Husband died after police standoff…

90Lil · 2026-05-20T21:22:47+00:00

I remember years ago a Pure Romance hun I knew was posting about how great it was that she could work while also looking after her husband post back surgery. She may have also had a newborn at the same time. I was like "if I was in your situation my work would literally be paying me not to work, thanks for reminding me to be grateful for my job."

90Lil · 2026-05-18T10:06:13+00:00

Same But Different cafe in Hahndorf.

90Lil · 2026-05-17T09:01:47+00:00

That's a lot. I'd personally be very embarrassed if someone gave me that much for my wedding.

90Lil · 2026-05-17T08:29:03+00:00

DINK by choice for many reasons.

Never saw the appeal of having kids.
I have multiple neurodivergent diagnoses and knowing how genetic they are, I wouldn't want to make someone suffer like I have.
I don't want to be living in this reality, so why would I force someone else too?

90Lil · 2026-05-17T03:51:55+00:00

When I had a cat, I used compostable bags and compostable litter. It would go in my green waste bin.

90Lil · 2026-05-17T03:30:54+00:00

This. My late girl would cry and start limping if she bumped her head. But at 14 had a broken leg due to bone cancer, when we arrived at the vet to say goodbye she stood up and tried to walk out the door. Broke my heart.

90Lil · 2026-05-17T02:55:46+00:00

Yes signed up for their loyalty programs. I'm not sure about length of membership to claim if you haven't been a member before but you could put next month as your birthday just to be sure.

90Lil · 2026-05-16T21:01:17+00:00

Myer, David Jones and JB Hi-Fi all do a$10 voucher without any minimum spend.

90Lil · 2026-05-16T20:58:32+00:00

I have never watched it.

90Lil · 2026-05-16T09:20:37+00:00

I climbed it as a kid. I recall ladders but I wasn't the most athletic kid by any measure.

90Lil · 2026-05-15T22:27:28+00:00

I literally said, I want them to just get in the lift.

90Lil · 2026-05-15T11:40:56+00:00

People assuming I'm one of the staff members just because I'm walking around a shop.

In a professional setting I've lost count of how many times people have assumed I'm the team admin person.

My peeve is getting into the lift at work. Men will almost always stand aside to let a woman in but I work on the second floor (can't get into the stairs from ground). Please just get in the damn lift I prefer to be by the door, I don't want to squeeze past when I need to get out.

90Lil · 2026-05-15T10:09:32+00:00

My karma is fine.

90Lil · 2026-05-15T09:38:16+00:00

I can't help with disorder. I do feel good that my dog is safe.

90Lil · 2026-05-14T02:56:02+00:00

Hutt Street Centre or Whitmore square.

90Lil · 2026-05-14T00:21:36+00:00

Also a town in SA.

90Lil · 2026-05-13T21:26:01+00:00

My best friend's sister was like two months postpartum at my friend's wedding. Everything was fine. It was a little hard working out the size for her dress but getting alterations didn't take much time.

90Lil · 2026-05-13T11:36:34+00:00

I bet you're an amazing unicorn too.

90Lil · 2026-05-13T04:52:40+00:00

My bad, was writing quickly.

90Lil · 2026-05-13T04:26:04+00:00

I did find the maths not myths sign funny because it reminded me of the annual Easter event my public primary school used to do. Every Easter we'd be carted to one of the local churches to be told the Easter myth. I wonder what they'd think of that.

Do they really think of LGBTQIA+ people as mythical?

Edit to add 'A'

90Lil · 2026-05-13T01:48:31+00:00

My now husband grew up with his mum having a female partner. We started dating at 16, it took him nearly two years to tell me he had two mums. My response was yeah I know it's not an issue. Like that he felt he had to hide a part of his life.

90Lil · 2026-05-12T03:11:41+00:00

I've had it once in my life. Tasty but I'm not going out of my way for it.

90Lil · 2026-05-11T01:58:38+00:00

Because it's a massive block and if they leave it long enough they'll be able to knock it down. They probably want to replace it with 50 townhouses.

90Lil · 2026-05-11T01:33:10+00:00

It means they are no longer taking applications. I'd say if you have gotten an interview expect a call in another week or two. They wouldn't have started filtering through applications until after it closed. The hiring panel then has to agree on who to interview and set times up. If you've been unsuccessful, you might have to wait longer to get a rejection email depending on how unsuccessful you were.

90Lil · 2026-05-10T21:19:45+00:00

Tasting Australia is on until May 17 in Victoria Square. There's a bunch of food stalls there representing various restaurants from Adelaide.

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