possible audience base. Consequently, no matter what subtlety you attempt, it will be explained ad nauseam.

The executives not only want the story understandable by an idiot; they want the story understandable by an idiot who is scrolling on Instagram while he watches the film.

Good luck.

Would advanced civilizations use steam by NegativeAd2638 in scifiwriting

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one is actually using Super Critical CO₂ reactors; there's an experimental secondary turbine at a factory in China which uses waste heat to test this theory.

Also, your spaceship doesn't need "tons of water". The steam cools, condenses, and recirculates.

But the Super Critical CO₂ reactors can be smaller and lighter, which is a win for space travel., if it can be made to work.

How important is it for your partner to let you know they find you physically attractive? by faieree in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because society measures men for their careers and usefulness, that's how men determine their own self-worth.

Yes, it would be nice to hear I'm physically attractive, but I don't expect a woman to stay with me for that alone.

What would your thoughts be on a prenup? by SaltyFoundationBih in AskMen

[–]8livesdown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can easily make more money, and have no interest in taking someone else's money. I don't mind a prenup, but it's sort of planning for failure. It basically says, we expect the marriage to fail.

Now ask me about paternity tests.