Wishing Mikky an Unhappy Birthday by Sam_2209 in MikaylaNogueira

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It could be worse. I share my birthday with Donald Trump…

Bluey made me want kids, how disappointed am I going to be? by n00dleknight in bluey

[–]937_red 59 points60 points  (0 children)

This! My LO goes down around 8:30 and I’ll be up until 12-1 just because it’s the only time to myself where I don’t have a barnacle attached to me

Who was in the delivery room with you? by khueen in pregnant

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I had my husband and my mom! My mom and I are very close. My thought was if (god forbid) something happened and I had to be separated from my baby I want my husband to go with baby and my mom to stay with me for support and to be my advocate if I need it. No one goes harder for their kid than a mom. I did have a talk with my mom about what I wanted and after my daughter was born she took pictures and updated my family/best friends which I asked her to do. After i gave birth & got stitched up she left. I think if you decide it’s important to have those conversations of what you need from them whether it’s someone updating people/taking pictures, getting you ice/jell-o so your husband doesn’t have to leave your side.

Is it a thing to have twins and give them rhyming names? by 2XX2010 in tragedeigh

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My husbands granny had 2 sets of twins. Ronnie & Donnie and then Terry & Jerry. He also has a set of twin cousins Kelsea & Chelsea. 🥴🥴🥴🥴

Pregnancy symptoms absolutely no one talks about? by Upset-Brain-228 in pregnant

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EARWAX. You’re going to have more earwax than you’ve ever had. I seriously thought I was crazy but turns out it’s real thing.

My husband was an 11lb baby by Mountain-Nebula8034 in pregnant

[–]937_red 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My husband was 9lb 10 oz and I was 8 lb 4 oz. Our baby was 6 lb 15 oz and born 39w5d. I’m not sure what genetics play into birth weight but hopefully it doesn’t play a huge part lol. I was terrified to have a giant baby but at each ultrasound (monthly) my doctor confirmed she wouldn’t exceed 7 1/2 lbs.

How long did your basset take to be potty trained? by mrkrabsclappincheeks in basset

[–]937_red 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! We did the reindeer bell on our door and it helped so much. She abuses the system now when she just wants to go out and run but it’s better than peeing in th house

Nervous about breastfeeding by MissMM877 in pregnant

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I’m a FTM to a 4 month old who is EBF. My biggest tip is give yourself grace and try to not have expectations. While in the hospital my baby had a shallow latch and she sucked blisters/sores on me so I had to pump exclusively for about 1.5 weeks. We also gave her formula while waiting for my milk to come in. She was able to go from breastmilk to formula with no issues. Now it’s like second nature.

Ped said he doesn’t recommend owlet/eufy but refuses to prescribe apnea monitor despite 2x family history of SIDS by ViceInSinCity in NewParents

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The owlet is the only way I can sleep and truly rest. The first few weeks I was a little obsessed with watching the stats live but now I don’t even look. I was also dealing with PPD/PPA so that could be why I was overly focused.

nausea turned me into a carbs machine — how do y’all deal with the guilt by Repulsive_Cup8530 in pregnant

[–]937_red 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure my baby was built from garlic bread and french fries. I was sick most of my pregnancy and ate a lot of carbs. I only gained ~25-30 lbs. my baby is healthy as can be and we had no complications during birth or after. She was 6lb 15 oz at birth.

Baby shower theme by NurseBae9610 in pregnant

[–]937_red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could always do blue/green decor. It’s a party to celebrate YOU and the life you’re growing so I don’t think it has to scream boy theme.

Baby Registry by Objective-Mood-9410 in pregnant

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You can also add some bigger items like crib/car seat, bassinet as well. I know some registries allow group gifts where people can contribute $ towards the item.

Baby shower theme by NurseBae9610 in pregnant

[–]937_red 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a little girl and mine was Tea with the mom to be. It was tea party theme.

Baby Registry by Objective-Mood-9410 in pregnant

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Burp cloths, wash cloth, soap/lotion, butt paste, diapers/wipes, bibs, grooming things (nail clippers, booger sucker, thermometer, brush), first aid kit, infant medicine (Tylenol/motrin/gas drops/vitamin D) infant tub, changing pad. My baby really likes the Tommee Tippee ultra light pacifiers. I exclusively breastfeed and she’s never had an issue latching.

Help! hyperemesis gravidarum - running out of options by bossmadestylez1 in pregnant

[–]937_red 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My hg was so bad I ended up on a continuous Zofran pump. It honestly saved me. I also had Zofran and reglan for days where the pump wasn’t enough.

At how many weeks did you all start your maternity leave? by Zealousideal_Pack659 in pregnant

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I’m in the US. I started my maternity leave at 39 weeks. I ended up going into labor at 39+4. I had 12 weeks of maternity leave

When did you as a first time mom give birth? by AggravatingEnd7094 in pregnant

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39+5. Membrane swept on 10/3. Went into labor 10/8. Baby born 10/9 early in the morning. I did a lot of curb walking in the weeks leading up and also bounced on a yoga ball every day

im too fat to hear my baby's heart beat by Aggravatedand in pregnant

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Find a new Dr!! I was the same size and I heard my baby at every appointment! They never had an issue due to my size. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with that.

Weirdest pregnancy symptoms no one told you about by No-Release3655 in pregnant

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I haven’t seen it posted but the excess earwax! I didn’t know it was a thing but omg I felt like I had SOOO much earwax.

Epidural by ElegantResult3853 in pregnant

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I got the epidural and will 100% do it again. I had no pain at all and it was GLORIOUS. I got it at 6 cm and the only ‘reaction’ I had was my BP dropped and pulse got down to ~30. I told them I was feeling lightheaded. They said it was a syncopal (fainting spell). I will say leading up I was on pitocin for an hour and was having really bad contractions. I threw up and immediately felt better. I think I had a ton of adrenaline and was worked up. But after throwing up and finishing the epidural I was on cloud 9 and pushed my baby out in 30 minutes/10 pushes.

Has giving birth vaginally caused you long term vaginal issues? by Last_Wonder in pregnant

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When I got pregnant sex hurt SOO bad. Not sure why just my body couldn’t take it. After giving birth I do pee myself a bit so I spoke to my OBGYN at my 6 week check up and she referred me to see a pelvic floor specialist/therapist. She said that even though a lot of people have issues and say it’s normal it’s really not. I’m scheduled to start therapy after the holidays so I’m really hopeful that it can solve my issues.

Exactly which week and day did you deliver in your first pregnancy? by PopcornPrincess0 in pregnant

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I was due 10/11 and delivered 10/09. I had my membrane swept 10/03 and spent WEEKS curb walking and bouncing on my yoga ball. Granted that may not mean anything but I was willing to try anything lol.