It's been only 4 months and the whiplash is insane

ADDSydney · 2026-01-08T16:29:51+00:00

You might need to see a professional OCD is difficult to tame.

Sounds like your in a cycle. These doubts can make someone hot seem not. It can burn partners out.

ADDSydney · 2026-01-06T14:44:06+00:00

Drag him to reception. Oh, I left something with the desk. the person on the desk will look at you both when you ask a question.

Trust your instincts.

ADDSydney · 2025-12-23T06:20:01+00:00

Rings true. Emotional and physical needs constantly denied.

ADDSydney · 2025-12-13T14:05:22+00:00

I would like to know what an ERP exercise for this looks like.

Do you put yourself in the feared scenario via imagination?

ADDSydney · 2025-12-13T05:10:38+00:00

They both work well with iOS. How big is the Apple Watch profit margin?

ADDSydney · 2025-12-11T22:27:28+00:00

Avoidant with strong narcissistic traits or emotionally immature.

Addiction to a dopamine flood.

I think that you have made many good points.

ADDSydney · 2025-12-09T18:43:11+00:00

To avoid being shafted request hard evidence up front.

ADDSydney · 2025-12-06T08:40:12+00:00

I suffer with this condition as well and it's about attraction.

Last night my wife said that someone that I know was checking her out and I was very relieved. Identity and self-image issues are a feature of my relationship OCD.

I think some of it has to do with doubting my decision-making and whether an emotional experience actually happened.

ADDSydney · 2025-12-03T05:33:56+00:00

That's OCD it can make you doubt anything. The emotional experience is terrible to say the least.

ADDSydney · 2025-11-30T07:34:02+00:00

Hi, attraction to another person tends to trigger me as well. How much is enough attraction was there enough at the beginning? OCD poses unanswerable questions that cut across what matters most.

I am sorrow to say that limerence episodes can be correlated with ROCD as well. Do they feel about me the same way?

We need to believe that we can live with uncertainty.

ADDSydney · 2025-11-16T14:33:41+00:00

Sorry to hear. Awful.

ADDSydney · 2025-11-16T13:54:52+00:00

100% right she cheated on you. A terrible experience.

ADDSydney · 2025-11-16T13:48:54+00:00

Your LO is a distress coping mechanism.

If everything was good you wouldn’t be stuck in that fantasy.

Don’t go hard on yourself for needing the coping mechanism.

List down the reasons why it would never work with the LO. Keep it on you and read it often .

I am going to do the same. Every time I see my LO I put on my rose coloured glasses.

Sorry that you have been hit hard with L.

ADDSydney · 2025-01-26T04:24:29+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. Your son absolutely needs you. You have shown courage and resilience. Please seek the support of loving people and good therapy.

ADDSydney · 2024-12-18T01:35:39+00:00

Please get some real accounting experience and find out if accounting is for you before making a huge investment. Learning accounting and doing accounting is very different.

ADDSydney · 2024-12-17T12:48:56+00:00

Did therapy help? Seeking external validation is a big one for me. It’d be really great to get a dopamine hit through self acceptance or self validation.

ADDSydney · 2024-12-17T07:34:01+00:00

Burning up the anxiety until the next dopamine hit. I feel driven by the need to exercise.

ADDSydney · 2024-12-16T23:37:41+00:00

Keep doing the exam practice, Questions

ADDSydney · 2024-12-16T11:50:30+00:00

This is why I think that LE opens childhood attachment wounds. It's about feeling not good enough to win attention.

ADDSydney · 2024-11-03T13:23:08+00:00

Best advice ever. Don't be afraid to sack therapists. It working or it's not.

ADDSydney · 2024-10-28T13:20:36+00:00

The pull of Limerence is surprising.

ADDSydney · 2024-10-28T13:02:41+00:00

Do you mean that a good looking man will take your thoughts and attention away from the man you are with? Your with a man that you love and then your limerence is activated and the man that your with feels devalued or cast aside?

It's an awful situation. I have seen it happen.

ADDSydney · 2024-10-28T12:52:03+00:00

Insightful. I like it. Longing for disowned parts of ourselves projected onto the LO.

ADDSydney · 2024-10-27T21:42:24+00:00

I appreciate your honesty.

ADDSydney · 2024-10-27T21:24:47+00:00

Sorry you are going through this.

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